Whats Your Opinion on Incels?

[Anonymous]

I recently discovered this group because reddit decide to shut them down. According to the definition of "Incel" I'm one of them (Never had any time of relationship and not because I didn't want to) but everyone says they're misogynistic and blame women for their problems.
But I'm not like that so am I still considered and Incel or what?

And what's your take on incels?

[DovahMuuliik]

No you're not considered as such.
incel:
aka "involuntarily celibate", a person (usually male) who has a horrible personality and treats women like sexual objects and thinks his lack of a sex life comes from being "ugly" when its really just his blatant sexism and terrible attitude. incels have little to no self awareness; even when they see other "ugly" men with girlfriends, they consider these men to be tricksters who have somehow beat the system and can get women despite being cursed with unattractiveness (in other words, theyre respectful to women and women are attracted to their personalities, but incels can't comprehend such a phenomenon). they believe that women owe them sex, and many of the more extreme incels like to spend time in incel communities on the internet coming up with ways to make women have sex with them (often involving genocide of people of color, genocide of "Chads" (men who have sex), taking rights away from women, raping them, having sex with women's dead bodies, and other horrid, disgusting things. they can't understand that that is PRECISELY why women want nothing to do with them).

Do you do any of those horrid things or think such things about woman? Are you unaware or do you have a horrible personality? if not then you're not an incel.

[Asker]

Jesus... didn't know they were such horrible persons.
But if I'm not an "Involuntary Celibate" then what am I exactly?

[DovahMuuliik]

Just someone who has been a little unlucky, you're still young. I wouldn't give up so early. You're my age. There's still tons of time. Travel maybe, do something you love. People tend to be attractive also when they are doing what they love.

[DovahMuuliik]

Is that you in the picture?

[Asker]

Well... When you don't win the "genetic lottery" giving up is really tempting

[Asker]

Yess

[Asker]

That's me in the picture

[DovahMuuliik]

How exactly are you ugly?

[Asker]

Well throughout my life people I've met have often told me I was ugly because "my face bends in strange ways" and have a "really big jaw and head"
Sooo I guess when a lot if people tell you that you are unattractive you just assume the fact

[DovahMuuliik]

I don't think you're unattractive, do you think you're unattractive cause of what people say or is it just your own opinion?

[Asker]

Kind of like a mix of both and also because I haven't got any girl to even be remotely interested in me.

[DovahMuuliik]

It's cause you're shy right? SO you struggle to communicate with girls?

[Asker]

Sorry to leave you like this but I'm about to take the plane to Italy so I'll answer you in about 2 hours

[DovahMuuliik]

no problem, answer when you can and thanks for telling me :)

[Asker]

Hello again, well usually I'm not shy unless there are a lot of people, but I am very private and antisocial...

[DovahMuuliik]

Well there's nothing wrong with being antisocial, i am too. I really don't think there's anything wrong with your looks, what do you say to girls? maybe it's the way you approach them or talk to them that might be the problem.

[Asker]

Thank you, but I do think its my looks, because I have friends who are incredibly shy and not confident but are mildly attractive and they are generally doing ok with girls.
Anyway I'm working hard to be able to get son facial surgery done, so I guess there's still hope

[DovahMuuliik]

But you're still so young, You want to change your looks based on what a few people said and just cause no one went for you yet before you were 19. I'd say give it a chance, wait. Facial surgery will just make you look fake, it didn't do any wonders for michael Jackson nor for most woman. I was a late bloomer too, didn't have guys going for me till I was 18, now i don't have any guys going for me and i'm your age.

[DovahMuuliik]

You don't even look unattractive, those people are talking nonsense.

[Asker]

Yeah but you are very pretty if you go around asking you'll find that there's 10 guys secretly stalking you...

[DovahMuuliik]

Doubt it and the same could apply to you, you just don't realise it cause you might only be looking at the shallow kind girls or girls who are in the in crowd.

[Asker]

Hahaha really doubt it, don't even believe it but still thank you.
And no, I'm just looking for someone I can share my life with... Not really into shallow girls.

[DovahMuuliik]

And thank you for your compliments too :)
That's good, Those type of girls don't make good partners anyway and I know how you feel cause i want the same. It's hard to find nice people and real friends or partners in this world, just cause i haven't found one

[Asker]

Well, you are very beautiful, nice and caring I'm sure that you'll eventually find a great guy to be with and amazing friends to share experiences. I really hope the best for you.

[DovahMuuliik]

Thanks but it's harder than you think, i'm introverted so thus don't socialize much with people. I'm sure you'll find a very nice girl too and you aren't unattractive, not to me anyways. I'm here if you want to talk and be friends. i'll message you as soon as I get to level 2 :)

[Asker]

Sure I'd love that :)

[DovahMuuliik]

Great, talk soon :)

[Gianna17]

They are a group of insecure men who; instead of working to become a better person and regain their confidence, has chosen to blame women for their difficulty dating. They think they are unwanted because they are "genetically insuperior" in some way, but most of them are simply pushing women away by saying misogynistic things like: "women deserve to be raped" and praising murderers of women.

[TsubasaCorrupted]

Get a prostitute.
If you have options but choose to not pursue them, you only have yourself to blame.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

A lot of women don't understand the damage other women do to men.

[AsgardTheFat]

Clown.