How can I tell if a guy is a chubby chaser?

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Is there a way to know if a guy likes chubby girls without asking him?

Gone_But_Not_Lost · Accepted Answer

No real way to know. Still there's nothing wrong with perusing bigger girls. Why do you wanna know anyway? Are you a bigger girl? If so, do you wanna know because you're feeling kinda insecure and wanting to know if he'd be into you, or is it because you're worried it's some kind of fetish and you think he's after you because of a kink, and he'll split after he gets what he wants?

Both of those would imply that you like the guy or at least have a passing interest and worry you'll get hurt in some way. Just different conditions and rules. But seriously though, you shouldn't have to worry about that. There is nothing wrong with having some extra weight. In fact some of the most beautiful girls I can think of had some extra pounds.

If you are interested in this guy, I say just go after him and find out what he thinks. Show interest, maybe let him know you like him. Something. If he rejects you, he's a loser who didn't deserve you anyway. If he's into you, just have fun with it, and enjoy yourself. If it looks like he's the type to split, try to figure that out before things get to serious, but don't be too paranoid about it, as trust is key in any relationship.

If you wanna know if a guy is a chubby chaser, and it has nothing to do with your weight, size, or shape, and you think that you're not any heavier than the average, then I don't see why his interest in bigger girls matters. In a case like that, just ask him outright. There shouldn't be any shame in it for either of you.

Anyway sorry for running off and talking endlessly like this but your question offers zero insight on the situation. Nothing about you, the guy, reasons for asking. Because really, said insight changes the conversation drastically. Try to remember that next time you ask a question like this. In the mean time I hope I was able to help you figure this out in some way. Good luck.

royboy · Accepted Answer

Well I am gonna assume that your asking for yourself and that's the reason you posted as anonymous.

So based on that assumption, I would invite the guy to a movie or something. Sounds corney I know but the simple thing is its perhaps one of the best public places where you can grope one another.

Start feeling him up and maybe even pull his hand onto your chest and see if he seems interested. If he don't than chances are he isn't attracted to big girls.

-StillWater- · Accepted Answer

I don't think looking at his former girlfriends is going to help much...despite what all the girls keep saying on here...

I know plenty of guys who've (to their misfortune) never dated their physical type! For fear of rejection or sheer inability to find a woman they find stunning - and that she's not already taken.

One of my best male friends is a huge boob guy (nothing he likes more than a nice pair of 'big juicy boobs' as he calls them) and yet all of his girlfriends had A or B cups...

I think your best bet is just to spend a bit more time with him. If he's touching you in conversation or while he's telling a joke, if he's eyeing you while you're off talking to your friends, if he talks ABOUT you, if he constantly tries to be around you and talk TO you he likes you.

It's silly to generalize a person. He may or may not be a 'chubby chaser', and he also may or may not be into you. One thing doesn't necessarily exclude or include the other. -remember that =)

graphicnerd · Accepted Answer

You can befriend him and casually (not immediately after but sometime after/down the line) ask him what kind of girls does he like (through text or in person) or you can have a friend ask him.

It's better if you ask him, though.

He might just not care if you're big or skinny. I'm big. And my boyfriend cares about me, for me. And it seems genuine. Some cares are not immature about looks when it comes to connecting with someone and building a relationship. As long as YOU have confidence and believe you're beautiful or pretty(or at least pretend or try to) then you'll get him or someone else during that process :)

queenofmars · Accepted Answer

i don't think he would chase chubby girls he might just chase girls like you :) or really like u

mike5150 · Answer

I wouldn't consider myself a chubby chaser but I often find myself attracted to bigger girls as well as smaller girls.

There is nothing wrong with guys liking bigger girls especialy if they find her attractive.

babygirltiffie · Answer

i don't think there's a real way to know...basically go by the girls he has dated I suppose...although maybe he's just a kind of guy that doesn't go by looks and just personality and stuff.

PeterCobra · Answer

just pig out on a whole bunch of wings.  if you can tell that he is turned on by it and he can't hide the look in his eyes...your in.  This is the simple and sure fire way to tell.  Forget all these Dr. Phil wanna bee's.

Armada · Answer

No way to tell. I'll tell you that I find a girl with "weight" quite attractive despite my slim physique. Curse being Asian.

G_GTom · Answer

You can't. Just like guys would like ti know somethings about women before they approach them, but life is just not that easy :(

Standingpretty · Answer

Look at whos he's dated before you. Look at which girls his eyes are following.

Anonymous · Answer

pay attention to his past ex girlfriends go in a public place with him and notice the women he checks out

Anonymous · Answer

This is not fool-proof, but usually guys like girls with a similar body fat % as them. So if he's a bigger dude, he would probably feel most comfortable with a bigger chick.

papercut272 · Answer

you can do two things, lose weight (which I highly recommend) or you can ask one of his friends!

Anonymous · Answer

look at his past gf's and see if there is a trend there

Cory151 · Answer

Certain racial profiling may help. If he touches you in anyway may be a good indication.

BluMac81 · Answer

"Chubby chaser" is such a derogatory term, pfft

Godfatherman · Answer

does he date fat chicks?

NOSAINTS25983 · Answer

Only if he's attracted to you.

7gnat · Answer

any update? is he a chubby chaser?

Shaun · Answer

Check out his p*rn.

pk123 · Answer

Stalk him!

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