Is shyness unattractive?

[R4zor]

I'm good looking strong tough and manly but i'm very shy usually and way too anxious around women i find attractive I'm uncomfortable with my feelings >_<

[englisc]

Yes, mostly. Some girls might say they go for shy guys, but more often than not they're either bullshitting or they think it sounds nice when they don't really like it in reality when they meet one. Often women say they want one thing when they actually react to something completely different.

I used to be very shy myself around women. That's how I know it's bullshit - those same women never liked me until I became more confident. My advice to you would be to work on your shyness as I did - I'm happy to advise you there.

Strong tough and manly doesn't mix with shyness and talk about being uncomfortable with "feelings", that's woman talk. This is why women find it a turn off, they're not attracted to guys who are afraid of them and they see it as effeminate behaviour.

[Max_SS]

Yes it's unattractive but many women will consider you a diamond in the rough. The most attractive quality that women look for in a man is confidence.

[eadlynschreave]

I would say for girls, being shy is fine but for guys, it’s usually not that way. It’s very sexist but at the same time it’s true. Girls tend to like someone who can protect them so if you seem shy, it might draw them away from you. However, I do have a very pretty friend who is a strong feminist and she said she would want to date a cute but shy boy who doesn’t order her around and just listens to her... so i guess you could still attract
pretty girls even if you’re shy

[turnmypainintopower1]

not in my opinion I actually tend to go for shy guys I hate when guys sit there and never shut up or never stop talking about how good they look like blaahhh... ugh can you please turn down your ego thanks lol... so I would say no I tend to find them more attractive

[R4zor]

I liked it that exactly what i feel like women are thinking about dudes who talk too much

[turnmypainintopower1]

Ya lol

[princessfromjupiter]

Yes, it is because it intrinsically renders you invisible to the vast majority of people.

[lovemyirishman]

I'm shy as well

[lovemyirishman]

You shouldn't be uncomfortable with your feelings
Open up

[R4zor]

she is a cute girl we first used to have eye contacts
but we started to talk about diffrent stuffs as time passed on and we are friendly to each other but when we were walking toward the exit i felt so fucking panicked that my heart almost stopped i saw that hey dude your classmates are at the end of the corridor wtf!!! so i said bye although i really didn't want to and she kinda got sad i was more confused than ever we are still friends you know but i really hate that emotions are taboo in my country (IRAN) >_<

[respondergirl]

Not to me