Ignore them, they havnt machured yet. Its proven... women are smarter than men, and girls are smarter than boys. So get a makeover and dress alittle sexy, and watch thier reaction. Some of them might secretly like you. But dont take thier shit! 👍
@Donaldlt False, it is actually proven that men are smarter. The intelligence varies more among men so the dumbest and smartest are men. Women tend to make up more of the middle ground. And no, teens shouldn't dress sexy to get approval of others.
@AynonOMouse Thank you ans that's true, I find it very annoying to see girls in my school dress "sexy" or even "slutty" just to get a boy friend or more friends
No, don't take offence to any mean things people call you, don't let yourself get upset, show them how strong you are and that you don't care. They'll soon get bored
Sure, because the people who are calling as 'nerd' and 'dork' , are known for their ability of memorizing the knowledge, and never getting further than its surface. What a pitiful thing to be!
I never said anything was wrong with that. I'm just saying can't I be sporty outside the classroom and a nerd inside, but than people call me a nerd, geek or dork. I don't mind the first 2 but I personally don't like being called a dork.
The question is why would you want to be offended? That's a choice. If they call you that say "yep." What are they going to do? Call you a nerd again? Nothing wrong with getting good grades. Being insulted is a choice, its just one that I don't understand people choosing to make.
It didn't bother me? I asked you why it bothers you? Clearly my statement bothered you, why? You have no idea who I am, I'm just some random "asshole" on the internet. People insult you to hurt you, that's the point, the words are meaningless except for whether or not they matter to you. If you decide they don't matter then at best they can annoy you like a dog barking may annoy you. That was the point I was trying to make. Not sure why you got bothered by what I said (just trying to point out that as far as "offense" is concerned its a choice and so whether or not it hurts you is up to you (as I said, they want you upset they would use any word they thought would upset you). You also shouldn't be bothered by what others say, if you know who you are and are happy with who you are then what they say doesn't matter. If they say your fat when your not, will that offend you? If so why? Its clearly wrong right so why does it have an affect on you that is different from any other wrong statement like if they said its raining outside when its not? Obviously its easier said then done but the goal should be to not let them dictate how YOU feel, that is all they are doing, manipulating your emotions to make themselves feel better about themselves.
The comment didn't bother me, as I thought it bother you because some people think that if I get offended from being called these names (nerd or dork) that it's a bad thing. This is why I thought you were bothered by this
Not bothered at all, as I said I just don't understand why people allow others to have so much control over them. For instance I would consider myself a nerd (love science and history and anthropology and pretty much everything else. I like comics and stories etc. etc.), I see no problem with that. People want to get under your skin but they can only really do that if you let them.
That's a good decision. I get that its harder to do when your younger but its good to keep in mind, assholes are assholes, why bother with them? You know who you are and your friends and those you care about know who you are, that's what matters.
Don't feel bad, just respond in kind. Find their weakness, find what their insecurities are, and tear into them. Make the little shits cry in their pillow when they get home.
Don't physically attack them, cut them with your words. Find their flaws, be they physical features, or something more emotionally devastating, and use it against them.
I'm glad to hear that. I don't miss being 13, but that's about the time I put some bastard in a trash can because he wouldn't leave me alone, I had less problems with people after that.
ahaha Normally I have a very big mouth and tend to use it a lot, but in year 7 I had got suspended for defending myself from these bitches as they wanted to fight me and were sending me death threats ( they talk big but are really just small girls that only care about themselves). So now I need to be on my best behavior because these people can spin shit and get me in trouble.
ahah I don't believe I had done anything wrong. When someone is saying that you have only 24 hours to live with your family, they are lucky I didn't say something else :)
My father would've wanted me to fight her just to knock some sense into her but because she is like a twig my dad think 1 hit and she would've feel to the ground and severely injured herself
Oh if someone is threatening you or your family, all gloves are off. The school can do what they're policy requires, but you should never feel bad about busting someones lip in such a situation.
Of course, that's why you really want to learn to eviscerate people with your words. It can be more satisfying than any hit.
You shouldn't get offended by much, only injustice to others, and the fact that people and governments don't care about the needy or elderly, that's all we should be offended about honestly. The rest is trivial shit
At your age boys will be boys everybody gets called names pay no attention to them. They're are probably just crushing on you and calling you names just to get your attention after all you are an athlete
I wish you the best of luck don't sweat the load you'll do just fine in life keep your head up and keep plugging away whatever you do don't quit Sports
I went to school and experienced the exact same thing and I've heard many stories as well that's usually the way it is for the real youngsters out there they don't know what else to do to get a girls attention
Are you a nerd? Do you think of yourself as a nerd? I am a nerd. I was just like you in high school and I am still a nerd. But I am also cool. And I am also a stud. And I am also reliable and trustworthy. I am a lot of things. Being called a nerd is an unintentional compliment given by the intellectually inept in a type of situational irony.
By the way, popularity means absolutely nothing when you leave school. ZERO. So take what they say with a grain of salt because their insults are worthless
you will have the last laugh... while they are in jail or flipping burgers you will have a well paid job and meaningful life. in the meantime you should however report their bullying to a tutor
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Ignore them, they havnt machured yet. Its proven... women are smarter than men, and girls are smarter than boys. So get a makeover and dress alittle sexy, and watch thier reaction. Some of them might secretly like you. But dont take thier shit! 👍
Thank you but I like how I look, I think I will just be me :)
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@Donaldlt False, it is actually proven that men are smarter. The intelligence varies more among men so the dumbest and smartest are men. Women tend to make up more of the middle ground.
And no, teens shouldn't dress sexy to get approval of others.
@AynonOMouse Thank you ans that's true, I find it very annoying to see girls in my school dress "sexy" or even "slutty" just to get a boy friend or more friends
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No, don't take offence to any mean things people call you, don't let yourself get upset, show them how strong you are and that you don't care. They'll soon get bored
Thank you and very true :)
Sure, because the people who are calling as 'nerd' and 'dork' , are known for their ability of memorizing the knowledge, and never getting further than its surface. What a pitiful thing to be!
Yeh very true
Do not be offended. Once you get into the world of adults, you will find that many men adore nerd women.
And what is "the truth"? WHAT IS WRONG WITH BEING A NERD?
I never said anything was wrong with that. I'm just saying can't I be sporty outside the classroom and a nerd inside, but than people call me a nerd, geek or dork. I don't mind the first 2 but I personally don't like being called a dork.
Are we not men?
We are DEVO!
We must repeat.
D-E-V-O
I don't get offended when people call me this. 🖤🤓
That's good :). Nerds are beautiful, but people like that just can't see it â¤
Totally agree with you đđâĽď¸đ
The question is why would you want to be offended? That's a choice. If they call you that say "yep." What are they going to do? Call you a nerd again? Nothing wrong with getting good grades. Being insulted is a choice, its just one that I don't understand people choosing to make.
Well I'm still a child, who's learning. I'm sorry if it bothered you that I was offend, but now I know that it means nothing.
It didn't bother me? I asked you why it bothers you? Clearly my statement bothered you, why? You have no idea who I am, I'm just some random "asshole" on the internet. People insult you to hurt you, that's the point, the words are meaningless except for whether or not they matter to you. If you decide they don't matter then at best they can annoy you like a dog barking may annoy you. That was the point I was trying to make. Not sure why you got bothered by what I said (just trying to point out that as far as "offense" is concerned its a choice and so whether or not it hurts you is up to you (as I said, they want you upset they would use any word they thought would upset you). You also shouldn't be bothered by what others say, if you know who you are and are happy with who you are then what they say doesn't matter. If they say your fat when your not, will that offend you? If so why? Its clearly wrong right so why does it have an affect on you that is different from any other wrong statement like if they said its raining outside when its not? Obviously its easier said then done but the goal should be to not let them dictate how YOU feel, that is all they are doing, manipulating your emotions to make themselves feel better about themselves.
The comment didn't bother me, as I thought it bother you because some people think that if I get offended from being called these names (nerd or dork) that it's a bad thing. This is why I thought you were bothered by this
Not bothered at all, as I said I just don't understand why people allow others to have so much control over them. For instance I would consider myself a nerd (love science and history and anthropology and pretty much everything else. I like comics and stories etc. etc.), I see no problem with that. People want to get under your skin but they can only really do that if you let them.
I know and posting this has made me realize that they mean nothing to me and won't be people I would choose to hang around
That's a good decision. I get that its harder to do when your younger but its good to keep in mind, assholes are assholes, why bother with them? You know who you are and your friends and those you care about know who you are, that's what matters.
Yeh, thank you
not a problem.
I never get offended, I donât care what people think about me.
Okay
Don't get offended. Being smart is wonderful, and doing good in school will get you way further ahead than these guys ever will.
Thank you :)
Welcome đ
Would care, neither should you. My suggestion is don't give social interaction so much power while in school and focus on studies
Okay, Thank you
Not at all! The only person that thinks you are a dork is the thick idiot that is threatened by your intelligence! Thrive in the threat of knowledge
Thank you. Love this reply :)
Thank you đ
Don't be offended by that nonsense at all. People like you are D-1 athletes, not nerds. Do you, because "you" is killing it!
Thank you :)
Don't feel bad, just respond in kind. Find their weakness, find what their insecurities are, and tear into them. Make the little shits cry in their pillow when they get home.
Thank you. My only problem is my cousin has gotten expelled (as he the compete opposite of me) so now his friends annoy me.
Don't physically attack them, cut them with your words. Find their flaws, be they physical features, or something more emotionally devastating, and use it against them.
These people have no heart, all they care about is there next girl friend of boy friend
That just makes it all that much more satisfying when you knock them down a peg or two.
lol, thank you, everyone has made me feel a lot better :)
I'm glad to hear that. I don't miss being 13, but that's about the time I put some bastard in a trash can because he wouldn't leave me alone, I had less problems with people after that.
ahaha
Normally I have a very big mouth and tend to use it a lot, but in year 7 I had got suspended for defending myself from these bitches as they wanted to fight me and were sending me death threats ( they talk big but are really just small girls that only care about themselves). So now I need to be on my best behavior because these people can spin shit and get me in trouble.
I may have been suspended a handful of times in high school, though not until senior year.
It was all in direct response to others actions, however, and my parents didn't really care.
Well, except one, I stacked a lot of fire wood that time.
ahah
I don't believe I had done anything wrong. When someone is saying that you have only 24 hours to live with your family, they are lucky I didn't say something else :)
My father would've wanted me to fight her just to knock some sense into her but because she is like a twig my dad think 1 hit and she would've feel to the ground and severely injured herself
Oh if someone is threatening you or your family, all gloves are off. The school can do what they're policy requires, but you should never feel bad about busting someones lip in such a situation.
Of course, that's why you really want to learn to eviscerate people with your words. It can be more satisfying than any hit.
Yeh, very true
I'm gonna go to bed no because I have Sydeny West Cross Country tomorrow :)
Sydney*
Good night, and good luck!
You shouldn't get offended by much, only injustice to others, and the fact that people and governments don't care about the needy or elderly, that's all we should be offended about honestly. The rest is trivial shit
Thank you :)
At your age boys will be boys everybody gets called names pay no attention to them. They're are probably just crushing on you and calling you names just to get your attention after all you are an athlete
Thank you and maybe ur right :)
I wish you the best of luck don't sweat the load you'll do just fine in life keep your head up and keep plugging away whatever you do don't quit Sports
Dw I won't :)
That's awesome to hear I just now saw your picture and that's exactly what it is they're crushing on you
Really? I mean I hope not. People like that aren't people I would ever want to like me
I went to school and experienced the exact same thing and I've heard many stories as well that's usually the way it is for the real youngsters out there they don't know what else to do to get a girls attention
Yeh true
Keep your head up and pay no attention to those people
I won't
Are you a nerd? Do you think of yourself as a nerd? I am a nerd. I was just like you in high school and I am still a nerd. But I am also cool. And I am also a stud. And I am also reliable and trustworthy. I am a lot of things. Being called a nerd is an unintentional compliment given by the intellectually inept in a type of situational irony.
Those who get Aâs, work hard, and get called nerds are those who end up making 200k a year in their future careers. So tell them to go SUCK IT😂
By the way, popularity means absolutely nothing when you leave school. ZERO. So take what they say with a grain of salt because their insults are worthless
Thank you and very true :)
No donât feel bad. Theyâre jealous, kill them with kindness and continue to excel.
Okay thank you :)
You confuse plural with possessive so you aren't that much of a nerdy dork.
Thanks :)
you will have the last laugh... while they are in jail or flipping burgers you will have a well paid job and meaningful life. in the meantime you should however report their bullying to a tutor
Yes very true :)
Have your aunt call your cousin on the carpet for not challenging their bullying.
Thanks will do :)