Why did he block me?

[Anonymous]

We had daily contact for months, and we met up and we were being sexual. So why did he block me after ending it? I wasn´t harrassing him or sneding any unsolicited messages or anything. He knew I still have feelings for him.

[NikolasGLT]

If he said he wants to move on, it might mean he wants to move on as if you're a sort of obstacle to him. If he blocked you then that is his way to deal with obstacles in his life... Ignoring them by force. If there is no way to contact him, I would suggest you to move on as well before you make things any harder for yourself.

[Asker]

I didn´t try to contact him

[NikolasGLT]

If there is a way to do so, confront him for his behavior and ask him why he did what he did before we jump to conclusions.

[Anonymous]

Not really sure why I guess maybe To make it easier for the both of you to move on and so that he doesn't see your messages if you ever felt tempted to contact him

[Anonymous]

Move on. If he wanted you, he’d unblock you and contact you. Guys apparently can throw away easily and leave their mess behind.

[Anonymous]

Well what was your last conversation like?

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to move on. And he can't if you two are still in contact

[Asker]

It had a lot of casual joking and he sent hearts and kisses and talked about next time we meet

[Asker]

You think he still has feelings for me?

[Love45talk]

Well what about the next time you guys meet? Have you guys been on dates? It's hard to tell with no context...

[Opinion Owner]

@Love45talk yeah I agree

[Asker]

@Love45talk Yes we have and he commented on how compatible we are

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm that's odd. Maybe he's into someone else.😔🤔 maybe cold feet...

[Asker]

The situation is he was separated from his wife. Do you think he may have opted to get back with her but still has feelings for me and needed to block me to keep himself from contacting me?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes 1000%%

[Opinion Owner]

What are you going to do about it now?

[Asker]

Is there anything I can do?

[Opinion Owner]

Either fight for him or move on... what do you think you should do?

[Asker]

I´m clueless. Please tell me.

[Opinion Owner]

Well what does your heart tell you? Then what does your brain tell you? Tell me and I can help further.

[Asker]

I love him and would do anything to be with him. What can I in practical terms do?

[Opinion Owner]

Contact him. Call him. And tell him to hear you out. Maybe tell him why he should be with you instead of the wife. That may be difficult if he's made up his mind. But if you think he's worth the fight then go for it. Honestly be ready for rejection. But to me you should quit for him. Tell him how you feel open up to him.

[Opinion Owner]

Shouldnt*

[Asker]

I already did that- Didn¨t help.

[Asker]

But you think he was hurting from letting me go and that¨s why he blocked me?

[Opinion Owner]

He could possibly well be hurt from letting you go.. but through it all he's moving on regardless I see..

[Asker]

It would help me to be able to believe with some confidence he still wants me but blocked me to protect himself from getting hurt.

[Opinion Owner]

Your on to something

[Ravikaler]

Try me