Why do guys look in your eyes during sex?

[jazziemegs]

Previous guys i have been with only glance a few times at my face but the guy i am starting to see now looks at my face the entire time and when i look back at him he looks directly at me and either kisses me or looks away and then looks back

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Do you look into the eyes of girls you are more into than ones you arent?

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

We're more romantic than you think. Looking into the eyes give a deeper connection to sex, it makes you feel infinitely closer spirtually than if you just focus on the sensation of sex. Guys like to do this to really, "take in" their partner in more ways than one.

[jazziemegs]

yeah i totally get that i like it to. I just dont know where i stand with him. - casual or starting to be something. So i was thinking maybe him looking into my eyes (which casual guys haven't done to me before) might be a sign that he might like me more than just for sex

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

He might very well like you more than casual since he does that. Perhaps you ought to have the, "what are we" talk.

[jazziemegs]

i just feel like its too soon bc i have only seen him a few times. But at the same time i feel like its needed or just maybe the talk about him being honest with what he wants. Bc i feel guys who dont want more than casual dont do this. it seems very intimate

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Do you like him? Or do you just feel like you've been alone for too long? It's important you've sorted out the difference before you take it any further with this man. Honesty is the best policy when there is uncertainty, he has feelings too you know, and might be taking a big risk by making himself vulnerable to you. The more straightforward you are about how you feel and the sooner you are, the less risk he'll feel led on.

[jazziemegs]

i really like him and want to get to know him a lot more. i haven't been alone for too long - i got out of a relationship about 2 months ago and am over that completely so its not rebound or anything. I like him so i want to be certain on signals he is giving me

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Then trust your own feelings and recipocrate his actions, make intense eye contact and take it further.

[jazziemegs]

yeh i totally get that thanks for the advice! its hard to trust the feelings when you have been really hurt before. thank you! i will definitely do that

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

If you let bad experience dictate your actions now you'll have good ones. Go for it! Rejection and hurt is all part of life, you can always learn from it.
Best of luck!

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

You'll never have good ones*

[JohnAlaska43]

Whats wromg with looking at your face. Maybe he likes how you express yourself through love making.
I think its sexy to look into a womans eyes as she is enjoying herself.

[jazziemegs]

yeah i like him doing that. i was just wandeinrg maybe he likes me more than just a casual thing - see i dont really know where our relationship stands so i thought maybe him looking into my eyes meant he liked me more than just casual sex?

[JohnAlaska43]

pretty sure that he does best rhing you can do is ask.

[JohnAlaska43]

thing sorry typo

[CherryRoseChampange]

I don't actually like it tbh (i think I'm kinda ugly and I'm shy lol) but sometimes my boyfriend will ask me to look at him because wants to see my reactions. So I guess that could be a reason?

[jazziemegs]

mm ya i get that if he is your boyfriend but i have only slept with this guy a few times. and i dont even know if we are casual or taking things further. i kinda thought that doing this maybe him showing he likes me more than just a casual fling

[CherryRoseChampange]

Possibly, do you guys have honest conversations? You can ask him in a light joking manner if not. Phrase it how you asked this question.

Like "Hey, why do guys look in your eyes during sex?"

After he answers teasingly say

"Is that how you feel about me? 😏"

[CherryRoseChampange]

Keeping it light and friendly makes it havs a less prying. So even if you get a distant answer it's like you were joking a bit so it won't be such a blow. Or he won't feel put on the spot so much

[jazziemegs]

HAHA that is true i should ask him, but i really like it when he does it i just didn't know if thats a sign of him liking me further than just a hookup. i dont think i will ask him - i think more the quesiton is are we just messing around or what - which i hate having this convo

[manmeat]

follow me?

[LuWe22]

To see your reaction and yes it turn him on even more when you like it and show it. You don't have to fake a moan just breath

[CuChullan]

The pleasure reflected in a woman's eyes during sex says so much about her.

[jazziemegs]

Does it ever indicate how much you like her for instance would you look into the eyes of a girl who you are more into than others?

[CuChullan]

I would look into every woman's eyes at some time during sex. I love watching the pleasure shown in her eyes.

[Thatsamazing]

@jazziemegs No.

[Thatsamazing]

To see her reaction as we fuck her and how she looks when she cums.

"Do you look into the eyes of girls you are more into than ones you aren't?" no.

[loveslongnails]

I like to see if the girl is enjoying it as much as I usually do... and it promotes a connection, presuming I want one! OR... she's got beautiful eyes and a fact that would stop traffic !!

[loveslongnails]

That would be a FACE that would stop traffic !!

[winterfox10]

he wants to have a deeper sexual connection with you.

[bill_towers]

If he doesn't look in your eyes then he imagines Megan Fox or other women haha

[Love2Jackit]

Maybe that's his way of concentrating on you 2 keep from coming 2 quick. That's his way of mind over matter.

[wankiam]

its the difference between sex and love making

[jazziemegs]

so you think he is starting to be more interested in me beyond just hooking up?

[wankiam]

seems like it or he is just a very caring lover

[jazziemegs]

yeah he could be - we have only known each other for a few weeks and have gone on dates once a week which have all lead to sex tbh we are very physically attracted to each other thats why im alittle hestiant. but he also does other things that are extremely caring outside the bedroom etc. so thats leaves me more confused lol

[wankiam]

well its only natural to feel that way but i think you have little to worry about. infact quite the opposite

[jazziemegs]

oh really? thats good to hear. but it was weird and i still dont get this. i stayed over at his place on the weekend and then i sent him a text later the next day saying how i had a good time and we texted for a bit then he didn't text me at all the next day and i had to send him something asking how he was in which he replied to 30 mins later. do you think this indicates something? like not being interested or is it a guy thing not really wanting to talk? (see my ex was a huge texter so i dont know what others are like)

[wankiam]

it is a guy thing to not be so into texting but in this case i think he may have been acting cool as not to scare you off because we are all told constantly not to come on too strong.

[jazziemegs]

oh really? yeah bc i was confused bc i thought everything was really good between us but then this happens so i was even more confused. cause the previous time we met i didn't message him after and i got a text the next morning asking if i was okay or something

[wankiam]

maybe he was sat there all day wondering why yo never texted him to ask if he was okay lol... its all the joys of a new relationship but given what you have told me so far this one holds more promise than most

[jazziemegs]

yeh but he never opened my message until the next evening and then he just didn't respond until i sent him something. maybe it was just he didn't want to talk or didn't know what to say - but i like him so it felt a little concerning. i think i just need to talk to him about what we are doing here bc then i probably can feel more at ease.

[wankiam]

i think that would be wise... you certainly do seem to be at the point where you need to talk.

[Anonymous]

I want to see her facial expressions and see if she's enjoying what I'm doing or not. Do you not like looking at guy'ss faces?

[jazziemegs]

no i like looking st them - i just was wandeinrg is this a sign that a guy likes you more than just for sex or just for casual sex?

[Pinky_what_why]

Lol have no idea never had sex tbh

[manmeat]

passion

[Pixel343]

I don't...

[jazziemegs]

thanks very helpful

[Pixel343]

mho?