Boyfriend staring at another girls ass in front of me at the club?

[Zeccapop]

Last night we went out dancing and we had one too many. While I was coming back from the bathroom I saw my boyfriend literally staring at this girl who was wearing lace thong under her jeans and everything was showing up. He wouldn’t take his eyes off her butt. I got disgusted, he looked like a pervert and I found it disrespectful. After that I left the club without him. Tonight we’re supppose to go to a concert together but I still can’t get over last night and I feel like I don’t wanna see him. Am I acting up? Am I wrong? Should I get over myself? We’ve been dating for about 2 months and I’m 21 and he is 32.

[Anonymous]

Lol worse place to go if you’re w someone, you know how much crazy sh*t I seen going on in clubs when I used to go. It’s going to happen, I hate saying this that he’s a dude he’s going to look but I can’t put it any other way. It’s funny cause a friend of mine was talking to me about how we men are, she said see you did what all men do. A girl walked by and I guess unconsciously my eyes automatically scanned her up and down. I said but I didn’t do it thinking like ok I have to look, I think it just happens automatically in my opinion. Yes I k is completely different from what you’re talking about but I get where you’re coming from. There’s always women at clubs who are dressed just a little less than each one before them. Not to be perverted or anything but if I happen to be at the same club you were last night and you were wearing what you have on in your pic trust me I’d be scanning you up and down off and on. Don’t let this ruin a potential lifelong relationship. You could talk to him possibly, just say I know you may find other women attractive as hard as that is for me to accept but please out of respect for us, for me please do it when I’m not around if you ha e to look.

[Opinion Owner]

I hoped things worked out for you w this situation. by the way really love the outfit in your pic!

[Dreamweaver671]

Get over yourself or get yourself over him and give him something better to stare at. What is disgusting anyway. Not like he was on his hamds and kness sniffing her butt or jerking off under the table. How do you know he was staring when he could have been in a drunk haze. Since you left him there you gave him permission to see if those panties had a front side too.

[debi2622]

That was disrespectful. Absolutely. But guys are going to look. It is like a moth to a flame. The difference is it looking or oggling? Best way I found, when my bf's eyes look at some girls boobs very displayed at a club, is flat out ask a question. For boobs I say: real or fake? For butts: so what do you think 1-10? The reason I do this is 1) says I see what your looking at, 2) breaks the attraction to the body part, and 3) lets them know its cool-just do't get carried away.

[Mac4kayla]

You should stare at hot guys who pass you at the concert lol but don't take it too harsh. I like to admire bodies if they're guys or girls. Doesn't mean I'll be cheating on my boyfriend. I love him and wouldn't leave him for shallow reasons like for a hotter person

[abc3643]

Get used to it.
Yeah, we need to be more discreet about our ogling, but we won't stop ogling until we are blind or dead.

[partydelights]

I'm a guy. I look. If not, I'm probably gay.

Be glad that he looks and still chooses you. This means you're better.

[Anonymous]

He wasn't doing it in front of you and he was drunk and you guys went to a club. What exactly did you think was going to happen?

It's like if someone lit a cigar at a gas station. "Gee I had no idea shit was going to blow up..."

[chris_987]

Guys stare at every girl even things shaped like women, it’s just how we are built

[FrenchyRomain]

You went to a club with your man... are you begging for him to look at other girls shaking their asses and tits while dressed up sexy? Seriously?

[Anonymous]

how dare he! just kidding don't be a control freak.

[Kelly6]

Boy always look at other girl.
Don’t be so hard, you won’t be able to stop that.

[thomasans2]

Its an unregulated move. No matter what. KIND OF like getting a woodie!

[Kelly6]

@thomasans2 what?

[Fredrik321]

Check out the video "He wants you" by PragerU on YouTube

[Decentguy]

dump his pathetic ass

[thomasans2]

Im looking at yours now

[bgbknut3x]

Be honest did she have a bigger booty than u

[swettannie]

mens are mens

[icecream2]

He is blind

[Anonymous]

Dump him