Is it bad that I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year but I can’t bring myself to fart in front of him?

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Apparently other couples fart in front of each other but I can’t bring myself to even though I get stomach pains from holding it in 😂 he has claimed though that he has farted in front of me I just haven’t noticed lmao

TurboKid · Accepted Answer

I still like the way where we do it in private. That said, my wife sometimes farts in her sleep. It's like a warm wind on my thigh followed by a smell. She's a ginger fanatic so it tends to smell like ginger to me when she farts in her sleep. I've gotten used to it. I know her farts almost as intimately as I know my own. That said, she never deliberately farts in front of me.

EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

No, it's normal to still feel uncomfortable with this. I mean, a year isn't even a long time too. Your personal comfort with someone knows no timeline, as some couples become extremely comfortable with one another after a few days. I think all of this depends on chemistry.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think when he says he did it around you, he is giving you permission if you have to do that to avoid stomach pain. You don’t have to be perfect acting or looking all the time to keep people happy, just having more good behaviours than bad is enough for mostly all decent people.

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

Took me a long time honestly. Lol. My parents used to fart all the time and I thought it was so gross. When I was pregnant they just came out. Lol

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

It's a personal comfort level, everyone is different. My boyfriend & i fart in front of one another. He will go as far to blame it on the dog or cats if it's too "vocal" even if the animals aren't in the room, or even on the same level of the house.

hahahmm · Answer

It's not 'bad'. It's just you aren't comfortable doing it. So what.

I have zero interest in a woman who acts just like a dude so I'm all for women having a little class. Doesn't mean she never can... just there's a big difference between forcing out a deadly bomb and having an accident.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if it’s something you want to do. I fart around my boyfriend basically 24/7, I get him to pull my finger, Dutch oven him, fart on him, etc. Same thing with belching, he knows I’m gassy and I fart a lot but he finds it hilarious. He, on the other hand, never does any of that in front of me. People have different comfort levels with that sort of thing, so there’s no right or wrong answer.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never farted on purpose in front of my long term ex's either, nobody wants to smell that lol
it only happened one time during sex out of our 3 year relationship for each of us
he did it in his sleep too it was just silent and deadly and i never told him

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electromagnetic · Answer

You will one day don’t stress over it. You just gotta find your comfort space first. I used to make my boyfriend play music super loud so he wouldn’t listen to me poo.

Paige90 · Answer

Farting is gross whether a male or female does it. Do it in private!

Anonymous · Answer

Been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I still try not to fart in front of him lol. Actually, we both try not to fart in front of each other. Yes, farting is normal, but I also believe in maintaining some element of mystery with each other.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I have been with my wife for 19 years and she does but I still can't. I still don't let her in the bathroom when I am in there either.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I get that you were probably brought up to not do that in public and that is commendable, but when it gets to the point of causing you pain, you really need to rethink that ideal.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Oh wow I know one time I had an embarrassing moment in my former therapist office and I had a bowel movement coming on me and I was leaving farts and wow soon as I got out of there I went to the bathroom and took one hell of a shit LMAO

Still-alive · Answer

not bad but just relax lol. let em loose. you're human and he should get that

Luminair3 · Answer

It's not bad, it's just that you're still shy to do it. Next time he farts, you do the same, thereafter neither of you will hide your farts 😂. It'll become normal.

UnicornU · Answer

No, I don’t fart in front of my girlfriend either so it’s not a big deal. You’re not alone in this 😃

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Go ahead!! Let fly!! Feel those cheeks a-flapppin' in the breeze!! BBBBBBBRRRRRRRAP!!! You can always blame it on the cat!! "No, seriously!! I saw her cheeks move!"

SandandWaves · Answer

It's up to you, You don't have to do that, I wouldn't hold it in, that hurts you, just do it somewhere else...

Interstate · Answer

You're just self-conscious. Just eat a can of baked beans, and the next time the two of you go to see a movie, just let nature take it's course 😁

Miah02 · Answer

Yeah, let that shit out. He either gonna love all of you or not.

Mpodere · Answer

farting is normal, at first it is normal to hold back. it's a natural thing that like you said, all couples do.

Leavesbound · Answer

There is a good chance he may not notice unless you're sitting on his face while you're doing it.

exitseven · Answer

It not so bad. My wife used to be like that. I was just the opposite. After a while it sort of rubbed off on her.

ohshee · Answer

You need to learn how to relax and then ask him to pull your finger Let er Rip Tater chip

ToastyOats · Answer

It is impossible to hold in farts. You are constipated with a side of gas. Eat smaller meals and drink more water in between. Maybe then you will have the joy Cover Smothers.

Surely · Answer

I usually try to walk away a few steps before letting one rip. That way if it smells, they don’t need to smell your butt. Just being courteous! If your boyfriend does it. Turn about is fair play!

GhostMochi · Answer

This question made me laugh way more than it should have. 😂😂😂

Andres77 · Answer

I'm sure it's not a relationship goal for many but if you gotta go then you gotta go.

Deku2009 · Answer

Nope not bad at all but if one slips out then don’t be embarrassed

EaterPeter · Answer

Not bad. I mostly feel uncomfortable. Even after years.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

First off girls don't fart they punt🤣🤣🤣🤣 and don't worry about that you will eventually

bannacookies · Answer

Its normal. Everyone does it.

W3irdo · Answer

Nope. I’d never fart infront of my boyfriend on purpose. I’d hope he’d try the sake for me

Libbers · Answer

Omg. Best post of the day. Girls don’t fart.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

For your stomach yeah

Anonymous · Answer

Normal farting or pussy fart lol

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Haha I don't know.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

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