Why do you think so many men lie to get laid and to get a girlfriend experience (temporary)?

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I want to know your opinion on why they do that. For example men (this happened to me) lying that they want to or WILL marry a woman, and keep taking about the future with her and how they’ll live together and all sorts of fantasy scenarios. Being naive or desperate or in a bad place, many women fall for the lies. Some men are better liars than others too. So there’s many factors going into why women might fall for the future faking, lies, etc.

but my question here is why do you think so many men do this?

I personally think they are so insecure and need a woman’s validation. They know who and what they are as is isn’t enough to get a woman to want to give them affection especially not right away (the lies get a guy laid and get women to give him affection much quicker than if he had to just be himself or be totally honest).

they feel unworthy. The ironic part is being a low down deviant liar is what makes you unworthy. 😂

and the circle repeats itself.

jazzy34 · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry, but you're incorrect. Men are more clever than you may think. Many men know how to spot a desperate, lonely woman who will eat up ANYTHING they say. They do this to get what they want (sex). Then, he leaves the woman high and dry. It's a game for them. These men know EXACTLY what they're doing. Think about it. Someone who's insecure doesn't have the boldness to do such a thing.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Some say you have to fake it until you make it & on the flip side like buying a car you want to test drive it first. As for the girlfriend experience maybe it was (temporary) because you weren’t good in bed but on the other hand there are a lot of players out there as well.

AvaRay · Answer

I think some men lie to get laid / create a ‘girlfriend experience’ cause it’s easier to promise a future than to face the effort of building a real, honest connection..

Some may be insecure, naive, / desperate for validation, n others might simply lack the emotional maturity to be upfront..

Sadly, when words r filled with fantasies of the future, it can be tempting for women to believe them, cause hope n desire r powerful forces..

In the end, actions reveal the truth more than promises ever could.. 😎🥂

aceleon · Answer

this is not a question. this is just you degrading man.

for answering your pseudo question: because we don't want to deal with the unpleasent parts of the relationships, with marriage there comes the UNWANTED trouble and responsibilities.

what do you expect us to do? suck it up with the fate we don't want? yes we want most things right away, this is what either evolution or god whicever you want to say programmed us.

woman has to be patient and thoughtfull cuz by nature they can end up with another life to take care of.

man has no such things, it is rinse and repeat for us, find a girl, mate, find another rinse and repeat.

you can't get rid of what 300.000 year worth of evolution couldn't get rid of with demeaning us.

you don't accept us the way we are so we have to lie our way through it.

Berethor · Answer

Because those men are amoral, and lying to get sex can be count as rape by deception.

WhitneySnow · Answer

They just want sex and are really drawn to good girls who don’t want sex outside of a serious relationship

Kelley1 · Answer

Because women punish men if they tell the truth. If a man lies and tells a woman, "You are the girl I want to marry," she may reward him with sex. However, if a man is truthful and tells a woman, "You're okay for sex when I'm horny, but you are not pretty or young enough to marry," she will punish him by denying sex."

Nikki1989 · Answer

They are just hard-wired to be that way.  I was told at a young age men will always say what they think the woman wants to hear, and that has been proven to me to be true over and over again, countess times.

Batsy01010101 · Answer

Back the truck up for a damn minute. When i say that to someone i love and care about i actually mean it and have thought about it there is never any lie behind it and it certainly isn't to get laid either. So quit assuming the worst. Not every guy is how you perceive them to be

bowenw · Answer

Guys that do that are players and will say or do anything to get sex as quickly as possible so they can move on to other victims.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I have wanted to do this but I don't like lying or being lied to. The reason a lot of men will do this is because they are unable to find a woman just being themselves so they have to create a new persona so they will be appealing to women.

leahzrc · Answer

They do not believe in a God and mock his creation.

Jejndf · Answer

Because they enjoy using women an they don’t care to put themselves first these kinds of men are very selfish people an it’s hard to see it now but if they leave you it’s for the best you would have hated them eventually anyway especially when uncovering their true self

PeachyPie93 · Answer

All men lie and make up shit. That is why you make them wait until they prove their love and don't sleep with a guy who hasn't been your boyfriend and been exclusive with you for awhile.

MJVillarama · Answer

Totally agree. some guys fake the future to get quick validation. It’s sad, but it often comes from insecurity, not confidence.

michaeljamesromt · Answer

Australia is definitely a strong choice with its mix of lifestyle, natural beauty, and big-city opportunities. The balance between work and quality of life there appeals to many people, especially in cities like Sydney and Melbourne. Reliable services that make daily living easier, similar to what provides in its area, can also add to the sense of comfort in any country. Choosing a place often comes down to where you feel both supported and inspired.

red324 · Answer

Marriage is something that happens after a few years talking about marriage on the first date just shows you're desperate and batshit crazy right off the bat

heruncommonsense · Answer

They all do this. Males are horny and do not have morals.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Actually most of those guys, insecure or not, are only interested in the sex part so will tell the woman anything to get that. It is not really complex.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Some men lie yes. But why do women fall for this every single time? Take things slow, no sex till after a few months. If the guy won’t stick around, then there’s your answer

Shiprex · Answer

They maybe DO want a long term relationship and easier access to sex and want to find someone who is compatible and nice about being with them. Men aren't difficult to please if you respect and enjoy being with them.

zagor · Answer

Because sex feels good. And so some will do/say almost anything in order to get it.

Jenny212005 · Answer

OMG I've known a couple

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Such men are obviously not good people.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They can't get a real girlfriend.

yotaman99 · Answer

I’ve never done that

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