Guys, Help 22 year old virgin?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys I’m 22 and I’ve never had sex, I just recently started talking to this guy and I’m really on edge because I know eventually as the relationship grows he’s going to want to have sex. I know I’m going to eventually going to want to as well. The problem is I’m extremely inexperienced. I know it’s going to feel terribly for me the first few times but I at least want him to enjoy it. How is it going to feel for him because I’m a virgin? What should I do, guys what does it feel like for you being with a virgin?

[soleil2666]

Why would it feel terrible to you? Don't go towards it with that idea - sex is good, like really REALLY good, in and of itself (it also creates life but that's another topic unless you want to go there - do it outside of ovulation and/or use a condom)

Anyhow - do take it veeeery easy, and don't do the 'the first few times it's bad' - because it will never feel good if you start like that (and you will, like the rest of 43 or 52 or whatever the % of women out there is, be faking orgasms)

If you go gently, play/caress and feel comfortable, you will WANT to go there - once you do - GO, as far as it feels comfortable - and then stop and take it easy until you feel like going further again (which will come to you if you are attracted to him, trust me).

If it fails, if you don't feel it - don't go there, full stop.
There will always be next time - no amount of insistence the first time around - do what you feel like doing, as far as it is comfortable.
Then you will discover just how much fun and joy it actually is.

[WalterRadio]

I have been with many virgins. Yes, it is awful sex. It is just something to get through. After about 20 times, you'll get the hang of it.

Here is what you need to know to make it easier on you:
1. Relax. Your instinct when he starts to enter you will be to clamp up and close your legs. That is exactly the wrong thing to do. The wider your legs and the less muscle tension down there, the easier and less painful it is going to be.
2. Use lubrication. Trust me, this makes it a whole lot easier.
3. Do not use a condom. Either go on birth control first or time it to a day when you are not fertile, per calendar method (this does not work if your periods are irregular).
4. When he goes in, have him go all the way and then just stop until the pain subsides. If he starts going at it like you were not a virgin, it will be worse for you.
5. If the pain goes away, then just "listen" to the physical feel of what is going on. Don't try to do it any particular way.

That's it.

[razelove]

Honestly I've always been frustrated sleeping with virgins, mostly because a lot of women say it, but aren't. Then when you sleep with someone who is the experience is painfully tight at first, then a group learning experience. For him those first few times are going to feel fantastic, and end quite quickly. The main thing y'all need is communication, what feels good to each of you and how to achieve it. That will make or break the experience. Have fun with it!

[MaX1mu5]

Best thing to do is to let him know you're a virgin and that you would like if he started slow. I've been with a couple virgins, both had different reactions when we first had sex. The only real difference as a guy is that, typically, if you care about the person, you're going to be worried that you're hurting her. So my advice would be to let him know if it's okay to speed up, or tell him to slow down, and try to be as calm as you can if you need him to stop for a bit. And if you're really worried he won't finish, keep a thing of lube nearby just in case you dry up due to any pain that might occur, or any blood that might be present as well.

[Anonymous]

Make it sweet and intimate make sure your ready and so is he. If he won't wait then its notnroght and it won't feel good.

Work to be relaxed nakedntogether and it will happen maybe you will get a virgin like you.
I'm hoping to meet a virgip girl some day like me.

[Avicenna]

Guys are not bothered by a woman being a virgin. Furthermore, being inexperienced is not the problem you think it is. An inexperienced woman who is passionate and enthusiastic will be great at sex.

[ryudomasters]

There is no negative stigma for girls being virgins, you have literally nothing to worry about. He will be happy you are even conscenting to him in the first place.

[Ripper_E]

Don't worry about any of that, it will only matter to him if he doesn't like you. Your feelings for each other should be your only focus.

[myanders]

Continue to be a virgin especially in Christ and He will bring the best for you being a virgin is a rare and lovely gift

[Anonymous]

Inexperience is most guys' preference. There's nothing to worry about. There's no expectations. Just chill.

[Codywow]

Bruh, its a positive trait. It shows you're responsible.

[aeon95]

I dont know any men who care about virginity. In fact most guys always said they're a keeper.