What's the worst thing I can call a guy when I'm mad at him?

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I really want to hurt his feelings ..Cause he hurt mines..Please help

TimeAndTimeAgain · Accepted Answer

Do not call him anything. Do not lower yourself to that level. You don't have to do this to get the best of him. Let me explain something to you.

If he's hurt your feelings, the first thing you have to establish is whether he did it on purpose or not. If he didn't do it on purpose - if it was just an accident - obviously you should not be looking for revenge. You should be talking to him and telling him that what he did was hurtful. If he cares about you at all, he will apologize and be more thoughtful later on.

Now here's the main reason why you shouldn't call him anything. If it turns out he hurt your feelings on PURPOSE, or he doesn't care that he hurt your feelings, chances are that he doesn't care about you anymore. And if he doesn't care, nothing that you say to him is going to hurt him - since he just doesn't care. It'll actually make you look worse because if you start calling him names, you're showing him that what he's doing to you is affecting you and that you're getting hurt by it. So under no circumstances should you resort to name-calling.

The best thing you can do here, is ignore him. Stop talking to him, until he realizes what he did and apologizes to you. If he never does, then he doesn't really care and you have to understand that what you gotta do is move on and forget about him. If he does care, ignoring him will make him very upset and hurt him because he is going to miss you. That is the fact.

So do yourself a favor - forget about getting back at this guy. Figure out if he did it intentionally or not, and then act accordingly. If you feel he didn't do it on purpose, talk to him. If you KNOW he did it on purpose, then just ignore him until he realizes what he did was very dumb and that you're not going to let him get away with it.

Brando · Accepted Answer

If you are mad at a guy and don't want to be involved with him, then do the mature thing and quit talking to him. There is no need to play these childish revenge games, you are wasting both of your all's time.

If you do like this person, then "name calling" will only push you all farther apart. Regardless, and this isn't a sexist comment, but slandering a guy doesn't work. Men fight each other, that's how we get even. Women don't fight, they slander each others' character and turn the group against them. The slander game doesn't affect men, it's more annoying than anything else.

toulouse · Accepted Answer

A COWARD.

p*ss ant armchair psychotic.

i guess you must feel pretty pathetic to want to make me feel bad.

it'd be nice if you could at least pretend,

to have emotional intelligence beyond that of a 6 year old.

god your gross when you act this way. now I remember why I didn't want to sleep with u.

(but mm personally, I agree with brando- walk away he's not worth it or discuss the issue. if you try to get back at a guy or a girl its probably going to look that way to them anyways. and it'll just make them feel more powerful.)

stunwall · Accepted Answer

i agree with what the guys are saing don't sink to his level don't ignore him either, just give him his space distance yourself a little and be respectable and smile when he says something that is insulting.

when people call others name they are not expecting someone to smile back happily it will throw them off and frustrate them but they can't be mad at you because there is nothing wrong in smiling.

giving him some space will probably make him want to come back and be nicer, y absence makes the heart grow fonder!

:) x

hesaysim2sexy · Accepted Answer

no matter how mad you get, do not start calling him names. just walk away and be the bigger person. if he really likes you and is sorry, he will come to you and say sorry like a man should if its his fault. but if he doesn't make any effort, sorry honey, he ain't worth sh*t.

selfishstars · Accepted Answer

Sometimes feelings get hurt when people say things out of anger, but if you WANT to hurt someone's feelings, it's not a healthy relationship and you should get out of it.

Breekatchu · Answer

The worst thing you could do is call names, not because it's immature (it is though). But because when you start being a bitch back, he doesn't want to do anything about the problem and he'll just throw insults back.. And guys get a lot less hurt by that than girls. The best thing to do is just cry or something and act sweet and talk about what he's doing that's bothering you. That way he feels like a d*** by himself and he'll probably stop. If he doesn't care at that point, he's not worth your time.

Killfest400 · Answer

A logical reason to start name-calling, because it really helps strengthen a relationship and fix the problem. Grow up. If you don't like that he does something, be the man in the relationship and walk away from it. Your petty quibbling doesn't do a damn thing.

Also, chances are that if he can hurt you this bad without feeling anything from it, then you're fighting a losing battle in the first place.

Lostwannabe · Answer

I understand that your hurt but calling him things will only cause more problems, more fights and in the end you'll stop talking. Is that what you really want?

Justmean · Answer

Oh come on! you liked him once right?That's not cool You can't just insult him because of that,be better then him!so let him go. Some guys really deserve that but be better then them.

azzhole725 · Answer

The best way to hurt his feelings is to dump him and make fun of his penis. Guys are sensitive about their manhood.

TheKills · Answer

Wow, how mature of you. Be the better person and just walk away. Not to mention he'll feel worse because you won't even fight back with him.

Olya363 · Answer

if he hurt your feeling don't deal with him and just let him go finding a way to hurt him is not the smartest or mature thing to do

newprecedent · Answer

the best thing you can do is forgive and forget and let him wallow in his own  misery

here4you · Answer

you should be the bigger person and forget about it

Anonymous · Answer

ignore him, hurts a lot when my girlfriend does that.

Anonymous · Answer

There's nothing worse than being called a loser or a needle d*** loser. Or midget G-string (if he's short).

Anonymous · Answer

insult his manhood/masculinity or touch on an insecurity you think he has

poopman95 · Answer

call him a needle dick and then rape him in the butt hole then evry time you see him call him a needle dick

Arcanus · Answer

Really mature.

ihatework · Answer

shrimpy d*** f***hole

Anonymous · Answer

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