My boyfriend won’t shower with me... he always tells me how gorgeous I am and we’ve been together for about 5 months now?

[Anonymous]

I’ve asked him why he doesn’t want to and he says it’s just inconvenient and he just doesn’t like showering with people. Do you think this is true or there is more underlying reasons as to why he doesn’t want to?

[btbc92]

Because it's inappropriate? You're not married? He doesn't have to if he doesn't want to. Either way, respect his choices. Your only dating for 5 months and you already want him to see your body or lust because of something? Sound's like insecurity on your part. If there was something more to it, then its red flags you've been missing since dating him on day 1. So you have to look at what you've been missing from the moment you've met him up until now to determine if this is something you want.

[Taylor_C]

He gave you the reason. He doesn´t like it. Don´t overthink it.

[Anonymous]

BC showering with another person same with taking baths it's just awkward and not fun.

It looks so great in the movies but you never seen any one reach down for the shampoo or try and clean them selfs in the shower with another person in.

It's just awkward then you wanna have sex but you can't go straight to the bed BC then the bed will get wet it's just a hole thing

[October808]

You don't need a bed to have sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but water gets everywhere and I don't know having sex standing up in the shower is awkward if you have a small shower

[worldscolide]

Depends on the size of the shower.. Before we moved I wouldn't shower with my wife because it was a shower tub. The risk of injury was too high. Now that our shower and bath are separate we do it all the time cause our shower easily accommodates both of us..

[Cincyhitech]

I’ve never really liked showering with a girl or girls if it was intended to clean. Now in my early 20’s to late 20’s showering in a playful sense as to take Molly and then have some foreplay with your girlfriend or a few random dready mama’s at a house party, that’s completely different. That can absolutely be fun. Now I’m in my late 30’s and I’m self conscious for whatever reason about my 2 big toes that have some fucked up issues going on I won’t even take my socks off around my girl much less get in the shower with her.

[spartan55]

He gets naked with you for sex, correct? You are being insecure.
I don't like showering with a woman either, so I get where he is coming from.

[Anonymous]

My ex husband didn't want to either. I think it is personal preference and I wouldn't read that much into it.

[different83]

The simplicity of this answer is what makes it right and the best answer.

[Insomnia72]

Find out why he won't shower with you. What's his reason?

[KrakenAttackin]

What, are you afraid he is masturbating in the shower? Even if he is so what? Give the poor fucker some privacy for whatever reason he wants. You do not own his cock.

[humanearth]

It's true. Some people like to be alone with bathing.

[OddBeMe]

Seems like a dumb thing to argue about (which we all do), but why won’t he just do it to placate you? It now seems weird that he won't.

[Meatunnel69]

Showering with other people ain't the best someones butt is is always freezing

[whatdoumeandammit]

Kinda weird. Dont push him though.

[justawhiteman]

Is he insecure about his body?

[jizzyjay]

He's embarrassed of something or shy

[Joker_]

He's definitely hiding something from you

[aeon95]

I'm the same way I think it's stupid.

[Nice222]

I think he is respecting your space.

[dudeinohio]

I'd believe him.