
Why Do Some Guys Lie To Themselves About Sleeping Around Being Attractive To Most Girls? Girls, Would You Date A Guy Who Has Slept With 1000 women?


I found a better definition of a fuckboy on UD than you did lmao "A weak ass pussy who ain't about shit". Annnyywayys, let me tell you this. An average looking guy isn't born wanting to fuck around usually ( USUALLY but sometimes they are). Maybe someone broke their heart or hurt their ego so now they think that the only way they can maintain their ego is by how many girls they've banged. They wanna look cool and shit. Yunno? Being with 1000 girls makes you look good around the boys. And that's usually what guys care about. All of it is just their dick measuring contests. They don't really care what girls think as long as they can tap dat ass. And no offence but there are girls slutting it up for the guys who wanna be hoes. So they never run out of pussy. That's just the way it goes. UNTIL... they meet that one girl who is just the most amazing angel they've ever met and they want to be with her and she might not be as willing to put up with his shit, etc. But lotta them still don't know how to not be a man whore so they mess things up with her and break her heart, etc. Maybe they regret it, maybe they just fuck more girls. Maybe both. But if they don't realize what they've done, they usually don't see any of this as an issue. Everyone warned me about that guy I was with and said he was a fuckboy. But I still felt like he genuinely liked me. Sure, he'd talk to me about sleeping together, but we never did. He was also my first kiss and when he kissed me, he asked for permission. he seemed nervous too. And fuckboys usually don't act like that because they've done it 10000 times. But when you meet a girl you actually like, she brings out that nervous side of you. Anyways, shit goes down and we "break up" and it was super messy too. I later found out he did all this weird sexual hoe shit with even weirder girls and how he's probably had diseases. So yeah. I don't like that it's disgusting. But my feelings for him somehow don't fade. I don't know why I still like him but I just do. You'd think that love is logical but it's not. Logically, I should forget about him and move on. But my heart isn't saying that so I'm confused asf. But who knows. If I figure out my own worth, maybe I will know what I deserve, even if I have to leave him behind in my past.
Lemme ask you this. Leonardo De Caprio. He's been with every girl in LA and possibly every slut in North America. Do girls still fangirl over him and wanna have him and marry him? Lotta them still do. I can't explain why but it's just the way it is.
You don’t know Leaonardo De Caprio. And he’s rich, some women would date an 60 year old guy if he was rich. So that’s not a good point. And no no one is born wanting to sleep around. Outside influences is what forms people. And you are wrong, lots of guys do not think sleeping around is cool. I’m not surprised a fuckboy played you with the stuff you are saying.
Lol girl, I think you need to reread what I wrote! " An average looking guy isn't born wanting to fuck around usually ( USUALLY but sometimes they are)" . I literally said that normal guys aren't just born wanting to sleep around, but some do. Not all guys want commitment. It's just how it is. Some guys enjoy not being tied down at all and don't want a family or children or anything. Leonardo isn't just rich. That makes it sound too basic. There's really more to it than you think. There are lots of fuckboys in this world that women still wanna get with, not all women, but some girls still want those guys to commit to them. Haha, and I hope you understand that getting played by a fuckboy has nothing to do with what I am saying here! I knew he was a fuckboy but I just thought I could change him. And the truth is, no matter who you are, you can't change a fuckboy. He has to decide to change on his own. Women are attracted to the idea of being able to CHANGE the fuckboy. NOT being with a fuckboy and getting fucked over.
You are wrong. Most women would not even entertain a fuckboy like you did, let alone try to fix him. Nope.
I'm glad you know your worth then :) I actually turn18 in a few months. But you're still younger than me, you never know. I thought I'd never fall for a fuckboy and it happened in my last year of high school on the first week. You might just meet a guy you fall for instantly. You fall for him and then Whooopss! He's a fuckboy. Trust me, if that ever happens to you, you'll be saying something different. You'll think you could be different and that he will change. Obviously, if a guy walked up and said "hey I've been with 2345678903498 girls, wanna hang?" then you will have no hesitation turning him down. But it's different once you've developed feelings.
I've heard of many women staying with the same guy who's cheated on them a billion times. This is an adaptation of the "would you be with a fuckboy" situation. Some women leave. Some don't. But why? Well, same thing. It's different when you have those rose coloured glasses on. You think everything will turn out better than they will in reality.
So what? You think those women are actually being faithful to that guy? Never heard of a woman staying with or dating a man who’s a fuckboy who isn’t rich. Like I said, most women are not going to date a fuckboy. Many of us aren’t going to stay and try to fix it like you do.
Haha Lemme post a question and find out the answer real quick
I already asked this question multiple times literally all women said they wouldn’t. But go ahead prove yourself wrong
The sheer logistics of sleeping with over 1,000 people is kind of mind boggling in my opinion.
I mean, I'm not shy, but that is absolutely insane. Anyone with a number that high is either a psychopath or has a very specific agenda. Either way, anyone they sleep with is just a statistic.
I mean there are guys in the 10000 look at the link in the descript that guy slept with 20000 women
Yeah I don't know why guys think we like that, haven’t met a woman in real life that said she would date a guy who’s slept around yet
Well sleeping around is having a high number so.
No that’s what it means. You trying to change it makes no sense. Doing whatever it takes to have sex with someone regardless of their feelings is rape.
Ooooook no.
Intercourse against someone's will or without their consent is rape.
Telling a girl you love her so she'll sleep with you and then ditching her is doing whatever it takes regardless of their feelings.
Do not demean rape victims by saying rape is just having sex regardless of their feelings.
What you said at first was 100% rape. What you say now is called playing. Duh.
I don't have any respect for men who sleeps around with every single girl they see. What makes it worse is that they're very happy with great accomplish in life.
Yes but we can use that to our advantage as they would be honest about being a Fboy and we could just leave/avoid them.
@Jhon thot
You want to add a 16 year old girl to your list? Smh sad af
Thanks for the MHO
That is disgusting...
But as for the question, I think it is because they have a messed up idea of what makes one a man, they think that one is not a real man if he does not have multitudes of sexual encounters.
Personally, I think a real man would save himself for a specific woman rather than throwing himself at everyone he runs into in some crude attempt at gaining a boost to his already fragile ego, but that is only my opinion.
I hope no self respecting person would sleep with some one who has had that many partners.
There are guys that have more
Ew, thats just gross
Agree :)
@Justcallmealy I've only ever had two partners
One was a mistake
Good for you. That's very respectable and a change :)
@Justcallmealy thanks 😊
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I'm never one to jump to conclusions so if the guy was actually nice and his intetions were true (unlikely as it is) I might give it a chance. It0s not that I find that behaviour attractive, but rather, depending on how he acts about how he slept with all of them, I'm neutral. I would defenitly ask for a medical exam to check for TSD's tho.
Are you a Virgin?
Yes... But that has nothing to do with my answer. Rather, I don't like to be judgmental over things without knowing everything of the situation. However, I have to say that I would most likely dump him.
Yes it does. Aren’t you that girl who said she’s looking for a virgin to marry? Have you ever been in a relationship?
I am. However, having a relantionship and sex are different things. They are most of the times connected yes, but can be separated also.
Lmaoo you can’t marry a virgin if he’s slept with 1000 women. He wouldn’t be a Virgin.
Okay, I just noticed. I saw the question wrong. I'm not looking for a virgin, I'm looking for someone who gives 0 f**** about virginity. I read as if you were asking if I wasn't going to marry a virgin (myself).
Ok well we will see how your future relationships go since you would maybe accept a thot to date.
... have I struck a nerve with my answer?
Nope, are you a Virgin by choice? Or has no guy offered/been interested?
By choice. While I don't consider sex much different from something like any other, first times are always a memory. I want to do it with someone I trust and cares about me. If someone is willing does marry me then they must truly love me and I would only accept something like I marriege if I loved/trusted them with all my heart. You could say I have trust issues.
I would probably not date a guy that had been with 10 women! I would sure not want to be number 11 out of that 1000!
Absolute not. I imagine to a man like that sex would be over saturated and won't be able to connect with me.
I would never
More than 10 is already too many to me 😅
Hell no, that's a grossly high number.
Yeah there are guys that have slept with more
mentalfloss.com/.../did-wilt-chamberlain-really-sleep-20000-women and this other new guy apparently slept with 15000
God no!!!
mentalfloss.com/.../did-wilt-chamberlain-really-sleep-20000-women What about 20000 if he was rich?
Not even if he was a billionaire.
Absolutely :)
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