Hei, I lived in France for about 3 years or more. I want to notice that now a lot of European girls like Asian guy especially in France, Poland, Italia. however the inverse situation from European Boys heartjailed with Asian girls (Thai, Chinese, Viet and Philipino or even Indonesian).
Since there is a physical judgement that Asian is to short, small eyes, not romantics and nerdy. So it goes to different way and judge all of Asian guys like this. I am quiet tall as an Asian with Chinese ancestor but this is not main problems. Physical is not the biggest issues in my opinion.
In my view, the main problem is we as an Asian that seems to be shy and don't know girls give a signal to be approached. I use to be re-mind that some girls are try to flirt me from some general signal to the one "caught up". I remember at Frankfurt airport there is French or Germany girl was staring at me until I looking her back and suddenly she was totally nervous.
I never approached this girl either... Hi (give your hand), would you mind take some coffee? or excuse me what how many minutes the gate will be opened?
As an asian, I don't want to play with girls. I do want to have one and until now I never got one special in my life, hopefully in the following months. My reason why don't approach this girl is because I have my own destiny, having a good job and become stable in financial and emotional.
Some Europeans does not have this notion, why? may girls said you should try first and let the time will goes by with your planning. For me, yes and no. I've been raised in really poor family. In my mind, if I don't have a future why should I take one person to be with me and I still put the stone on the concept (Man is the back bone of the family),
Maybe in my case, I am to shy or underestimate myself. That's true nevertheless, I still keep my Dad and Mother points, you as a man must be responsible what you do, what you want and what is your future.
Back to the European girls, our "asian culture" is not seems inline with European culture. So sorry to say, we're the loser. But yet, if any European girls date with asian, I assume a lot of them saying, one of Asian quality is familly orientied (FO). My explanation above is one of the detail how this FO comes from.
Conclusion, if you want to get any girls (not only European), try to balance your self. I mean try to hook up and be more active. imagine, every girls had feeling to be touched on their heart or their girlie (Man goes first and ask date to girl) eventhough Scandinavian girls is one of the though and strong one. but deep inside their heart, still a girl that need to be "shaken". The story of a warrior with a horse and sword try to safe a girl, is still in every girls heart.
Try to talk, try to approach and don't forget use your Asian culture (treat every girl like your mother or sister).
It's the stereotype that's in most of women's head. That asian guys have really small d***s so therefore white girls tend to ignore asian guys at all cost. Yet white guys love asian girls and somehow I see more asian girls with white guys rather thank asian guys which is kinda sad. I've always wondered what asian guys felt about this.
Anyways there's nothing to lose so go ask her out. Just be confident and don't make an ass outta yourself.
Sort of like how it's more common to see a black guy with a white girl, than it is to see a black girl with a white guy. I think it has to do with the natural hormonal levels. Asians are considered the most feminine of any race, while blacks the most masculine, and whites in between. So, a white man would be more masculine than an asian female, and they compliment each other. A black man is more masculine than a white female and they also compliment each other. An asian man tends to be more feminine than white men, so white women often stay above that line. White men tend to be more feminine than black men, so black women again tend to stay above that line. The proof in all of this, if you'll read studies, is that asian men and black women tend to date/prefer to date within their race more than any other. And another truth as well, asian women are the *most* likely to date outside of their race.
There are many varying degrees though so I am NOT saying that asian guys are like girls and that black women are like men. It often comes down to hormones, culture, and what society a a whole deems more masculine or feminine.
I'm asian but asian guys don't ask me out and I have no idea why LOLz. For some reason white guys and black guys and latino guys will make passes at me but asian guys just look at me and say nothing. it's quite baffling.
Frankly, if you're interested in this girl, go for it. Be confident. Let her get to know you and who knows what'll happen? All guys, regardless of ethnicity, basically have to get over the hump of asking a girl out first. It's just the way it is. I don't make the rules, just live by it lolz.
Don't let a fear of getting stereotyped stop you. And although I have to say, I had NO idea there were these negative asian-male stereotypes until I moved to the east coast. And I have never heard of any of these stereotypes in my every day life except for online. Chances are, the girl you like doesn't even have any preconceived anti-asian male steroetypes. If she doesn't like you because you're asian, then you're better off without her anyways. Do you really want to be with a person that shallow?
Best of luck to you!
well there I always a possibility, and I have dated Asians and I'm white, so yes she might be interested there is ALWAYS a chance, if not there are many other girls out there. some people just don't want to date out of their race or maybe just because they don't find one race attractive but they might not despise that race, this doesn't mean attractiveness is racist but it's maybe because of preference, you may not see it the other way around because maybe white guys prefer Asian girls and maybe Asian guys don't prefer white as much but this all depends on your view. I say go for her and it only matters what you think.
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Alright dude man, it all comes down to preference. If they find you attractive physically and they have enough interest in your personality, you guys are intellectually on about the same level, or you meet other of their specific needs they will date whoever. I am half asian, half white and I personally like my whiiiiteee girrrrrls. I have only branched off a few times only to always come back. Give her something that no one else can offer and you'll end up with what you want. It's about having confidence in yourself, coming off as strong, but not a d***.
It's all in your mindset mate.
From experience, there is always a niche group of Caucasian girls that have some kind of uncanny obsession with Asian males - those usually into Asian music (J-Pop, K-Pop), film and culture. As some other people have stated, Asian males tend to exhibit less masculinity physically due to genetics - this in turn is a real turn-off for a sizable portion of women who get aroused by the testosterone released when in the presence of macho alpha guys. It helps if you can bulk up yourself so you don't look like a stick, but I guess the only other way to shine is through your personality. If you, like me, lack the immediate wolf-whistle response from girls, then work on your charm and suaveness. Good luck champ!
my white girlfriend studied abroad in South Korea last year and we broke up while she was gone. And though this was from a heated email between us I'll quote her, "I adore Korean men."
When I saw her when she came back she said that she found Asian men more attractive than white men but I think that had a lot more to do with the fact that she was obsessed with Korea/Asia than her no longer finding white men attractive. More honestly she left with an attraction to Asian men at zero and came back with it at something but I don't really understand it because, no offense, all of the celebrities I saw photos and videos of look like girls with short haircuts.
I think Asians are extra cute! Black hair dark eyes! The thought makes my chest flutter XD I have been around white boys all my life so I guess Im attracted to the opposite of blond hair blue eyes. But its also about personality as well. You could be the cutest guy in the world but be a total bore, and that would send me running for the hills.
Yes I heard also that Asian guys are considered good lovers in France. Asian guys have only a bad reputation in the Anglophone world (Australia, England, Canada, USA). I know for a fact that in Eastern Europe the girls are crazy over them, because they are exotic to them. Know an Asian Guy who turned from an looser in England to an playboy in E.E. And we all know that E.E. women are sexy as hell. It's really really bad how strong the impact of the media is. Americans are all brainwashed and f***ed up.
Depends on "how" Asian you are, I think. If you look like you just got off a plane and fit the stereotypes, it will be harder.
Somewhat tongue in cheek, I do find that the bigger a white girls' breasts are, the more likely she is to be prejudicial toward other races and guys dating women of other races. Almost like, I have huge boobs, so I'm better than the Asian girls who don't.
Waiting to be insulted by countless women on that one...
I think that its starts with opening your self up to the whole of that other culture or race not jus the women. talk to them. Asians don't really share there culture or convo for that matter with many other cultures. I mean my god sisters laotian and my god aunt is too. but some of her fam still don't open up to me.
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Seriously I'm tired of pople going on about this. It dosen't matter what you race is SERIOUSLY. You just have to realize we're all people, and prefferences/stereotypes/appearances are all skin deep. Just be yourself, be confident, f*** what the world thinks and go for the things you want. Who gives a damn what some one else thinks, go f*** all the white girls ya want!
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I very rarely see white guys with asian girls. Just doesn't happen that often. The whole asian cultural thing being very much against sex before marriage and family honour and all that keeps asian girls in tow.
I see a lot of asian guys with white girls though. The same standards aren't held to the men as to the women. My (white) cousin is going out with a asian guy. They're given a lot more leeway and girls love dark guys.
I would date an asian guy as long as we were into each other. I've found that none have ever approached me though. I find that a lot of them are pretty shy, and from what I've gathered I'm probably not their type or the case might be that they think they're not my type, I'm not sure.
I don't know. It's a rare pairing and there's racist stereotypes running around unchecked that Asian men are practically asexual wimps with squinty eyes and small penises. It does statistically happen, but not as frequently as Asian Woman/White Man, which is the second most common after White Woman/Black Men.
sure. I watched this realty show once that had this asian guy who was a super genious. I had the biggest crush on him, he could finish a rubiacs cube in under 30 seconds, no joke. He held the number one position in the world. I love smart guys, & he was so cute. He was also shy & a little intimidated by women, which was adorable.
It really depends on you. Do you have decent style? Can you speak English fluently? Do you somehow feel inferior to the white/black people? Do you have a sense of humor?
I don't think girls necessarily look for white/black guys. But often Asians do come across as nerdy, or just not "americanized" enough, I guess. But a friend of mine who is a white girl just married an asian guy, and they look awesome together.
It's because us asians are known for our tiny d***s :(
Yo, I’m a white girl and I actually think Asians are really attractive and I would totally date one if I had the chance. However, other guys approach me but Asian guys just don’t approach me and I really like when the guy does the first move
White girl-Asian boy couples are quickly becoming the norm. I know a couple of white girl-Asian boy couples and some of my white girlfriends would just love to date an Asian guy.
So go for it! Can't hurt to try. :)
I would, and I have a couple of friends who have... We're all attracted to different things! My best guy friend is Filipino, and a complete hunk. There are definitely white girls out there who are just as into Asian guys as anyone else.
I've wanted to date 2 asian guys. Unfortunately the feeling was not mutual. But I often find asian guys really attractive, it's just personal preference.
I find Asian men very attractive, and I am very interested in learning about different Asian cultures...I prefer Asians over other races (I'm not racist, I swear)
if you live in europe, you wouldn't have this problem. america media is racist. it makes white american girls racist.
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