I've dated a few girls (just a few girls-not all my ex's) who try to make the relationship seem like it's at their convenience. And there's no give, they only take, and then try to ask me to do them a favor. Basically they're completely selfish, and I have no respect for them. Zero. And this wasn't snobbishness - these girls seemed laid back, just completely selfish.
I dated another girl who lied about who she was when I first met her, so I'd like the person she described to me, and not who she really was. Lost a lot of respect. But able to gain a lot of it back when she told me what was going on.
I dated another girl who, well, I don't know what to call this one - you just got to read on. She asked a friend of mine of set us up together because I had no idea who she was, she knew my friend through his wife. So we started dating. And we got along great at first. But to give you an idea where this relationship went, the ending argument consisted of her Screaming, not just shouting: "Why won't you Yell at me?!" And I think that statement speaks for itself in terms of what kind of attention she was seeking. I have no respect for this person at all.
I think stuff like this when you treat the person with the respect you think you deserve in return, and you find out it's not what they think - your going to lose respect for them in some way.
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I understand that some women are more free with thier sexuality than other women. I have no problem with that.
I also understand that some women put bitchyness and prissyness up as a front becouse of how they have been treated through thier lives. but it is possible to break down those walls and find the real person in there.
you know what makes me loose respect, 2 things.
1- if she is a slob that does not take care of herself
2: controlling women. I recently hooked up with a woman of who I though was just a bitch as a defense mechanism against all the lame guys that try to get in her pants. in this one rare case I was wrong. all I was to her was a conquest, another man she could control in her "I have the pussy so I make all the rules" frame. the lenghs she was going to to try to get me under control were rediculouse. I got to the point to where the only reason why I diddn't kick her out of my truck on the side of the road was becouse I hated her for her controlling efforts and I wanted to use the chase itself to get back at her.
long story short, I sent her home hot, bothered, in shock that I denyed her sex, and very, VERY confused. and now she won't stop emailing me and calling me. and I have done nothing but ignored her.
oh wait, did I mention I don't like dirty controlling women
Being uptight and prissy, and putting out really fast. It doesn't make them lose respect.so much as interest. I suppose they're one in the same.
Not a guy,but from things I've read in other stories is putting out in most case's.
Being a ho.
Putting out really quickly.
Acting stank.
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Some things that will make me lose respect is if she blames others and/or doesn't take responsibility for her actions. Other things I can't stand is the entitlement attitude a lot of American women have these days. That's a turnoff for sure.
Yeh. too much confidence and snobbiness is definitely going to lose my respect for a girl.
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