What does it mean when a guy wants you all to himself?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't want to date me but doesn't want me to date anyone else?

[TastyBiscuits]

Hi.

From what you have said in the comment this person sounds like sociopath and potentially a psychopath.

It is illogical to behave in this manner. Possession like this is the hallmarks of a mind that seeks to gain control of their own life by being in charge of someone else's. That can lead to some exceptionally violent scenarios.

Walk away. At worst he is an immature asshole. Maybe he will grow up and stop string you along. Probably won't anytime soon and would most likely develop into a Playboy.

But he is most likely sociopath and doesn't regard you as an equal or value your individuality. Walk away.

[Iwearyouwell]

I could mean a lot of things but if it's a pleasant version of it he's trying to tell you that he wants more time with you or it could mean that he wants to keep you from flirting with all the guys in your life and he wants to step it up make it serious possibly propose. Or it could mean he's an insecure jerk and he just doesn't want you near any other people. Cuz they can help you wise up to his despicable nature and run away. That's the opposite

[opurba]

He is fucking...

[SirRexington]

He's not ready for a relationship and it's expectations but does want to be with you and so he doesn't want you finding some guy and leaving him.

[Asker]

He wants to be with me when?

[Asker]

Why shouldn't I move on when he doesn't want to be with me right now?

[SirRexington]

It's not that he doesn't want to be with you. It's more complicated than that. I don't know good exact reasons though, I'm not him.

[Asker]

How is it more complicated?

[Asker]

It looks pretty simple to me.

[skittles2017]

He's being childish and he should be making a decision soon... unless you can wait

[Asker]

I can't wait anymore

[skittles2017]

Then ask him either to have you all and be a happy couple or let you go... you can't wait him... it's fair

[i1T2daty]

Probably the following I'm sorry to say: manipulative, paranoid, pathologically jealous, potential sociopath

[Chaoseverywhere]

he wants to sex you, but keeping his options open for some reason. Maybe once he knows you better, he might date you

[Asker]

He doesn't want sex

[basketbeast619]

Cause he want to be with you when he's ready to have you as his girlfriend.

[Asker]

So what? Am I just supposed to wait for him?

[basketbeast619]

That what he want you to, but I doubt you will, no one should tell you what to do

[DirtyRango]

Means he doesn't want to be with you but wants you all to himself.. he's not ready for commitment.. or he's not all that into you

[Asker]

How can I tell which one it is? He's been acting like a stalker ever since I blocked him

[DirtyRango]

Anyone who turns stalkerish get away from that means theyre too controling

[Asker]

How can you say he's controlling?

[DirtyRango]

Because that's why he's acting the way he is

[Asker]

So he doesn't actually like me?

[DirtyRango]

He might like you but not enough to get into a serious relationship

[NucDylan]

How has he indicated he doesn't want to date you? Do you want to date him?

[Asker]

I told him I like him. He didn't give me an answer so I blocked him and moved on. Now he's stalking me.

[NucDylan]

It's possible that he had avoided thinking of you in that way initially, because he figured you wouldn't like him. Then you asked and he was confused / unsure. Ask him again, guys are dumb and sometimes need a second chance

[Asker]

We're not friends so it's not possible for him to think of me in any other way. I know he's very attracted to me but he

[Asker]

*but he doesn't want to date me

[NucDylan]

That's... weird. He needs to get his shit together

[Defboy69]

My guess is he's mentally unstable and you should probably start familiarizing yourself with the restraining order process.

[Anonymous]

He may be protective and does not want you to get hurt. Physically or mentally.

[Spendog]

He wants to fuck around on you but don't want you fuckin around on him

[Asker]

He's not seeing other girls

[thomasans2]

Sounds like his fantasy. All guys would love to have a herd of horny girls to play with, and play with him. SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT.

[DeviousFall]

He wants you to be there when he decides. F him and find someone better

[cfreshh]

You've got yourself a playboy. I used to be like that. Try not to catch feels or this could get stressful.

[Asker]

He's not a playboy

[winterfox10]

It means he loves you, but not enough to date you himself.

[Asker]

Wrong. If he loved me he would want to date me.

[winterfox10]

Love is different for guys, but to your point, yes, he just has a crush

[Rockstar2148]

he wants to fuck you and nothing else.

[Ronin82]

It means he wants to lease the car before he buys.

[nickdell]

Just what you said. Exclusive

[Jakeis39]

He's a possessive asshole

[axali1]

That's illogical