My boyfriend would rather get high, play the game, or just straight up ignore me instead of being here for me when I need him?

[Anonymous]

Tonight, I needed my boyfriend to possibly pick me up from a friends house because I was in a situation to where I was feeling uncomfortable because of her older brother. My friend and I have been close since Pre-K so I come over a lot, but her brother usually isn’t there and if he is, he doesn’t usually stay. Her brother is 10 years older then us. (We are 20) anyways, my friend and I fell asleep in her room early tonight, but I ended up waking up just 2 hours ago because I kept feeling like someone was coming in her room and I’m a light sleeper. Whenever I am awake, it takes me a while to fall back asleep so I got up and went to the bathroom, and came back in her room, then I finally was falling back asleep until I felt someone move my blanket and touch me in my private area which OBVIOUSLY freaked me out, and I’m still freaked out. I woke up crying, and I immediately called my boyfriend, which was a fail cause he didn’t answer me until the 20th time. It turned out he was high whenever he did answer (marijuana) and by that point when he did answer, I was on my way home. Anyways, I’m still needing my boyfriend to just come get me just for the simple fact that I’m freaked out and he has the nerve to say I’m on his nerves and now is ignoring me. This has actually become a habit of his. It’s like when I need him, he is high or too busy to help or tells me I’m on his nerves. What do I do? :( does my boyfriend not care?

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I love my boyfriend with all of my heart, and I want is for him to start being here for me again. It’s like he doesn’t get how serious this situation is. I’m so heartbroken that he wasn’t here for me tonight especially.

[JoseJr]

Id say you have a tiny bit of fault in this. Not for putting yourself in this situation, as some other people said. It was an unforeseen event. But choosing a guy who is in short, kinda of generalizing way "Aint shit guy". I dont see you being able to do much to change how he is. If this happened with my girlfriend and I would seen how many times she called I'd automatically consider it an emergency. I would have called and been doing triple digits on the dash. Not asking for details or nothin. If you need me Im there no questions asked. To be honest it sounds like he simply doesn't care no more and you should start looking elsewhere. Thats my opinion

[Marcuslrh]

Well a feel sorry for you falling in love with someone like that I would go crazy if you told me that and all he has to say is you get on his nerves what a piece of shit sorry for the language but you can do way better than that joke of a little boy

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriends an asshole and you deserve better

[Anonymous]

You expect your boyfriend to bail you out of your situation he isn’t your fucking dog slave he has a life too, he low key deserves somebody better then you

[Asker]

Wow? Don’t you think that’s a little immature to say? Didn’t nobody say he was a “slave” or that he doesn’t deserve to have a life. It’s just the simple fact that anytime I need him, he isn’t available especially tonight when I really needed him. I am always there for him! Regardless of what the situation is, I am ALWAYS here for him. I’ve done so much for him to the point where I’ve given him $1,000 for 3 months straight just to help him out because he didn’t want to get a job, and you're telling me HE deserves better? All I wanted was him to be here for me. A boyfriend is supposed to be there for his girlfriend. I’m not asking for too much whenever I’m just asking for him to be here for me. You’re crazy and immature, obviously.

[Asker]

You’re under the age of 18, so no wonder why you’re immature and have 0 sense on why it is important to be there for people you love.