So my crush wants me to smoke w him?

[Anonymous]

Imma just get to the point,
I've had a crush on this guy for a while now, and lately he's been asking me to smoke w him.. the problem is:
1. I don't smoke, I'm not interested in weed, it's just not my thing.. like we're both too young for this shit...
2. I don't see why he has to be high to hang out with me.. like he said he's not awkward or shy when he's high but hmm ummmm... I'd rather him sober anyways..

Like is there a reason? Is this a good thing or not?

[AynonOMouse]

You should stay away from him. Drugs are bad.
One of my former friends from high school smoked weed and he knew it would never go to anything worse, which of course it did and he ended up smoking meth eventually. Well he cleaned up later on once he had his first kid, but after he had 3 then he got back on it since most drug users go back to using. Then he kept asking his wife to do it together. Eventually she did and got addicted as well.
Well once they couldn't afford it as often she was so addicted that she started having sex with people for drug money. Then he started beating her. Now their kids have a bad home life.
Plus whatever stuff you do can affect your future kids even if you stop before having them because you already have all of your eggs (possible future children) and what you do now affects those eggs. The more women do drugs the more common it is becoming for kids to have mental and physical disabilities.

Just stay away from those kinds of people.

[zuroh920]

Weed isn't the drug that starts you on other stuff its alcohol like you dont just jump from weed to meth I've been smoking since 14 and never done anything else and I dont plan on it

[Avicenna]

Doesn't sound like a good idea to me. And don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.

[QueenTanya]

Don't smoke with him. You obviously aren't comfortable with it at all. Also, if you end up not having a crush on him anymore, you'll just regret it. You're both underage, that weed isn't healthy to smoke; it just is not worth it. Tell him no, there's no need to compromise for him.

[zuroh920]

If you don't want to dont its not his choice whether you should smoke or not think for yourself

[the_coolest_guy]

Find good guy