Why young guys like older girls?

[Anonymous]

so a 16years old boy said to me that he likes girls that the same age of me like 20 yearsold why is that?

[SuperManiac]

Sophistication? Romance? I don't know about these days given how much teenagers are sexualized but they weren't so much when I was younger. If you saw women sexualized, they were actual women... stockings, perfume, the seductive way in which they put on their lipstick, the way their eyes would meet with a man's over dinner as they sip wine and glance in the man's eyes, challenging him, and they seemed to have something these "dumb girls" (just my perception at the time, and yes, I was dumb too, and maybe still am) around me didn't have. Then I grew up (sorta) and got disappointed.

[SuperManiac]

I can't boil it down to just sexual in my case at least. I mean we had high school sluts. BJ queen. But you know, they were just "girls". I'd get a little bit excited standing behind them on the stairway while their ass cheeks hung out their teeny shorts. But I found something much more interesting and abstract in "women" at the time. Maybe I could connect deeply here. Well, I didn't understand high school. I understood adult seduction. I wanted that level of sophistication in my life. Then I caught up. After that, I stopped liking the older ones around the time I reached my 20s. But I still kept feeling like I was surrounded by "girls", you know, only the older ones also seemed mostly like "girls". So I had to search to find "women".

[SuperManiac]

And the idea of "women" became more age-independent the older I got.

[jasco]

cause there more mature and are smarter then younger women for the most part some older women are just plain stupid others for the most part are just what most guys want in a relationship ( a real one anyway)

[Anonymous]

I supposed It's because boys prefer adult women over underdeveloped/developing girls?

[msss98]

He thinks ir gona have more sexual experience so he wants that probably

[theshreyas]

I think that might be due to hormonal changes going on in his body.
When I was 16 ( Now I'm 18 btw) I used to like a lady who was 32 year old. Now I find her too old for me.
Still I am actually attracted towards girls who are aged than me. Like in their 20s or so.

[Dainolf]

It starts early. Every dude I know have been attracted to a friends older sister or even mother. Also teachers is very normal.
I think the idea of learning about sex from an older women is exciting for young boys. Older women also have more developed bodies than girls of same age when you are still in school. Wide hips and big breasts is very exciting for a young school boy. When we get older tho we can more attracted to younger women.

[Dainolf]

Also most likely the first naked women boys will see will often be mature ladies. I never forget when I saw my pre-school teacher, I still prefer women like her today. Probably because that is the first naked women I remember. Believe it or not but those really young boys with their mothers in the locker room at the swimming hall is checking you out.

[FrenchyRomain]

because hotter, more open to sex than virgin 16 year olds, more experience in basically everything, more mature and with such maturity can bring either comfort or counsel.
Why would he date within his own age?

[FakeName123]

Insecurities about taking things into their own hand - so they want to have someone else take charge.

[Ripper_E]

I'm 28 and I like women up to 50
4 years isn't that much. Realistically, I would only date a woman that is 5ish years older.

[soleil2666]

Probably because they'd entertain connecting rather than playing 'likes' just to get the attention to feel good about themselves (and so prostitute a guy's interest for some profit elsewhere)

[Trev4444]

When you're a 16 year old boy high on your own testosterone developed 20 year olds look very very sexy.

[Manhart1999]

Why not i would say!
I mean in the sense that older girls just seem more mature & experienced.. and do things better usually..

[theCobbler]

Because they see maturity in The physical form. And are still jacking off to playboy.

[oncpl]

Older girls are more experienced and help young guys to learn many things in sex.

[GreenGold1992]

older girls are sexier and more desirable and experienced and grateful

[EnglundUberAlles]

He wants to learn about sex from a mature woman. It's perfectly natural.

[DrLex]

Cause young girls are crazy af