How to be irresistible to men?

[Anonymous]

How can a girl almost make any man fall for her? No nasty answers I'm serious this is for a project I'm working on I need very well thought responses.

[Anonymous]

How can a girl "almost make" any man fall for her? (As in, every man she tries to make fall for her, she "almost" succeeds? Isn't that the story of every girl's life already?)

Do you mean:

How can a girl make "almost any man" fall for her? (As in, almost every man she tries to make fall for her, she succeeds?)

It's pretty easy, it's just that nobody really lets it happen. You have to cater to what guys want, but in doing so, you would be going against the social pressures in place to prevent you from doing that.

Guys want a girl that's attractive (as in; appearance), sexy (as in; turns him on), highly sexual (as in; naturally, not because she's pretending to be), but only to him. Guys want a girl that's intelligent and smart, but not sneaky or manipulative. Guys want a girl that's loving and emotionally close and connected, but not being clingy or needy. Guys want a girl that appreciates him taking care of her, but never asks for anything. Guys want to feel like they're strong and successful and able to protect the girl; but at the same time don't want the girl to be physically, emotionally or financially weak and dependent either. And lastly, guys have no incentive to be married. So if they find a girl who has all of the qualities mentioned before, who doesn't believe in marriage; that's the perfect girlfriend.

Minor things like her boobs being a 34B instead of a 34D, or an extra 10 or 20 pounds, or the shape or size of her butt, or what she does for a living, or the way she talks, or the things she's into, etc; all become meaningless in the grand scheme of things. They become meaningless, because in front of the whole package, they're really not that important. A guy wouldn't say, you know what, forget someone like her, I'm gonna go look for a girl that has 34Ds but has a headache every-time I'm in the mood to have sex.

The only problem is, as you guessed it, that "being" this type of woman naturally, is unrealistic. Not because it's physically impossible, but because it's emotionally impossible. Everyone has an ego. Everyone has a sense of pride and respect for themselves. And as loving and caring as people can be, people are also selfish too, and they want things. To cater to the other person completely, is to not cater to yourself at all. And although that may work in the short-run, in the long-run, this type of person is unrealistic.

Which brings us to our conclusion, that when a woman is "irresistible" to men; men want to avoid her. Why? Because most likely she's not real, and if she is real, it will only be temporarily, until her incentive to be that way (getting married) is attained, in which case she'll change and no longer be that way anymore.

So, as simple as guys are, there's unfortunately no consistent way to get any guy to like a girl.

[Asker]

Very well thought out and explained in a mans view -love it

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

A girl who is sexy will always be liked by any man, so it is important to invest in your physical appearance. If a guy finds you physically attractive, you will always have a chance with him.

That is why slutty girls always get the most guys. They appeal to them sexual, and the guys go crazy for them. The guys won't, however, fall in love with the girl. Unless they guy is purely physical and the only thing he looks for in a relationship is sex. If that's the case, all you have to do is give him what he wants, which is sex. And that way you'll always have him.

Men who want just sex are very small-minded though, and they're the minority. Most guys want something else, so in order to make them fall for you you will have to show him you have other things to offer him besides just sex. Only then will he be able to fall for you.

There's no rule on what guys want besides sex, but I'll give you an example for what works for me. I just love a girl who likes video games, and who is always trying to make me smile. So if a girl is attractive, loves playing video games, and is always trying to make me smile by doing retarded/silly sh*t, asking me weird questions, or simply saying stupid things, I don't think I would ever get bored of her.

But that's just me, and different guys want different things. There is no personality that will work for the majority of men.

[Asker]

Thanx! you actually made sense ill use this one

[Anonymous]

If you try to please everyone you end up pleasing no one. I think you know this already, for example if a guy is goth he probably won't go for a preppy girl, if a guy is preppy he won't go for goth... So why not say specifically what kind of guy you want?

[Asker]

No this is a project I'm working on I needed responses from real people basically what kind of girl will always be liked by any guy personality wise

[Opinion Owner]

You can't be liked by everyone! name me one person, male or female that everyone likes, maybe if you cure cancer or something, and even there I'm sure there would be people who get p*ssed off at you for messing with the nature of life

[snoopyashark]

You are not the money.You can't make any man fall for you.

[Asker]

Um this is not for me if you read the explaination

[snoopyashark]

Err...Maybe I think you are smarter and more unique compared with other girls.

[Anonymous]

Beer...lots of flesh and feminine wyles