Is it weird for a brother to call his sister beautiful?

[Anonymous]

I said to my boyfriend "your sisters beautiful." He said "she is."

Then we got onto the conversation on brothers and sisters getting it on and he said, "doesn't it turn you on?" And started referencing Game of Thrones Cersei and Jamie (siblings turned lovers) and their sex scenes. Obviously the sex scenes turn me on, but the relationship- definitely not.

also my boyfriend is Iranian... lolol I don't know if I'm being racist or what (I am super sorry trying not to offend anyone here). But maybe they speak of their siblings differently and it's a cultural difference? He's born and raised in England though.

[txrey79]

Uh... well... yeah there really isn't anything wrong with saying your sister is beautiful. you added the conversation about the incest in GoT, though... could be unrelated and he just finds the taboo of the (albeit fake) taboo relationships exciting... If you really want to get to the bottom of this, I'd ask him in a week or so about his sexual fantasies, what does he like, ask him about his porn watching habits. I would recommend this be done in a very intimate setting with the appearance of openness and acceptance. then see what he says...

[madhatters4]

i don't think it's weird to say your sister is beautiful.

in terms of him finding the incestuous relationship of the lanisters hot, this does seem odd and it does make you wonder if he finds that specific relationship hot or incestuous relationships in general hot

[This_is_my_username]

Compliments don't have to be sexual in nature. Or coming from a sexual standpoint if you understand what I'm trying to say. You can give someone a compliment while being completely detached. Like your boyfriend did. You said something about his sister and he acknowledged that point. Its harmless. Just like people say my cousin is good looking and I say meh okay. 😂😂

[xMiaxBuerx]

My brother calls me beautiful all the time, wel my step brother whom I sometimes fantasize about... but my blood brothers call me ugly (often joking or they want to piss me off) a lot.

[Anonymous]

I hope my brother calls me beautiful!

If not, he can make his own coffee!

[Vanjasper]

I find it hard to make judgement on something like this. No one knows what effect closeness, the bond, the curiosity, sex drive, simple attraction, can have on two siblings of the opposite sex. As long as it's consensual, precautions are taken, it's kept private, they are harming no one.
A lot more of this goes on than we realise.

[lEat70sBush]

Dunno why incest considered weird at all other than all the media brainwashing. I have no sister but if I did and thought she was hot I'd tell her so. Maybe even fuck her if she wanted me to. And I'm in America where you are jailed for such things if you fuck sister and then brag about it to the wrong people. Yet beastiality is still legal in 14 states and people can marry who or whatever they want. Go figure.

[HaveNoName]

It all depends what you have in mind when you say it. It's not a big deal if you genuinely want to commend your sister just because you care. My wife tells all dads they should also tell their daughters they are beautiful because girls like it.. specially at young age.

[Ripper_E]

It's not weird. Some brothers may feel uncomfortable saying it, but its fine. It would probably help if she has any doubts about herself. At least she would know her family sees her as beautiful. No, not every girl knows that.

[Anonymous]

A man can say his sister (or mother or daughter) is beautiful without it being creepy, even if he's just referring to her physical beauty. It doesn't mean he wants to have sex with her!

[hiphopbean]

not fine mam... never involve GOT in your real life.

[CMcGill]

sounds like you said she's beautiful and he just agreed with u. I think my sister is beautiful but she's my sister and i love her. but I'm not in love with her lol... that would be gross

[Regular1]

Only weird if he's telling her that to get some sex.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

No. Being beautiful doesn't mean you want to have sex with her or marry her.

[Karl99]

No it's like saying «she's tall» and answering «she is»

[BrittBratt2416]

No, just giving his sis a compliment

[John_Doesnt]

It's not weird in Alabama.

[This_is_my_username]

Lmfaooooo
I've heard this joke before 😂😂😂

[Jaggersbae]

No, my brothers call me beautiful all the time.

[Anonymous]

That's just being proud of his sister that's fine

[Anonymous]

Perfectly natural.

[emoteen289]

no its fine