Why do guys find the need to go to strip clubs for bachelor's parties? (Page 6)

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I think it's disrespectful that my fiance is going to a strip club for his bachelor's party when we talked about it before and he did it anyway and got a lap dance. I'm very upset and feel betrayed and want to call off the wedding at this point. He betrayed my trust and thinks it's not a big deal saying that he was drunk and it wasn't his idea it was his friends and they took him there. He may have been drunk but he still could have said no. I'm hurt and he could care less. He knew it would hurt me if he went and he agreed to not go and did it anyway.

nickermans · Answer

For my brother in law we went camping and had a survival trip... No strippers

Welshman2 · Answer

My question is why are you so insecure about him going to a strip club?

Matt57 · Answer

I wouldn't mind just going to a baseball game or go fishing with friends.

jimmijo1954 · Answer

I would offer an opinion but I won’t because you’re anonymous

Yakasmashi · Answer

Because they are just plain disrespectful I am sorry what you been through

Teddy51 · Answer

Is a drunk person responsible for their actions? Are they stable enough to make decisions for themselves or are they temporarily insane?

zzzondarrr · Answer

It is disrespectful and disgusting, especially if he really doesn't care how much it hurts you. I think you shouldn't marry him.

Demised · Answer

Coz he watched the movie 'the hangover' 😂😂😂 dont b like stu's bitch girlfriend. B more like tracy.

carloschena · Answer

Well that was on him im sorry he hurt you like that but thata not right after you told him not im with you

watisgoingon · Answer

I really wish I could see him and tell him not to marry you cuz you seem hysterical and possessive. you're not fun at all. good luck to that dude

Anonymous · Answer

Wow yea i dont approve of it either cause basically he's cheating on you with a bunch of hoes

GoodGuyGregGGG · Answer

Give him back his ring. You don't deserve him. Get over yourself. he's out having a good time. Its practically tradtion

B8527 · Answer

I've never been to one, & I hope when I am about to get married no one plans anything like this for me.

eatadic · Answer

Probably it's good that you break it off if you're going to have these kinds of insecurities and control issues.

JayFostt · Answer

I think it's stupid. My bachelor party was a nice dinner with my old buddies from college and then a beer night. We laughed, we had fun and we went home.

ledfoot1964 · Answer

its the guys last night of doing what he wants cause after he gets married he will have to ask his wife to go out with his friends. and nine times out of ten the wife will say no

Lauleneke · Answer

And bachelorette parties are innocent how  My wife had a party before we got married and a male stripper showed up at hers I was ok with it because I trusted her

Noneofyourbusiness12 · Answer

It's mainly just for guys to have one more wild night, and can still feel young, but it's to get that party animal out of their system before they become committed

sonfking · Answer

Because that the only day they are to leave everything and focus on only her

kingofknights · Answer

Why do girl find the need to get male strippers for their bachelorette party?

Draqgon1 · Answer

Sorry that happened but think of it this way u found out b4 its too late

ryanne · Answer

its normal, plenty of people do, girls get strippers too occassionally

nickyxs1 · Answer

Do what a friend of mine did. Have a girl's night out at a club with male strippers. I'm not saying any more than that...

MRDLEEE · Answer

Its the last time you can cheat. Lol.. Maybe some guys like looking at porn or be at strip clubs so they can aroused for their new wife.. Lol...

markjohn9696 · Answer

i found disrespectable too but why u didn't come with him to ensuredhe disnt do anything i think strip clubs isn't big problem for liberal countries

trick1988 · Answer

I have no idea from the once I have been to that's the last place I would take anyone on a bachelor party.

Danielleo · Answer

I know wommen that do worse too. it's not like wommen are innocent guy is just being guy and having fun. even wommen on here can be hypocrites on here

feelsbadman · Answer

I can't see myself in that situation but I understand why he did it. Thing is, I'd be sorry afterwards, and wouldn't make these bullshit kid excuses.

TallGuy96 · Answer

Call it off, if he accepted to go a strip club, he will do more shameful things later, i just hope you agree that him watching porn is cheating too.

doogo · Answer

That is one of the last places we will be able to see naked chicks before committing the rest of our time with you and starting family.

grega239 · Answer

Its normal for guys to do that... even if he didn'tgo to a strip bar his friends would've hired a striper.

Tomek_Player · Answer

Fear of losing freedom is often a source to go for booty call. Most of the time is just an perfect excuse to go dead drunk and stupid like a boy before life of responsibility begins.

Skullcap16 · Answer

it's normal for guys to do that you'd see it on the family guy tv show and even in games it's pretty normal for guys to do that practically every guy does it even in a marriage not such a big deal

nickdell · Answer

Isn't there a bachelorette party where they hire male stippers and all the girls get drunk?  I would call off the wedding simple because of your ultimatums.

fortwayneguy18 · Answer

Y'all realize you uptight women are the reason guys are tired of dealing with your bullshit and just looking for hookups, right? 😂😂 Please leave him, to save him from future misery.

movietime7 · Answer

It's a douche move but it's "the last night of freedom" it isn't that big of a deal, yes he got a lap dance which is fucked up, but at least it wasn't anything worse

Anderson122 · Answer

It's like this this is his last night of being able to do everything he wants go everywhere he wants he's probably not going to stick his dick in anything so she should be fine

MadeInHeavenQueen · Answer

Marry him. It just means he is a follower. Yet you need to lead him through life.

totsuto · Answer

Not everyone does. I went out shooting, and for my buddy we had a big gameathon

baby181036 · Answer

Try to change him, if you fail you may leave him after giving him a warning

peedy · Answer

It doesn't where he gets his appetite as long as he comes home for dinner

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

l dont go to those clubs we are not allowed them where l stay in scotland so there is non e

Hotscorpio3 · Answer

To give the groom a last taste of other women in a way.

Deaths_Deciple · Answer

I personally dislike the idea but I think most guys simply give in to peer pressure

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Ok just kill every last bit of fun... he'd be blessed if you called off the wedding

Decentguy · Answer

i never been to strip club before, and never want to go there, ever

Defboy69 · Answer

The one last hurrah before "getting hitched". Also because the best man is unimaginative.

My-Shangri-La · Answer

Holy shit. I hope he has a 💡 moment and ditches you. You’re just begging for control

jasco · Answer

well because guys like to have fun we think going to strip are fun

Forpleasure · Answer

I don't particularly like strip clubd. I'm not against them at all.

mrsterlingarcher · Answer

I don't. I find the need to get wasted and play video games wearing a tuxedo

Ra9toR · Answer

I never go to strip club before and on my prospective a grown man can easily get enough with one woman if she is the right person.

Embrace72 · Answer

I was taken to one... practically by force... the least erotic sexual experience i have ever had... just plain seedy and awful

colin77 · Answer

it is yr choice but i think forgiveness is needed and the other hand should of respect yr wishes plus he agreed with you not to go

x_Pretty_x · Answer

Don't marry him. This isn't gonna end well

joeyboy622 · Answer

Let him be! It was história last chance to BE free! Its from now on that you must feeel upset if he wants to go to a strip club

slybuste32 · Answer

It's nothing more than a right passage for male bonding... it you don't trust him to go to a strip club why marry him at all

Anonymous · Answer

Not all guys do that sometimes they would spend time with their woman but sometimes it's the other way around these days LOL

Anonymous · Answer

It’s because it’s our last night for freedom till we can’t do anything so most guys go to strip clubs

Anonymous · Answer

If i was going to have a wedding you better believe id have Daizha Morgann throw my party.  Its just a lap dance...

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