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Cuz he is selfish and only really thinking about himself , some guys don’t have self control they think with their dicks before they think with their heart , as men we love sex , we were born that way , we crave it , when we don’t have it for awhile We start to lose ourselves sex is like a drug to us once we get it we tend to want it more and more so most guys will lie and sweet talk a girl just to get into her pants especially a guy that is in his mid teens through his twenties when are testosterone levels are at it’s highest peak , why most girls today go for older guys , cuz the older a guy gets the more he has learned and experienced things and learns how to respect a girl with his heart over his dick don’t get me wrong we still love sex when we get older it’s just we tend to look at it different As for girls , girls are attracted to a guy emotionally for the most part. So this guy that you had sex with is still on his learning experience , he is using you and lying to you just to get laid not really thinking from his heart just his dick so hopefully one day he realizes he is being an asshole and will calm down and changes his ways. I look at myself now and think if I knew back then on what I know now things would of been a lot different. We all aren’t perfect people , life is a journey of figuring out what is right or wrong , there is always 2 sides of everything , Love can only grow between 2 people when selfishness is removed
Obviously, he did it because it worked. And it works on a lot of girls.
For a lot of guys, sex is very much like hunger. Image having not eaten anything for a week or 10 days - hunger is no longer a minor irritation but a major, constant, non-stop drive that makes it hard to think about anything else. If YOU felt like that, you would probably do whatever it took to satisfy that hunger. That's simply what he's doing.
I'm not condoning his actions, but I'm also not the one in a position to stop them - you are, and other girls are. There will always be people who are selfish and who will use other people and not be bothered by it. Ultimately, they'll lose their "friends" and partners, of course, but it may take years before they feel the sting of that.
It's YOUR job to look out for yourself, and put your own needs and priorities first, at least until someone has PROVEN to be trustworthy, and that only comes with time.
Ah take it as a compliment he wanted you that bad he got you into bed the only way he thought he could. Clearly he wanted to lay you. But if he ain't coming back for more maybe your not doing something right. Men only hit and quit when the sex is shit. You might need to work on your technique. There is no point having a man if you can't keep him given what your clearly looking for. Waiting for marriage is great and all but if the sex is shit your both stuck. This could lead to other problems. Nobody wants that. This is an opportunity for you to learn. Use him as a canvas to paint your next opportunity. Clearly you liked him as a person so what did you like? Keep note so you know that for next time. Before you start crying over your lose bedroom wise was he any good? If not why not? Do you see how you can use this as a learning experience? Do not waste this opportunity to get to know yourself. Your waste a lot less time that way. Then how you are currently doing this. I wish you better next time around. Remember if you want different results. You must do things differently. All the best
Well it worked, did it? No offense, but you did drop your panties for him. So of course guys lie for sex. They want sex. That's it. The sooner you understand that, the better you'll understand what your dealing with. They only get away with it because women like you are so easy to manipulate, you're their new entertainment. It will only stop when you decide when you get your dignity back. How can men respect you if you can't respect yourself? I am not here to try to judge you, but you are the one who has to make serious judgment calls in your life before this happens again. Before you lose your mind over me and their antics.
" I think there’re another ways to get a girl in a bed" Well, there's rape, there is coercion, there are forced marriages, there are other ways is right. BUT, that is how you think of yourself: As Less, and I am telling you this a virgin. This is a test and you failed the exam. You'll have to repeat the grade all over again until you get it. But you have to once again, decide when enough is enough.
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Because these losers can’t get women without lying. I respect a man who straight up tells a woman that he only wants sex. Those men get stupid women who think they can change him or women who are only looking for sex.
That idiot that did that to you gives other men a bad name. If you can’t get sex without lying men, you’re a loser and deserve to be manipulated.
Our brains are programmed to focus on sex then add that to society telling guys they gotta have sex if they want to be a man then the fact that we're not as caring as women now through in the actual physical need for men to have sex. If you add that all together and throw it on some immature guy that is lacking in ethics morals and self control. What do you think is gonna happen. Luckily we're not all that way and really even most that are grow out of it at some point. Also men aren't the only ones that lie to get what they want again not all men and not all women lie to get what they want. Maybe we need to get better at weeding out the bullshit because it doesn't look like society is gaining morals or ethics any time soon it's looks more like they're just running down hill getting lower and lower in their tactics.
There are some evolutionary psychologists who theorise that men developed lying as a mating strategy over thousands of years. The top 20% of men mate with 80% of the female population. So a certain proportion of the lower 80% of men figured out they can just convince women they're a so-called "alpha male" using lies and deception. They act like they have more money status and power than they do in reality. Thus increasing the odds of passing down their genetic material to a mate whose likely to produce healthy offspring.
That said, I have a policy of "radical honesty" because such deceptions are objectively immoral and also are likely to fail as lomg-term retention strategies-- even if they are effective short term mating strategies.
There's no real high brow answer, it's as basic as... to get sex. Whether it's for the chase or simply to add a notch to their bedpost it's simply to have sex. I see it as kind of pathetic and desperate, I don't think it's hard to get laid in general. Hard to get laid with someone I actually like? That's the tougher thing, it is tempting to feel like just taking the easy road.
It's not wrong to think that a man will settle with you but if you don't wanted to get cheated you should have told him sex after marriage only if you wanted him really if your playing outside the boundary line you have to be very good and judgement of whom you choose
We had 80% of our feelings before sexual relationship about sex and the 20% is for emotions unlike you girls has 80% emotions and the 20% about sex so you as girl most of time want the drama so I as man gives you the drama to get your 20% sex untill you are completely nacked take my dick in your 👄 mouse
ya I hate guys like that, ruins it for the rest of us who actually mean shit. The "I've heard that before" basically tells me someone lied to her and now she has trust issues. I mean they lie because it works, but now they done damaged her but that's not their problem, welcome to hookup culture
He disappeared? Maybe the sex was so good he died.. were you dating for some time? First red flag was that he said he loves you, if he didn't add like "I love you like I love Pizza" he was obviously lying. Love really takes a long time, you may like someone a lot as to be interested in that person enough to think of a life with them but you start to really love someone way later.
Because if he would have honestly said : ‘I just want to have sex with you, use you for your body, and then I will never see you again’ you would have rejected him. If he would have been that brutally honest what would you have said?
I only ever hear about stories like this im some random show or read about it online. However, to this very day I have never met a women who shared ever experiencing this first hand. Equally, I don’t know a single man who ever pulled this shit on a women to get laid either. Perhaps it is the circles I keep, but I cannot fathom some guy going to those lengths to get laid when sex is far easier to come by than to go to those extremes. I mean, that came off as damn predatory in behavior.
It's a strong desire to have sex. I'm going till marriage without sex and it is hard for me not chase after it. I want sex all the time it feels like and it would be easy for a woman to use me then dump me destroying what I've worked at for 12 years.
I think when it comes down to it both genders lie about things to get what they want. Men may light about how we feel about you, women on the other hand may lie about liking sports to get him to like you more. Some men may even say women lie by wearing makeup, making them appear prettier than they really are. Men will sometimes lie about how much money they have because a lot of men know that sometimes that's what women want.
The same reason many female's play games and say they doesn't.
Also it's the same both ways with different thing's. even sex.
To get what they want.
An other aspect is. som loos the spark/feelings for the other one because they didn't have something, like right kind of connection when physical. that very important part for many. is it to much off it will not develop any thirder.
Because men are biologically designed to be horny. They are supposed to do anything for sex. Not saying by SHOULD do something like that though. Humanity has evolved, for most, beyond those simple instincts. But some people, still can’t help themselves. I feel bad for them. Because I know how bad it feels to have such impulses and not get a girl. Cos I can’t get the girl either way.
maybe because the guys (ONLY THOSE WHO ARE PLAYERS, NOT ALL) know it quite well that women typically dreams of getting married and settling down with the man they love and that's one of the MAJOR reasons they give their body to that man...
Because girls like liars. They often give tons of compliments too which makes it obvious but girls think they are so deserving of constant compliments that they don't realize it is the users that fill their heads full of BS that do that.
Some guys love going after girls who are a challenge which makes sex all the better for them. They get off on the chase. It sucks but there are good guys out there and I hope you're doing okay <3
They literally can't help it. I had an ex like this. Just lied and when he got caught in a lie he would lie some more. Like okay weirdo 🤷🙅🤦
There are some people like this guy. They just want you for sex. But doesn't know how to tell you that. So they take this way to sleep with you.
"I think there’re another ways to get a girl in a bed"
Lol not the girls who are actually worth fucking.
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