My boyfriend farts, burps and swallows his mucus a lot in front of me, and I don't like it! What do I do?

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He is a nice guy, also good looking, we have been together for 2 years, and just two months ago we moved in together, i found out that he will literally push the fart out the one that makes a sound in front of me anywhere, in the car, or even when i am sitting next to him eating, and when i tell him he laughs about it and says that it is nothing and everyone farts, he also drinks a lot of beer and cola and will keep burping loudly while i am talking to him, he also finds this one normal and nothing that he needs to stop, to make things worse, yesterday he was a little sick and while talking to him i saw him pushing his nose mucus (The green thing) from his nose to his throat and swallowing them ! EWW! i asked him if he swallows them and he said yes! because i am sick and there is a lot in his face! damn! that one just killed me,, i know we all may do those things, but i think that some of them have to be secretly done to keep the attraction and desire of the other partner, i see being that OBVIOUS is not a sign of love or comfort but carelessness or taking your partner for guaranteed!, now, although i love him so much, i can't help but thinking of those disgusting things and losing my sexual desire towards him! no girl wants to know that her sexy boy is full of farts, bad breath burps and even more! mucus down his throat! ew! .. In return, i always make sure i smell good, look good, i paid a lot of money to get a laser hair removal on all the imp parts of my body, i also invest a lot of money on lingerie and perfumes, and make sure i dont do any of these dirty habits in front of him! what do i do? do i talk seriously about it? do i tell him that it is turning me off? i dont want to hurt him :( or make him feel uncomfortable,,

freakyzeaky · Accepted Answer

Farting and burping once in a while is one thing, but doing it all the time just to spite you is another.

I know some guys who have the worst smelling farts imaginable. Their girlfriends hate it but they also tolerate it and joke about it. It is almost playful and it is odd because it seems to increase their attraction because of how uncompromising their boyfriends are about it.

Personally, I would try to do these things in a "safe" area, but that isn't always possible. The mucus thing though is disgusting.

markscott · Accepted Answer

It's more than habit. He is knowingly being disrespectful of you. It seems that you need to get over it, and accept his farts and burps and disrespect, or make it clear that things will not go well if he doesn't pay attention to your needs. This disrespect will likely gradually get worse, and will probably get into other ares of your relationship, if not stopped now.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He's a guy, they do those things! It's like him telling you he's less attracted to you when you are on your period. It's been 2 months, you'll get used to it. I 've been living with mine for 5 years and I still don't fart in front of him, but I burp like a man and I'm sure he's heard me. We ladies, like to be ladies and actually care about the way we look and smell. Let him be a dude as long as he keeps his manners in front of other people. It's called being comfortable, that's a good thing!

ciitruskiwi · Accepted Answer

I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. Him farting, burping and all that doesn't make me less attracted to him. If normal bodily functions is enough to make you lose attraction to your boyfriend then maybe you shouldn't be dating him. There are very trivial things to lose attraction over.

Chanel1981 · Accepted Answer

You are going to have to talk to him seriously about this, absolutely disgusting and disrespectful!

abc3643 · Answer

Yes tell him it turns you off. Some drama may ensue but how that drama plays out is an important factor in the determination of whether the relationship will last or not.

Tuomaaash · Answer

Yeah talk to him about it. We all have nasty habits and it´s part of life. Just let him know it turns you off and you don´t want to see that and he should stop. If he doesn´t, that´s a problem

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Sounds like he needs to be told to grow up , he is showing his true immature side. You should talk things over and tell him how it makes you feel.

MarshallAllister · Answer

That's husband material, babe. If he does all that then he's comfy with you just as you should be comfy to blast a fart right in his mouth

TruthOfCoral · Answer

Just gotta tell him or he'll never stop and you'll eventually lose complete interest in him

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

Its normal... we women fart too. You can't say you never farted.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him it's a serioys turn off, & more importantly that if he continues, you'll lose sexual desire in him. That'll do a number on him to think about it.
Also, tell him that it's a sign of carelessness to you &;not live. Tell him or he won't stop.

txdiie_ · Answer

communication is key so tell him 🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑

zagor · Answer

Sounds like the guy who used to sit next to me at work. He's not from China, is he?

Dog19 · Answer

Tell him, this is so gross and strange but it's nice he's so open to you

Sha84 · Answer

very disrespectful person, you should tell him stop or you will end relationship

Anonymous · Answer

R u kidding. He should be looking for your replacement already

ch1pmunk143 · Answer

Tell him how you're feeling

Jayson101 · Answer

Ewwww. Don;t let him do that

Flower-petal · Answer

Gross, tell him to knock it off

CT_CD · Answer

Fart, burp and swallow your mucus in front of him

omda-aden · Answer

it's okay you'll get used to it

FreddyBoy2724 · Answer

Tell him, trust me, he'll understand.

Greekorean97 · Answer

Do Back at him lol.

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