I have learned it depends how you come across. If you always go "Hey" and ask "whats up?" and "what are you doing?" and that's about it. Then that can get really annoying. Or you talk about how much you like him that can too come off as desperate or needy. But if you do message him everyday and tell him something funny that happened in your day or send him a link to something funny I don't see that as desperate or needy or being too aggressive. Its all how you do it. I mean I know to me I love a girl who texts me everyday, when its not just "Hey" "what's up?" "What are you doing?" and "your hot!". Those kind of texts all the time turn me off to the person fast.
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Girls usually like to talk a lot more than guys do, while guys usually prefer to do things (not just sex but go DO stuff rather than just talk). It can be good to text a lot, especially if you don't get to see each other a lot, but if you see each other often you gotta realize he doesn't want to spend every second talking to you and needs some space.
Damn I'm in the same situation...and I'm think of jersey shore now lol
try to think of it positivly, maybe he's busy ^.^
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If you lay off the frequent text then he just might text more. You have a life and he has one, too. So don't come off as this super aggressive woman. Your young so if he's interested then he will text. Go with his tempo cause if you try to make him go at yours then you will lose him. Trust me.
I don't mind girls that text now and then.. But when a girl texts and starts a endless conversation that's annoying.. Like I feel bad not texting her back, but if I do ill get a text back instantly.. I've got better things to do in the day than be glued to my phone, if you want to talk. ring him
A guy can have his phone turned off, since he gave you his number it shows he likes you and so you will not annoy him by doing so. He may also not want to look eager. But you will not look desperate or needy, because texting regularly is also a friendly gesture as well.
You shouldn't send texts frequently,you should act as a missish girl.
I always text first. It's annoying. I'm like why can't you maintain the convo for once. I don't want to all the time. Anyway I would love for a girl to text me daily.
I believe if he is interested on you, probably he will be happy with your texting !
Why can't a girl text me everyday? Id love it!
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