She's not nervous around me anymore, is that good or bad?

[Anonymous]

For a while this girl seemed very nervous most of the time around me. It got really bad at one point. I was torn between thinking she didn't like me and that maybe she did. She'd want to chat sometimes online, despite acting awkward in person. Now though, she's not nearly as nervously, and is starting to tease me, and joke around a lot more. So what the hell? I'm not complaining, I just find it odd. Either she hated me and doesn't anymore, or she liked me and she lost interest, right?

Note: She is NOT my girlfriend. I don't even know if she likes me back.

[TOXiCLOV3]

WOW are you sure your not the guy I'm seeing? he is 28 and I'm 19. so the age thing up there is wierd. I am way nervous around this guy Chad! he is so cute. I like to send him messages on facebook and In person I would be awkward, like we were in his car and he put his hand on my knee and I totally grabbed his arm and threw it at the steering wheel lol which sends him the message that you don't want him touching you but really, I like him soooooooo much. And same with us, I act awkward in person like he asks me something and I get nervous laugh and turn around! AWKWARD lol She didn't lose interest, She is just likeing the fact of having you around now, she is getting used to you.. not so nervous, she knows you more and trying to not act wierd.. lol at least that's what happened to us. lol Also, same with us HE is NOT my BF... I say something about hanging out with someone and he tells me not to cheat so he must think were dating! so anyways I asked him how many other girls he is seeing on a text and he sent back "IM NOT A CHEATER.." does that mean He is with me? hmm lol I don't want to push it but I do like him. Also we promised since we have known each others Family but not each other for years that we would not tell anyone so he tells his brother, the one I know best! great my whole family knows now and they are all saying were dating, so I guess it has to be final lol but hey I'm not complaining :) so your question, if a girl is nervous about you she likes you A LOT! like you make her feel like your out of her league. so she is nervous to whether you like her.. but she likes you a lot and she is getting to know you and the more she knows the less nervous she is! :) hope this helps.. this is trippy, your not chad are you lol! :) anyways ttyl

[Asker]

It's me, Chad!! lol, Just playing. Thanks so much for the feedback, you've helped me out a great deal. Best of luck to you guys, it sounds like it's going really good.

[TOXiCLOV3]

Haha that kinda made my heart jump lol I hope it is not you lol but I know it wouldn't he is always too busy to be online lol but yeah that is trippy the same thing happens to us.. If you have the same situation then you will be doing good too lol I went and chilled with him at work last night and I was so nervous worst than the first time lol He just laughs at me, Its cute lol anyways ttyl

[Anonymous]

Sometimes for me, I'm more nervous around guys I like that I haven't known for a long time. But after I get to know them better I feel more comfortable and can just be myself more. Maybe she feels comfortable being around you and now it's easier for her to joke around with you.

[ionlywantyou]

Just cause she's not nervous around you anymore doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it just means she is really comfortable being around you and being herself.