I'm an extreme extrovert so I prefer a shyer girl because she generally helps me balance my life a bit better and get some me time in which I don't do on my own ever and I help them come out of their shell a bit which they appreciate and I like the balance. That's at least how it's been in past relationship.
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I like confidence I'm women, but that doesn't mean a shy person can't be confident. If you are making choices for yourself, and not because you are worried about what people or society thinks, then I'll fall for you. I think some shyness is cute, and the intrigue makes me want to get to know them.
Outgoing girls probably get more attention but why not like shy girls if they are only shy at the beginning :P
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I prefer shy because I am a shy person myself who only has a few close friends. I just feel I'd have more trust in a shy girl because the less friends she has, the less chance she'll cheat or leave me for someone else.
Both, because on one hand a shy girl you could find out pretty interesting stuff about a shy girl that you would have never guessed but on the other hand an outgoing girl is much more easier to talk to and in my case because I'm shy can carry a conservation better while I just nod my head
Ahy girls are harder understand at first and takes more effort to get them to open up to you which i find attractive
And for the fact most guys won't won't stick around for her to open her shell lol
Unless she is alrdy in love with himWhen you are young you go for the shy ones I guess maybe because you are inexperienced and you want someone your level. As a man outgoing for sure. I want to have fun and I want her to have fun with me. If something feels right... dont hesitate.
I'd like someone who loves themselves and is confident. No like narcissistic, but knows that they are enough.
I prefer someone in the middle. but if I had to pick one probably shy.
Different guys like different girls. I've always been the shy type and some guys loved that about me.
Probably outgoing girls because they are generally better at conversation than shy girls, but shy girls can be cool too.
I think it depends but I like shy girls because I think they're quiet and I'm very attracted to that because if you're quiet you're mysterious and that's very cool
Shy girls since I'm a pretty shy person myself so usually you have lots of weird bonding time with them once ya both open up and that's what can make lasting memories
Depends on the guy.. but I like quiet girls. Introverts usually are pretty sweet. But aren't open with their feelings
I do prefere outgoing like harley quinn lol or jinx a crazy one
I prefer outgoing but not too much. Someone who is comfortable in her own skin and knows what she wants
I like a balance of both but if I had to pick one I'll go with shy girls because they're super cute
I like shy girls, but then, Its hard to know if they like me because I am also shy.
I think it depends on the person, personally, I prefer outgoing
I'm crazy outgoing and not all guys are into it
Shy girls drive me crazy (in a good way).
Best combo is a little bith of both
Outgoing girls get more dates. That's all I know.
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