Most brothers are overprotective and don't let their sisters wear stuff showing cleavage But is it possible that a guy wants his little sister to wear stuff with cleavage (normal amount of cleavage) like short dresses and revealing stuff but again not too much A crop top for example I usually hear older brothers saying that's too revealing and that skirt is too short you can not wear that But this guy I'm talking about made his sister change her style and start wearing sexy stuff When she started high school he was like "you need a whole new closet. You can not go out wearing these" Is this a normal behaviour that an older brother wants his little sister to be sexy and attractive hence popular and noticeable and one of the cool people in school and outside And he also forced her to start working out (when she started high school) and going to the gym with him so her body is sexy and attractive and so she has abs (but after few weeks she started going to the gym willingly not just forcefully) by the way just to be clear she does like wearing her new clothes and it makes her feel more self-confident so she's not wearing these stuff forcefully. She was just shy and didn't think she could pull it off and rock those sexy cool outfits And tbh she really does rock those looks and the style just fits her...
Is this even possible? To have a brother like this! He is overprotective when it comes to hanging out with guys and stuff (like all older brothers) but he does want her to be sexy
Please share your opinion about this and answer my questions Thank you!
PS: the pictures are just random stuff to explain what i mean of revealing stuff but not too much just sexy and attractive
Overprotective brother wants his little sister to be sexy and one of the most attractive girls in high school. Is this normal?
No, the guy's either a pervert or a fucking idiot. He should be encouraging her to focus on her studies and not to worry about that stuff.
School isn't a popularity contest, and it's also not the time when you find someone decent to have a relationship with. It's not the time to worry about attracting the opposite sex. It's also definitely not right to try to be "sexy" by dressing like that. That will only attract attention from the wrong kinds of guys and you can look good without wearing such revealing clothing.
At school you're supposed to educate yourself and set yourself up for success as an adult. Many popular kids, because they're so focused on all of that bullshit and see learning as something uncool which only geeks do, usually do nothing with their lives.
He's basically steering her down completely the wrong path.
the 1 and 3 (from the 3 outfits picture) seem OK the other one are more suitable more older girls, and they are also one of my favorites (also the purple crop top... this look super nice but, for for older girls)
Sweetheart, are you KIDDING ME? Dress appropriately, as your PARENTS commands you to be. NOT your crazy butt brother! Sounds like to me, he's trying to flash you for one of his so-called buddies to screw or impress. Your nobodies entertainment! Like others have stated. He is not protective. He's sick! And you need to tell your parents about that. He can't force you to do anything. I consider this abuse!
I know exactly what you're talkin about. I overall say is not a good idea. Just because that he is her brother that doesn't mean you step in and start dating him. You are far too close, and that can hurt your friendship if it doesn't work out.
Again you got this wrong i am not trying to date him i don't even know him that well I just asked about this situation because it did not seem that normal because i always see brothers always telling their sisters not to wear these kind of stuff and to be careful around guys and stuff but this one he is just so different and as you are saying he is a pervert and yes of course i will stay away from him
No it's not like that he doesn't think of her as sexy that's disgusting He just wants her to seem attractive to other guys not just be a nerd and a loner in high school who always gets bullied and eats lunch in the bathroom cz she has no friends
You should let him control you, but offer to help him control other girls that you are friends with, if he lets you have some freedom. So like, if you can get a girl her likes to make out with him, you are allowed to wear what you like for one week. If he finds you a boyfriend, say you will allow your boyfriend to control you instead of him. Etc.
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My opinion is that he is definitely not an overprotective, he is really onto something over here.
I think he is not overprotective but jealous when he don't want her to talk to some other guy. But wants her to be sexy, he is definitely onto something. This definitely is red flag
As long as she's happy, not forced and does it willingly then its her choice so let her. But if bro or anyone forces her or whatever then she should stop
So because he wants her to wear sexy stuff in other words he allows her and has no problem with her wearing these kind of stuff This makes him not protective?
So it is not normal that her brother doesn't want her to be a loner and get bullied and stuff He wants her to be popular to be happy and at the same time away from getting bullied
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