Why do guys sometimes fidget around me?

Question

I notice sometimes that a guy will see me and get really fidgety. I don't know what this means but it's happened on several occasions I'll walk into a room and there'll be this guy who will get really fidgety-moving a lot, playing with things, looking at me and then when I look at him he looks elsewhere or just looks around a lot trying not to look directly at me. What does it mean and why do people do this because it makes me feel like something is wrong with me or I make them uncomfortable.

Answer 1

mikenice8

Xper 5

Lol yet another girl who is crazy beautiful but thinks there is this huge pimple on her face only guys can see. They're nervous, they wanna check you out and they're mind is screaming wow she's increadable I wish I could pull her. This happens a lot, if you ever see one your really attracted to give him a wave or nice smile and maybe he'll come over.

Asker

+1 y
Haha well thanks and I'll try it I just would hate for me to wave and him just freeze up and not wave back that would be incredibly awkward haha.
mikenice8

+1 y
Wow you really think your that drop dead gourgeous huh. Wave and freeze up, well you could just go after him yourself unless your to nervous to do so.
Asker

+1 y
haha um no not really ha ha I just meant if he's already nervous then wouldn't me drawing attention to him make him more nervous. If I was drop dead gorgeous then I would have a boyfriend right about now so...no haha.

Answer 2

Asker

Haha well thanks and I'll try it I just would hate for me to wave and him just freeze up and not wave back that would be incredibly awkward haha.

Answer 3

mikenice8

Wow you really think your that drop dead gourgeous huh. Wave and freeze up, well you could just go after him yourself unless your to nervous to do so.

Answer 4

Asker

haha um no not really ha ha I just meant if he's already nervous then wouldn't me drawing attention to him make him more nervous. If I was drop dead gorgeous then I would have a boyfriend right about now so...no haha.

Answer 5

Anonymous

i get fidgety around the girl I like or any girl that I find really attractive, it is just a feeling of nervesnous and tapping your foot etc is more acceptable in public then talking to yourself

Answer 6

jman7

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In my opinion, I believe that they are attracted to you, and get nervous when they are in your prescence when they are around you. They probably just like you and nothing is wrong with you. I'm a guy by the way, and I do the same things when I'm around a girl I like or just girls in general. Hope this helps.

Answer 7

darlanoy0510 | 259 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

I think those guys find you attractive. They just don't want to make it oblivious that they are staring or drooling after you. I feel you because I get same reaction when I walk in some places. I'd usually think I had something on my face or vegetable between my teeth.hehehe.

Asker

+1 y
haha same I like look down because I feel like maybe there is something on my face haha

Answer 8

Asker

haha same I like look down because I feel like maybe there is something on my face haha

Answer 9

akkenny

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your probably a stunner

Asker

+1 y
; )) ha ha but I don't know why don't they just talk to me then instead of acting like they could care less by avoiding eye contact.
akkenny

+1 y
I do the same.. Its easy for you to say just come and talk to me.. there asking for rejection or disapointment so wouldn't want to bother. Plus some I've heard of good looking girls that if you approach them will just flip out so that pretty much makes me think twice and never even talk to a girl I don't know
Asker

+1 y
That's really sad to hear actually how can you deny yourself of all of the gorgeous women in this world based on something you've heard. Boy are you missing out man especially these days I hate to say it but girls have become easier to get with so you actually have a huge chance of getting with a lot of girls haha. Don't second guess yourself if one says no then move on to the next one I mean rejection is everywhere you gotta take it and say "thank you and f*ck you" and move on haha.

Answer 10

Asker

; )) ha ha but I don't know why don't they just talk to me then instead of acting like they could care less by avoiding eye contact.

Answer 11

akkenny

I do the same.. Its easy for you to say just come and talk to me.. there asking for rejection or disapointment so wouldn't want to bother. Plus some I've heard of good looking girls that if you approach them will just flip out so that pretty much makes me think twice and never even talk to a girl I don't know

Answer 12

Asker

That's really sad to hear actually how can you deny yourself of all of the gorgeous women in this world based on something you've heard. Boy are you missing out man especially these days I hate to say it but girls have become easier to get with so you actually have a huge chance of getting with a lot of girls haha. Don't second guess yourself if one says no then move on to the next one I mean rejection is everywhere you gotta take it and say "thank you and f*ck you" and move on haha.

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