Im 21, never had a boyfriend and never been kissed, is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

So I've never been in a relationship. And not in that "ive been on dates but just never gone further than a few dates" kinda way. Like I've never even been asked out. Its like guys dont see me. I never got asked to dances in high school, i went to prom as the only one in my group without a date. Im about to start my last yr of college and I've never been approached by a guy in that way. About never being kissed. I've been kissed once. About a year ago one of my guy friends kissed me, and i won't lie, it was not a good kiss. I've got nothing to compare it to but i can definitely tell you it wasn't good. It was like taking a trip to saliva city. But since then I've constantly been wondering was the kiss bad because of me? I missed out on that awkward teen stage where you're supposed to figure out how kissing works. So here i am 21 years old, terrified of the idea that someone may actually decide to ask me out for once, because i have no clue what im supposed to do when it comes to kissing. And the fact that no guys ever seem to want to talk to me in a "more than a friend" kind of way, just makes me feel even more like there's something wrong with me. But I don't know what im really asking here. I guess i just wanna know that im not as crazy as i feel...

[Unit1]

*raises hand* 22, never had a girlfriend, never kissed, virgin here.

Maybe we can put an end to this together?

But for real now - nothing wrong with it! I am actually surprised, that there are a few women out there, who also never had a boyfriend, kiss and sex.

[NightOwl_23]

I know how you feel, Im 23 and a virgin. I have never even kissed or held hands with a girl and no girls ever seem to be interested in me.

[NightOwl_23]

What are your hobbies and interests?

[marvink9]

No, you are not crazy. If the guys won't approach you, then you approach them. To be honest not being in a relationship I'm college, probably help you out in the long run. Don't worry about it, your Mr. Right will find you when the time is right.

[LJof300]

There ain't nothing wrong with you, its probally for the better until you find someone you truly love. Love is like a fart, if you haveto force it then it is probally shit.

[normielover6969xD]

Im 18
Kissless virgin
Never dated ever
Waiting for the right woman.
Nothing wrong with that

[jirwin7979]

try my age and being a guy its worse no girl wants me

[anontanony]

first question. what do you look like

[Asker]

I mean im not gonna post a pic, but im black, 5'6, shoulder length hair, im not ugly if thats what you're asking lol. I've had plenty of guys hit on me, just never ask me on like a real date

[Unit1]

" I've had plenty of guys hit on me, just never ask me on like a real date "

So you basically expect them to do all the work rather than asking them out for yourself?

[Asker]

@Unit1 I've asked out a lot of guys, but I've been turned down so many times. My self esteem can only handle so much. I need at least 1 yes in that sea of no

[Unit1]

I see. You have my condolences lady.

[Anilkumar3277]

I think you really bad

[Anonymous]

Quite common around your age

[cutepoison12341]

gagaga.. fucking lier... :-D

[Asker]

Liar is spelled with an "a" and why would i be lying?

[cutepoison12341]

I don't know but u are faking it..

[Asker]

Ok whatever