Why do guys in my high school accuse me of being transgender? Is my face masculine?

[Anonymous]

Don't be afraid to tell the truth please. Thank you for you time.

Honestly, Yes

Honestly, No

[Mlily55]

In high school someone started a rumor that I was a lesbian because I didn’t wear makeup or dress especially feminine (which makes no sense to me because I didn’t exactly dress masculine either). Weren’t they surprised when I showed up to prom with an insanely attractive Chris Evans lookalike from a different school! Don’t let people influence what you think girl! You’re gorgeous and they’re just jealous!

[cipher42]

Not really. Like you don't look super duper femme or anything, but you also dont look very masculine. So probably they're just being shitty high schoolers and trying to get a rise out of you. Possibly try asking them why it is they think being transgender is an insult, and why they find it so amusing to question people's gender identity.

[iLala_Water]

EXACTLY.

Well said ! Op should do that. 👏

[Googledoesnthelp]

The guys at your highschool are immature dicks. your eyebrows are on fleek. your lips are big and plump (no lips are unfortunate) your skin is incredibly clear ( i would kill for it) and your eyes and eyelashes are dark and beautiful (no need for mascara) you are gorgeous girl. please dont listen to them.

[iLala_Water]

Yes, you are right.

She is stunning. I think they're just scapegoating her.

[Asker]

Awe thank you :)

[iLala_Water]

you're welcome.

[Ericton2716]

I tried my best to see what they see, and honestly, the only thing noticable is your jawline... maybe? I had to really study your face to see it tho... Don't be too bothered about it though, they are probably teasing you...

[Asker]

So an oval face shape is masculine?

[Ericton2716]

Well a more defined oval jawline is sometimes seen as masculine...

[Ericton2716]

I'm no expert, it's just my opinion

[Asker]

Ok thank you

[Ericton2716]

No problem! You look great btw! 😁

[Asker]

Awe thanks. you don't have to lie lol

[Ericton2716]

It's alright if you don't believe me, the truth takes time to sink in. lol

[RohitLakra]

They are just teasing😂 I can't believe you are disturbed enough to post a question about it😊

[RohitLakra]

Don't think much and you'll get positive answer here😊

[Asker]

😂 Yeah i just am very insecure about my looks

[RohitLakra]

Who isn't these days?😂

[Asker]

Since you seem like an honest guy i wanted to ask you if i'm ugly or pretty? I'm sorry i don't mean to be annoying lol

[RohitLakra]

If pretty means beautiful then you are not😊

[Asker]

I'm confused what do you mean?

[RohitLakra]

Some people confuse me by saying that pretty and beautiful are different. I think they both mean same that's why I put up the clarification😊

[Asker]

I'm sorry it's just the sentence you wrote doesn't make sense to me

[Asker]

So i'm not pretty?

[RohitLakra]

Sorry! You are ugly.

[RohitLakra]

Yeah!

[Asker]

Oh ok thanks for the honesty

[RohitLakra]

It's alright!😊

[Asker]

I think i found a picture where i looked a little better. Can i message you for a question please?

[RohitLakra]

Okay!

[nicolettacn]

You dont have masculine feauters, maybe its the way you dress or behave. If you are like a tomboy then this might be the case, but as a girl you look very pretty.

[Asker]

Awe thanks :) and i'm actually very girly but in this pic i decided to wear no makeup for more accuracy

[nicolettacn]

Do not pay attention to them then. Remember that guys mature later than girls. So imagine their minds are like when you were 15 now. When they get older they will realised what they missed 😉

[amel23]

No u r not pple just like to criticise
Some one on gag said I'm a trans and my neck is ugly so fuck the haters

[amel23]

And if a guy ever tells u u look like a maaculine
Tell him at least one of us looks like a man

[amel23]

If u want to talk I would be happy if u pm me

[Asker]

That's retarded. Why would they say that? You're beautiful you have gorgeous eyes and there is absolutely nothing wrong with your neck lol

[amel23]

Awwe thank u idc tbh u r really beautiful tho and I love ur oval face and lips

[Asker]

Awe thanks :)

[MCheetah]

Your skin looks dark here.
You have a strong jawline and your hair is up, but otherwise, don't look trans. I have really good Transceiver and almost never get tricked; I can tell a woman from a man. You're no man.
It's also weird you went anonymous here when we know who you are and you have a strong presence on the site.

[TheAnon1]

You do have strong facial features but you definitely look like a woman. Boys are dumb sometimes. You can tell a person is transgender by how they move, as a trans woman will not move as fluidly as a natural woman. Give it a few years when you really develop and most of them will probably be trying or wishing they could hook up with you

[Storm_Soldier2377]

After taking a serious look I seriously can't see it. Your jawline is too smooth and chin is too high and narrow to be considered masculine.

[Asker]

Am i ugly? Lol. I'm just asking because i think guys are more honest girls are too sweet here

[Storm_Soldier2377]

No not at all, what I'm saying is that I don't see how your face could be considered masculine.

[Asker]

Sorry for bothering you. Thank you for your time :)

[Asker]

To be honest you really hurt my feelings :'(

[Storm_Soldier2377]

I'm sorry then. Still don't see how I implied you are ugly though.

[Asker]

No i'm so srry i meant to write that to someone else same mistake happend twice already

[Storm_Soldier2377]

Ah it's okay hehe

[Livinglogical]

No. Do you sit like a man? Or walk like a dude? Or swear a ton? If something about you is manly it isn't your face.

[PunkinPie]

Guys in high school are stupid idiots and bullies who will say anything they can to bother you and make you question yourself. Ignore them.

[Talliesea]

I get the exact same thing all the time. You look gorgeous though, not masculine at all. Don’t worry about it❤️😊

[designer1]

They are idiots and tend to be in high school so know your gorgeous and twirl on them

[acooke-13]

They're probably just messing with you, honestly you're a really pretty girl, ignore them!

[themetalhead]

nah you are beautiful. high school is just total hell that's all

[ancastergirl]

What? Don't listen to them, you are absolutely STUNNING!!

[deveshraunak]

High school is hell so dont think about it

[Amine03]

You look very feminin and beautifull 😊 don 't listen to haters.

[fairaoh]

Hell no. Those guys are mean

[Asker]

I know i wish it would stop. But things just got worse.

[iLala_Water]

Worse, in what way?

[Asker]

@iLala_Water i confronted the guy about it then he told all his friends (he's popular btw) and now more people are picking on me i might even change schools this January because the bullying got qorse

[iLala_Water]

Don't try it.
Do not run away.

If you do, you'll always run for the rest of your life. you do not reason with your oppressor. you have to face up to them by doing YOU.

Find inner confidence and quit seeking approval from the sole of the boots which are kicking you on the ground.

[Asker]

@iLala_Water very good advice 🖒. It's just i really dislike this guy and he just found out i used to have feelings for him because i made a mistake and wrote my feelings on sc and his friend screenshotted it and sent it to him and he might think i still like him and he has hurt me so much. He spread rumors about me saying i was transgender, is constantly mean to me making me feel ugly and worthless, and he turned his friends against me so much that one of them was going to punch me in the face. I really think it's best to leave the school because i have been through a lot this year (i lost my grandfather) and i don't need anymore pain.

[iLala_Water]

Sorry about your loss.

Is there any other guy in the school who likes you, that you can date; with the same social standing as the twat bothering you?

[Asker]

@iLala_Water it's ok ❤. And i doubt any guy likes me tbh

[iLala_Water]

Awww... this bastards have really done a number on your self esteem.

Perhaps, it is beat you move to another school and get a fresh start.

In addition, remember - the way you see yourself is how other will see you. How you think of yourself is how others will think of you.

Why will a guy not desire you?
you are a WOMAN.

[txdiie_]

Girl you're so gorgeous!! Are you mixed?

[Asker]

I'm Dominican so maybe. I have never met a black person in my family but i think that there was someone black in family way back because my brother and dad's side have coarse hair and some black features. But i really have no idea what race i am lol

[txdiie_]

aw u could take a dna test

[Asker]

I know but they are so expensive but maybe one day

[txdiie_]

maybe

[Anonymous]

Guys keep posting pictures of yoo saying that you are the girlfriend. So guys don't think that you are male.

[Asker]

For real?

[Opinion Owner]

You are surprised? It is true.

[JimmyDavids]

Beautiful bone structure and skin complexation. You will be stunning.

[Sha84]

put on some makeup to avoid this stereotyping

[jon28805]

You don’t look masculine at all.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Just keep on being your pretty self.

[cupidkisses]

Nope

[Anonymous]

You looks pretty

[Asker]

Awe thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome dear 😘😍