A 37 year old man preying on young girls, creep now?

[Anonymous]

My ex husband (37) who I have an 8 year old son with is now "seriously" dating a 22 year old (black) lady, she is stunning (former beauty queen) and is a student + interns with a politician; While my ex is a financial advisor now (just finished his MBA)... I am not jealous, just CONFUSED on how this even happened? Could he be actually be considering remarrying her, or just having fun/using her?

[spartan55]

You aren't jealous! LMAO.. yeah and I start at safety for the Eagles too. You wouldn't have made a point of mentioning she was a beauty pageant winner and stunning... and blah, blah
It's really none of business tbh. What is there to be confused about? They are attracted to each other... what's complicated about that? What kind of explanation about it would clear it up for you? No one owes you any explanation.

*btw I would be careful using the term 'preying on young girls' in association with your ex. He is not breaking any law. If I were him and saw this post I would be livid.

[Max_SS]

You definitely are jealous. Girls like older guys and if it were up to me I'd probably date someone much younger as well if I could

[Americanteengirl]

No we all don’t like older guys and That’s sad af

[Max_SS]

When I say older guys I generally mean just a few years older 1-5 let's say. What's sad?

[Americanteengirl]

You said you’d go much younger if you could that’s sad and disgusting

[Asker]

@Americanteengirl BYE TROLL

[Americanteengirl]

@Asker no you seem like a troll with this fake question I had doubts but it’s confirmed now

[Max_SS]

I don't see how that's sad or disgusting. 18 is considered an adult and why wouldn't I want them to be physically attractive for as long as possible? Every girl I've met/seen has pretty much agreed with me for the most part.

[Americanteengirl]

18 is not much younger you’re definitely talking about below 18. And yeah you don’t sound smart at all a girl being younger doesn’t mean she still attractive long

[Max_SS]

Lol why are you so hostile? You're imagining things

[Americanteengirl]

*she’ll stay attractive long, I can tell your relationships are not good with your thinking.

[Max_SS]

What's wrong with that? It's not like attractiveness is bad. Personality always takes priority though

[Americanteengirl]

That’s obviously all you’re thinking about and your logic makes no sense which will be your downfall. And like I said from before all girls don’t like older. Many prefer younger

[Asker]

@Americanteengirl lies.

[Max_SS]

How does it not make sense? If you had 2 people with equally good personalities would you not go for the more attractive one? A preference for younger guys is definitely in the minority (not to say some girls wouldn't be open to it though).

[Americanteengirl]

You sound dumb af I swear younger equals more attractive in your book cause you’re slow. @Asker stfu

[Americanteengirl]

You are both bad men.

[Americanteengirl]

Preference for younger guys is not in the minority at all.

[Max_SS]

I never said that. What are you so insecure about that you feel the need to call people names out of the blue?

[Max_SS]

@Americanteengirl Fyi I made a new poll and it pretty much confirms that the majority of girls prefer older guys while guys prefer younger girls.

[Americanteengirl]

Ok and you’re wrong many guys are predators on here like you. And I know there were still women that said they prefer younger or same age. What someone prefers depends on the person if you were smart you would know that but you obviously aren’t look at the stuff you say. Funny how all the guys I’ve talked to who said they prefer younger are unintelligent predators.

[Max_SS]

For the most part the women there who said they prefer younger guys were women that were older, in their 40s or that were already dating someone younger. If something bad happened to you that makes you feel that way I'm sorry to hear it. In any case you're making a very wild accusation.

[Americanteengirl]

We’re done here. “I’d go much younger if I could” obviously you have a mental issue. Disgusting indeed.

[Max_SS]

Lol do women who say that have mental issues too?

[Anonymous]

Possibly, but it’s unlikely she really loves him. Hot young women make mincemeat of dumb middle aged men who can’t face that they’re not young studs anymore. He has money and contacts, she has youth. Who ends up using who?

[Opinion Owner]

If you’ve kept yourself in shape, you could sleep with a young guy in his sexual prime too. Someone fun like an artist or musician even. Most pairings in life are temporary one way or another.

[DeshawnMGTOW]

Lmao. He uses for sex.. she uses him for money but she's lost more. He can make that money back. She can't ever make back all the years of her prime she lost dating some old ass man.

Only desperate young guys or guys with mommy issues would fuck an older woman tbh lol. its rare. especially among high quality guys who usually date younger

[Opinion Owner]

These kinds of age gaps usually involve using guys as stepping stones, though, not wasting youth. It’s uncommitted guys their own age who end up wasting their youth, because they cling longer to them. Only super damaged attractive women will waste much time on significantly older man. Either he gives her what she’s after or she moves on.

PS: I’m not talking about DATING a young guy. I’m talking an uninhibited romp. All my slutty guy friends played with both older and younger women... it’s not that rare with guys who truly like sex abc not power plays.

[Asker]

@DeshawnMGTOW
"Only desperate young guys or guys with mommy issues would fuck an older woman tbh lol. its rare. especially among high quality guys who usually date younger" What? She is younger, not him...

[Opinion Owner]

He obviously sees this as some kind of score for all penis having citizens, don’t take him seriously.

[Asker]

"it’s uncommitted guys their own age who end up wasting their youth, because they cling longer to them" Interesting... explain please?

[Opinion Owner]

People don’t waste their youth on older lovers very often. It’s usially someone they fall in love with at s younger age and excuse all their bad qualities out of naievity and hoping things get better. 10 years pass and it’s the same douche/bitch you’re with, only worse cuz the love buzz is gone.

[Americanteengirl]

The asker is a man

[Opinion Owner]

Still true. Both men and women spend too much time with dummies in their younger years. Someone who they know doesn’t really love or satisfy them.

[DeshawnMGTOW]

lol stepping stones..

Stepping stones by wasting your twenties with some old ass dude then having him dump you for a younger woman because he rich and he can do that. meanwhile u hitting 30.. u hitting the wall and no high value dude want you then lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Lord, you think everyone is out here playing the sexual stock market? 🙄

Most people want decent sex, some laughs, a cozy body to cuddle and a lack of drama. Let the users play their own games.

[Americanteengirl]

Deshawn you thot when you hit 30 you will be bald and bitter.

[Opinion Owner]

Or he’ll meet a cute girl who isn’t the prom queen but still sweet and realize all the crap the PUAs fed him to sell ads was wrong.

[Americanteengirl]

No you as a man will probably be bald at 30 too

[DeshawnMGTOW]

@Americanteengirl no one gives a shit bout what u say. troll

[Americanteengirl]

You’re the troll shrimp d**k you’re unattractive now being 30 won’t help

[DeshawnMGTOW]

@Americanteengirl u either a troll or dumb af LMAO

[Americanteengirl]

“MGTOW” you’re the lame troll.

[DeshawnMGTOW]

@Americanteengirl u dont know shit bout MGTOW.

[Kas19]

Why does it matter? While yes, it's weird, they are both consenting ADULTS. So I wouldn't say he is "preying" on young girls. A lot of guys just like younger women.

[MlleCake]

He could be. It might be something deep between them. You never know.

Why does it matter?

[Anonymous]

Well he's your ex now so free to do what he wants.
Men's value on the sexual marketplace increases as they get older espicially a well educated one with a well paying career.
If you are over 30 you will never get a guy half as good as your ex.

[ROCKS128]

He is your ex. You must not spend your time thinking about him.
Let him do whatever he wants, dont be bothered unless you are getting affected.

They will meet their fate anyhow.

[UI_Vegeta01]

You are clearly jealous. Plus she isn't a "young girl" she is a grown ass woman. "Preying"? Seriously? Get help. And he isn't the creep, you are the creep. He doesn't want you in his life so why are you trying to intervene? Attention whore.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A 22 year old isn't a girl, but a grown woman even though I don't agree with big age gaps.

[hellacray]

How did he even meet this 22 year old beauty queen?

His company sponsor her or something? Lol

[DDpsy]

Well, 22 year old women are not young girls and consensual relations are not "preying".

[outside_Toronto]

How would anyone else know what his/her intentions are. As long as they're happy, who cares

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

He might marry her that is not a big age gap as long as its legal love is love

[zozo7880]

I'm sure you aren't jealous at all.

[BeMuse]

Nope he's not creep, he just moved on.

[Americanteengirl]

If he’s average looking she’s using him lmao

[Americanteengirl]

This is a fake question

[Anonymous]

He`s 37. she`s 22(LEGAL). what`s the problem?

[WhereAmI]

Aren’t you that young yourself? Why is this odd?

[Americanteengirl]

It’s a troll

[JimboGB]

Well considering you said "preying" lol

[jjj101010]

No problem. Both r adults

[buttcrackjoe]

Nunya beez kneez