You've only met a tiny percentage of guys in your own town never mind worldwide. Everybodies different. Normal guys don't set a preference they just see if anything develops. Why boundary yourself with tastes and rules I say. Let shit just happen
Same girl! Single 3 years now because of the same things. Not going to change who I am to fit into someone's boxes. You do you, we can't all be princesses.
Where are You? Mem dream of women like you. Men flirts and hinters (well I do) That is why young boy like old bags as they don't have to waste with chat. Tell you what they want and boy you get. Now it is rear in young with to find diamond like you.
I only wish I knew you, As you sound like a perfect wife for. Despite our huge age gap. Do you have a lot older sister With you attitude.
At 20 yes young guys will tend to do that. That's because they are still into games and being strong and not afraid to say what you feel means they think you are work to them. When they finally grow up they will realize you're actually the opposite.
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There needs to be a balance between masculine and feminine polarity. If you have masculine traits you are going to click best with guys who have feminine traits.
If you want to attract masculine guys you do need to reign in your outgoingness a bit. This may be difficult to do but consider yourself lucky. It is WAY easier to act shy and coy if you are naturally extroverted vs. acting outgoing if you are introverted.
You're young, so guys your age are immature. They think they like traditional women. Just give it time and men start to learn better about what they actually like in a woman.
Opinion owner... I wouldn't be so quick to say that. Guys especially younger guys at that , are still identifying with how to structure or implement themselfs in their up coming manhood. We guys structure differently than girls and for different reasons to boot. Girls mature physically faster than boys , except our maturity has nothing to do with or can be compared to the maturity of a girl. We identify differently. We also learn differently than girls and for completely different reasons. For 26 years. iv'e taught offensive martial arts with sessions of both men and women of all ages , it more destructive and lethal than defensive arts. My point is that I've found that girls strictly tend to want to strife above and beyond their capability's through defensive measures , while guys foundate stronger with offensive measures as a foundation of confidence and ambition towards completion of fundamental truths that propel the forward instead.
I love your kind of personality. Sometimes guys will misinterpret independence as not wanting to be in a relationship. So you might have to be a little more straight forward about wanting to be in a relationship. Also don’t wait too long after meeting a guy. Once a friendship starts it’s hard to move it into a relationship.
Just be yourself. There will always be someone out there that will want you for who you are. Don't change it. Who doesn't want a woman who can get shit done?
Noone evidently! Like, I get it, they probably are feeling useless if I can kill a spider and don't their need during move out. But i need emotional support as everyone else! Any advices on how to translate it to them?🤔
If anyone feels "useless" because their girlfriend is slightly different they aren't meant to be together. The only way you can translate yourself to people is to be open and honest. If they don't accept you, why bother?
Nah. I would prefer girls like you because according to me you look sexy and cool. And I myself; being a shy guy, find it hot to find a girlfriend who is opposite of me. As they say, opposites attract...😂
Are you a whore? Men might be getting the impression that you’re immodest and slutty, and thus don’t want to date you. Men absolutely do not want to date slutty women, despite what they might tell you.
That's what I'm afraid of basically. I'm very reserved and would not overshare about my personal life, but I don't mind answering practical questions and giving advice, because I think it's a natural part of human life and if someone struggles with it - I should help if I can. Like if a girl is asking me how to give blowjob, I would tell her what I know, but if she start asking me whom I did it recently, I would refuse to answer. I'm just... I don't consider it as whorish behavior, but I'm scared others would think so
It depends on what you understand about being a feminine. if it means wandering around with too much make up, no itis a turn off for me but if it means being a girl who in the picture you shared, yeah she looks lovely :)
They'll assume you like girls. I would prefer someone somewhat straightforward. But then again would you be comfortable with a slightly more feminine boyfriend? Thats what i want to know.
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You've only met a tiny percentage of guys in your own town never mind worldwide. Everybodies different. Normal guys don't set a preference they just see if anything develops. Why boundary yourself with tastes and rules I say. Let shit just happen
This guy knows whats up
Same girl! Single 3 years now because of the same things. Not going to change who I am to fit into someone's boxes. You do you, we can't all be princesses.
That's hot shows confident. You just don't have real mean in your area sweetie
@onepunchman01 maybe the men in my area just don't like girls like me. That's fine.
Nah a woman like you need a real men. Don`t settle for less or accept less
@onepunchman01 well I've yet to find one
fingers crossed for you sweetie
You're surrounded by idiots and you don't know how lucky you are not to have been trapped in a relationship with one.
There's all kinds of guys out there who would think you were perfect, I highly encourage you NOT to settle for anything less.
Where are You? Mem dream of women like you. Men flirts and hinters (well I do) That is why young boy like old bags as they don't have to waste with chat. Tell you what they want and boy you get. Now it is rear in young with to find diamond like you.
I only wish I knew you, As you sound like a perfect wife for. Despite our huge age gap. Do you have a lot older sister With you attitude.
At 20 yes young guys will tend to do that. That's because they are still into games and being strong and not afraid to say what you feel means they think you are work to them. When they finally grow up they will realize you're actually the opposite.
There needs to be a balance between masculine and feminine polarity. If you have masculine traits you are going to click best with guys who have feminine traits.
If you want to attract masculine guys you do need to reign in your outgoingness a bit. This may be difficult to do but consider yourself lucky. It is WAY easier to act shy and coy if you are naturally extroverted vs. acting outgoing if you are introverted.
You're young, so guys your age are immature. They think they like traditional women. Just give it time and men start to learn better about what they actually like in a woman.
I wasn't immature at that age and i knew a lot of guys that were'nt either.
@Djaaay That's good but most of the guys I know of that age just don't know what they want.
Opinion owner... I wouldn't be so quick to say that. Guys especially younger guys at that , are still identifying with how to structure or implement themselfs in their up coming manhood. We guys structure differently than girls and for different reasons to boot. Girls mature physically faster than boys , except our maturity has nothing to do with or can be compared to the maturity of a girl. We identify differently. We also learn differently than girls and for completely different reasons. For 26 years. iv'e taught offensive martial arts with sessions of both men and women of all ages , it more destructive and lethal than defensive arts. My point is that I've found that girls strictly tend to want to strife above and beyond their capability's through defensive measures , while guys foundate stronger with offensive measures as a foundation of confidence and ambition towards completion of fundamental truths that propel the forward instead.
I love your kind of personality. Sometimes guys will misinterpret independence as not wanting to be in a relationship. So you might have to be a little more straight forward about wanting to be in a relationship. Also don’t wait too long after meeting a guy. Once a friendship starts it’s hard to move it into a relationship.
Just be yourself. There will always be someone out there that will want you for who you are. Don't change it. Who doesn't want a woman who can get shit done?
Noone evidently! Like, I get it, they probably are feeling useless if I can kill a spider and don't their need during move out. But i need emotional support as everyone else! Any advices on how to translate it to them?🤔
If anyone feels "useless" because their girlfriend is slightly different they aren't meant to be together. The only way you can translate yourself to people is to be open and honest. If they don't accept you, why bother?
I'm just worried I'll end up all alone with a cat. I never had a boyfriend because every time they stand me up because they "don't feel like man".
And I'm thinking maybe I could change something about myself to seem more weak and let them feel more manly and powerful?
Don't change yourself for anyone. Someone who likes you for you will always come along.
Thanks I guess, doesn't solve my problem, but sounds very reassuring 😅
Nah. I would prefer girls like you because according to me you look sexy and cool. And I myself; being a shy guy, find it hot to find a girlfriend who is opposite of me. As they say, opposites attract...😂
Nowadays I think most men don't like the "tradionally feminine" girl. In my country at least they prefer a more edgy girl.
You sound great. Be you.
It's probably that they are not used to women like you so a cutesy girl is more obviously accessible and non threatening.
Are you a whore? Men might be getting the impression that you’re immodest and slutty, and thus don’t want to date you. Men absolutely do not want to date slutty women, despite what they might tell you.
That's what I'm afraid of basically. I'm very reserved and would not overshare about my personal life, but I don't mind answering practical questions and giving advice, because I think it's a natural part of human life and if someone struggles with it - I should help if I can. Like if a girl is asking me how to give blowjob, I would tell her what I know, but if she start asking me whom I did it recently, I would refuse to answer. I'm just... I don't consider it as whorish behavior, but I'm scared others would think so
How many men have you had sex with?
You seem fine, I think the men who have said that to you were low quality
fuckem! if they don't like you for who you are, then being in a relationship with them isn't going to be worth putting on an act for is it?
Obviously it varies. But I thinks across the board the majority of guys like cute/submissive and sometimes a little tomboyish loud mouth kind of girl.
Same tbh. I notice a lot of guys dislike it. I know there’s still guys out there that don’t mind though.
It depends on what you understand about being a feminine. if it means wandering around with too much make up, no itis a turn off for me but if it means being a girl who in the picture you shared, yeah she looks lovely :)
I know what those words mean, but I have no idea what they mean together in this context.
They'll assume you like girls. I would prefer someone somewhat straightforward. But then again would you be comfortable with a slightly more feminine boyfriend? Thats what i want to know.