I think I might have scared her away by being too clingy. What to do? Girls, I could really use a view point from you? She's making me crazy?!

[Delmar]

She is the most beautiful girl I know, but so does everyone else. We were perfect for a month, she got scared of labels, boyfriend and girlfriend, and she started talking to me after really weirdly after we had the conversation, like short conversations, but I still texted her everyday, even though they're were some days she didn't text back. I think I might have scared her away by being too clingy, but I didn't really know if I could trust her cause she so beautiful, and knowing guys as I am one, I'd be all over her, if I had the chance at a party. But I'm really upset I scared her away, by pressuring her on where we stand in our relationship. I'm gonna give her 2 weeks space, and just before I leave the country for a while, if I still feel the same, I'm gonna tell her I'm sorry for being a clingy *****. Tonight she said to me "I'm with a senior... So stop blowing up my phone", but I think she said it to stop me from texting her. Girls, what should I do and is there anyway to come back from being clingy? she's the best girl I've ever had, but I screwed this up really bad I know. I'd do just about anything to get her back right now, no matter how long it takes. she's the most real thing I've ever felt, and made me feel feelings I've never felt before. Our thing was sunsets on the beach, if that gives you any ideas. I'm almost 100 percent sure she isn't with a senior, cause she was at a party, and she sat alone talking to one girl the whole time I heard. Please help, I'm going crazy here!

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update: I'm back with her after giving her 2 weeks space, she said she just needed some space then and she was flippin out. All good in the hood ;)

[Anonymous]

I'm really super sorry but it sounds like she's just not into you. While it might be that you scared her away, it's also totally possible that after a month she found she just wasn't that into you. You can try to give her space and then contact her again. However going off the fact that she lied just to try to get away from you and since she said she was with someone else (even if it's a lie) I think she's really positive she's done with you. If she still liked you even a little bit I don't think she'd risk alienating you by lieing and flat out tell you to stop texting her.

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[crushsodacan]

It seems like she's just not ready for a relationship. I think she just wants to enjoy the single life while she's young. My suggestion is just slow down on the texting and trying to get her back. And just try to be a friend to her. Hang out with her with as a friend. And just show her what she's missing. Also just don't make yourself seem too available. Make yourself busy and show her you're having fun without her. Since she's so used to you always texting her, she'll start to wonder and start thinking about you. Well at least I would.

Try it out, and you might be surprised. :)

[Anonymous]

Okay, here's the thing. Being a girl myself I'm fairly sure she just wants a break, and I hate to say it but just leave her alone for a while. Make sure that she's still single. Say hey in the hallway but don't text her until you guys have had an actual face to face conversation again. She may be ready to come back to you after she's had some time to herself. Work your way up to texting, calling, and hanging out. As of right now keep things friendly and chill. Hope this helps!

[7gnat]

You seem a little bit obsessed with her and I don't think she is that into you. I am not trying to slam you but maybe you need to focus more on school. From what I have seen written here you truly need to practice your writing skills. You seem disjointed or something.