I met this guy a while ago on a dating / hookup app and we started to click right away and also spoke on the phone early on too. We talked about all kinds of topics all day and night. I enjoyed the time we spend and he seemed like he did so too.
At first I thought that we would only hookup anyway, so i didn’t really think that much about a relationship and focused a bit more on sexual stuff, then he asked if we could take things a bit slower and not rush anything and I agreed, yet he kept talking about sex in one moment and then about relationship and dating in the other, he also called me babe pretty early on and wanted me to tell him that I loved him, which I thought was weird but still shrugged it off.
i developed a little crush on him but from one day to another he said that we should just stay friends and that we were too different, which was a lie. Two days Later he said that he missed me and was scared and confused himself because of how quickly I grew on him, so he asked me to give him some time to figure it out, which i did and we agreed to try it again on the condition that the both of us take things slowly.
he’d still say sexual things, even during serious conversations and said that he wanted something more with me (relationship wise) and even said that he fell for me, which I knew couldn’t be true, but he said that me not taking his words seriously would only motivate him more to “love” me.
Weeks passed and suddenly he asked why I didn’t meet some guys at a party i went to and what was preventing me from doing so. I was confused and told him that I didn’t want anyone else and he said that he just kinda wants to chill right now. I asked if he even wants to stay in contact with me and he said that if I want to stay, I can, which hurt a lot.
two days later I suggested that we part ways because of his indecisiveness. He apologized for how he treated me and that he really likes me but doesn’t know what he wants and that he’ll soon reach out to me.
