I have a non committed relationship with a guy for 2 years. We’re both 20y. We had « the talk » 3 weeks ago. I made him understand I wanted more, and he told me that he was thinking we were friends with benefits. Since we never have sex, I assume we’re not and I don’t want us to be.
He seemed really surprised and disturbed by my confession. He repeated several times he had to think about it. He said « Why do you make this face? You look like I’m rejecting you. I don’t reject you » and also that we were going to hang out together when he’d come back from holidays.
The following day I texted him by Snapchat. He opened, didn’t reply. Then he replied to my few next texts but he was cold. Since a few days, he replies once in a while. Yesterday I asked him why he was ignored my texts and he just said « i’m tired i just woke up ». (He goes on parties a lot..) I asked him another random question, he opened, didn’t reply. I know he just came back from his holidays and we was supposed to hang out.
Normally, he always texts me back within a minute. He has never ignored me like that before. It’s been 3 weeks now he’s distant and I’m anxious.
What does it mean and what can I do?
Thanks you all.
He doesn’t completely ignore me, it was only a few snaps.
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