Incestuous brother sister relationship?

[SapphireFox]

So my guy friend and I have known each other for 8 years. We have a weird relationship where we banter and make fun of each other mercilessly. One of our other friends commented on our weird dynamic and my friend responded to her that we have an incestuous brother sister relationship. It struck me as odd. What do you think he meant by that?

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Ok, so I understand the brother and sister part because we are close and fight like siblings... but why not just say that? I'm confused about the incestuous part. We don't have a sexual relationship at all.

[nightdrot]

This is not one I would make too much of. Your friend was speaking off the cuff and he probably gave what he said far less thought when he said it than you have already spent writing about it.

In general, he was just remarking about the easy way that you and your friend get along. Stereotypically - and it IS a strereoptype - you see that kind of easy going relationship more in siblings than in bf/gf relationships. The latter of which are - again stereotypically - more complicated because of the insecurities and complexities that we all bring to our relationships.

As to the sex part - that probably did not even occur to your friend when he made the remark.

Don't overthink this - and be happy you have a friendship with someone, of either gender, with whom you have such a good relationship. That is something worth having.

[didyouknowme]

They are joking. You two seem close so they're comparing it to the closeness of siblings. Try not to fuck him or your friends will start fucking with you harder

[SapphireFox]

He called us that, not my other friend... and no worries there, I'm not the kinda girl that sleeps around.

[didyouknowme]

Then it was a joke. My guess is that he feels like you two are close enough to be siblings, but he wouldn't mind getting closer. Up to you but he might be interested

[SapphireFox]

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for just joking... I hate when friendships get murky like that! Thanks for the opinion!!

[didyouknowme]

Like I said up to you but if he seems like a good guy, give it a shot. Go on a test date. Something casual you might have done before but now just the two. See if he makes a move. Who knows it might be great

[JustRollTheDice]

No idea you're not related but I guess he could mean you're close and like each other but act as if it's disgusting but still want each other

[jessica14454]

well if your not related it's not Incestuous so that joke don't make scence

[winterfox10]

He's making a joke in poor taste. "Incestuous" is usually a slang term that means "so close it's mildly creepy." I've met a few friend duos who I would call "incestuous."

[WalterRadio]

Why don't you ask the guy that said it?

He is the only one who truly knows what he meant by that.

[Skywalker_l_]

Sounds like a wannabe funny statement... It must mean something like "i care her like she's my sister but also i wanna do her" that kinda thing.

[Skywalker_l_]

He is not funny and wants to sleep with you. the near future... Thats the sexual part which he wants to add. Maybe

[jacquesvol]

If you have no common DNA, where's the problem?

[jacquesvol]

He could be your stepbrother.

[BobbyC65]

Try Google.

[Nandor]

You are good friends