Why do most men never admit that they’re attracted to blondes?

[Anonymous]

I think that men who says they don’t have a thing for blondes , lie like women when they say they don’t have a thing for taller men.
( ofc some men might be serious just like some women might truly like short guys but it’s EXTREMELY RARE)

However If you ask a guy, what’s his favorite hair color on women, most of them will either reply that they don’t have preferences or that they prefer brunettes, during a study 60% of men say that they prefer brunettes, but my motto is « watch what they do, not what they say ».

During a social experiment, many people noticed that a blonde woman will get 3x times more likely than a brunette and a redhead to be accosted by men.
I also once decided to try it my self and I was SHOCKED cause That's when things started to change. Men truly liked me more. They were warmer and kinder, and acted as if their duty was to protect me. They were more likely to offer to do things for me, like carrying my bags, opening doors, offering free help (note that I didn’t changed my make up, cloths, weight and attitude) I was EXACTLY THE SAME, except ofc my hair color.

The thing is that many blondes don’t notice how much they live life on an easy mood, compared to brunettes, redheads and women of color.

Men that says they prefer prefer brunettes or that they don’t care about hair color are either liars, or they just can’t control or remember the way they act and think around them.

I notice so many times that a brunette have to be at least a 7/10 to be considered pretty while a blond blue eyed woman who’s a 5 can easily beat her

Now there’s nothing wrong about it, cause you guys are free to love blondes just like women are free to love taller men. But why do you deny this so much? Deep inside I feel that you just say you prefer brunettes because there’s many of them, and they will be more likely to refuse to let you have sex with them, if they learned that they’re a seconde choice.

[Anonymous]

Um... Plenty of guys say they like blondes more. But why would it bother you if some prefer brunettes? They can still like blondes too...

Why would men who say they prefer brunettes lie in a study? That study isn't going to help them get laid, my dear. I'm bi and I prefer brunettes too, but blondes can be hot as well. Brunettes make up the majority of women across a variety of races - there's so much to like. To prefer blondes, who are a minority, over that huge diversity of beauty, seems a bit much to me, but I won't knock anyone for their preferences. Also, natural blondes usually have seemingly nonexistent (very light) eyebrows without makeup, which isn't my cup of tea. I love a defined and intense dark frame around some sultry eyes - you mostly get that with dark hair and/or dark eyes. But also, I think there's a stereotype of the dumb blonde, which doesn't help. I dont think thats what most guys are thinking of, but some might. If a guy strongly prefers natural blondes, he is saying he prefers one minority of women over all this:

This isn't even the whole array of brunette types of beauty. That's a loooooooot of types of women you'd have to pass over to get to the "I strongly prefer blondes" point. It's cool if that's your thing, but as someone who likes women... that's just a looooot of types of women you're asking someone to say they don't prefer, just for some blonde hair. East Asian, South Asian, Middle Eastern, women of African descent, Latinas, Native American, brunette European women from UK to Italy to Eastern Europe, Russian brunettes, etc. It almost doesn't make sense to say you prefer blonde unless the sight of light hair REAAALLLY does it for you more than anything else. Some guys might be thinking this same way. I personally think the obsession over blonde women in media comes from a European love for the rarity of it, but other than that... I really don't see an overwhelming number of blonde women outshining this immense amount of beauty from brunette girls from a range of ethnicities and looks. I just don't, sorry.

But the study you mentioned said 40%! That's not nothing. If that would be true among millions of guys as well, thats almost half. Plenty of men love blondes, dont worry lolol

[Asker]

You’re wrong. Many men would pick a blond average looking chick with a big nose and crocked teeth over these stunning exotic women. I see that all the time

[Opinion Owner]

lol okay sure hun

Many would, but not necessarily most or all. I actually now guys who claim to like blondes but seem to end up with brunettes (and these are guys who could have their pick). Plus, 40% could still be your "many men"! 40% of a million is still almost half a million. So you're not really disagreeing with me or the study.

[Anonymous]

About time someone said something in college and high school the schools I went to were diverse and a lot of mixed guys prefer or drawn to white girls with blonde hair. I did a research paper actually on races and what people’s types were it was very interesting what I remembered about the statistics. I did do a survey asking like 200 males question on looks and genes. I know for a fact in the world there is more people that have brown and dark hair. Blonde pops out something about blonde attracts the eye. It comes down to people preference...

[JackSmy]

Maybe a lot of guys like me HONESTLY ADORE brunettes, or women with their natural hair color. . .
Post the link to the 'study' to which you refer! I don't believe it is anything but a Cosmopolitan Magazine 'quiz' result set!! :) :)
It really sounds like you just want to believe that guys like blondes! OK, fine, but why start your post, saying MEN ARE LIARS?
Who do you think will support that?
I disagree with your post, mostly because of how you seem so judgmental, and thinking you know what men think, and want!
Ask your question, but think, just a bit, and don't be so OFFENSIVE, posting it, saying that men are liars in your post!!! WTF?

[Thatsamazing]

Kind of a weird rant here, sis...
Anyway, sure we like blondes, but something that girls never seem to understand about guys is that *we do not care primarily about hair color, or even hair style.* We care about a female's face and figure first, and literally everything else second. That includes hair color. So maybe a girl being blonde helps her out a little bit extra over other hair colors, but not nearly as much as you think-- if she isn't already actually attractive, as in with good face and figure, then her hair color isn't going to freaking matter to us.

[Hello_999]

Makes sense. We definitely care more about details etc

[Thatsamazing]

@Hello_999 Yeah we don't care much about small details. We care about the big things. I think girls often focus on details more because they're easy to change, like your nails or something. Big stuff like your weight is hard.

[Hello_999]

I’ve always been a stick...

[Thatsamazing]

@Hello_999 I wasn't referring to you personally, I meant you as in the general sense.

[cast277]

So how old are you? I assume not out of college. Guys dont really have a preference. Maybe you just look better as a blonde? Dint get me wrong I like blondes, also brunettes and redheads. But it really doesn't matter as long as the person looks right with the hair color. Like if you are tanned dont go light blonde. Hair should always be darker then the person. And if the guys you are talking about are college level they probably think it's easier to fuck a blonde. Or saw you changing your hair as a sign of, "hey I want attention". There are to many variables her. Just let guys like what they like. Like me. I like any hair I can pull. Fucking weaves I swear to god!

[Anonymous]

"... Like women when they say they don’t have a thing for taller men".
Screw your question I'm answering this instead since I'm one of those women.

No woman would reject a guy because he is too tall. So in that sense you're correct but just because someone has a preference for shorter men because they're not a fan of looking like a kid when standing next to their partner doesn't mean they're "Lying". If I could choose between a short man (5'6-5'9) or a tall man (6'0-6'3+) I would always go for the tall man if we are judging on height alone.

[Opinion Owner]

Always go for the *short man*

I bet I'm going to get roasted now 😂

[itsjustlew]

I've rejected guys for being too tall. I'm short and I don't like freakishly tall people (which to me is 6ft and up) it reminds me of bigfoot or slenderman depending on their physic. I want someone who's 5'4-5'9. Short men are way more attractive without those long legs in my opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

@itsjustlew ok cool

[thisisausername9999]

yeah just like that other girl said, too tall is a big problem for many people.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I don't like blonds. That doesn't mean a blonde woman can't be attractive (is that seriously how women operate? That if a guy is average height he is immediately found repulsive and ugly and undateable? Women are weird), it just means if given the option I will choose a brunette or redhead if all else being equal (as long as it fit her of course). I think your just being weird.

[Petra150]

Oh yes that might be right , and just imagine being a very tall blonde , as men wouldn't admit they are attracted to tall girls either, as it's regarded as an fetish. So it were hard to me when dating, as I had two things against me, and pretty hard as I knew out there were a lot of guys who were desperate to date me or ask me up, but didn't had the guts

[TripleAce]

They dont admit it? ... since when lol
when do they say I don't wanna do it with that girl because she's blonde? Dudes love blonde girls
there is a large host of ethnic people that love blonde girls too lol because they are like the typical blue eyes blonde hair white girl. East Asians, south Asians, Middle East... billions of people combined all wanna do it with blonde girls

[JustinTheGreat]

I’m more into brunettes and I don’t get why I would be lying about it lol
There are blondes that I’m attracted to, Margot Robbie for example is absolutely beautiful. But in general I just prefer those with darker hair.
I don’t get why you’re so concerned about mens hair color preferences though

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Most Men lie yeah, men are almost attracted to every kinds women there exists or shall exists and also men are protective and caring of you, they do it probably for every girl they find attractive or it's in the gene encoded to protect or care for the person who they know

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I love blondes and never had a problem admitting it. My wife is blonde and many of my exes were blonde.

Yes if you ask me who is my celebrity crush I will say Gal Gadot and not Kate Upton. Gal gives her 100 to 0!

So ya it varies with the person you are looking at too.

[Unit1]

Uh, nein. I am attracted to WOMEN! I care little about hair color. Women are beautiful. Beautiful is attractive!

If you don't believe that, then, well, sorry-not-sorry to tell you, that you are simply deluded. Conversely we men also (hopefully) do not believe, that *all* women are gold diggers.

[AD240pCharlie]

I DO in fact consider black hair (or just dark hair in general) to be more attractive than blonde hair, and the same goes for skin color and eye color as well. However, I wouldn't say that their hair color is the one and all determining factor when decided whether or not someone is attractive. A can think a blonde woman with blue eyes is attractive as well if she has other qualities I like.

[0112358]

More men prefer brunettes.

however, the percent of men who prefer blondes is larger than the percent of women who ARE blondes. So blondes get a lot of attention as individuals because they are rare.

it’s a supply vs demand issue.

[Jjpayne]

Well we don't like to act like we are self centered :) but I can like other hair equally on girls, some hair simply looks better on different girls but I can't argue that blonde does look nice because it does

[godfatherfan]

That is a ridiculous statement. Probably 80% of the women I have dated were blonde, including my ex wife. Blonde hair, blue/green/grey eyes is perfect.

[WadeDanielSmith]

Let's explain how this works.

A man is honestly attracted to damn near any healthy woman, so hair color isn't going to be a deal breaker for any guy.

[AaronKrieger]

Well that's because we never talk about hair colors that often to start with, since we don't care about a girl's hair color unless it's an unnatural dyed hair color.

[BestUserName100]

Because they aren't. You think they are lying? Ok.. In a sarcastic rude tone.. Sure they are.. I can say anything I want.. It doesn't make it true tho...

[AdithyaR]

I can say with absolute certainty, I don't find blondes special.
I've always found women with black hair very attractive and redheads have always been my ideal.
I'd choose a brunette over a blonde any day.

[winterfox10]

I never really gave it much thought. Most things are like that in dating, I think. People just don't care enough to really think about it. I have found more brunettes attractive than blondes (by percentage of the ones I've met from each group).

[Anpu23]

I am definitely an exception, I have a big preference for pale skin with dark hair. Virtually everyone I've dated has fallen into that type and it's certainly what I am attracted to.

[ATLAS-1]

So your "proof" that you know better than what men say is a "social experiment" and personal/anecdotal evidence? Haha.