Why do guys consistently objectify women with great bodies?

[Anonymous]

I know I have a nice body (call me cocky I don't care) but I'm much more than that!

I have a brain (I do have a master's degree you know?) and I love an intellectual conversation but all guys ever wanna text about is how they'd love to do various things to my body.

Quit being boring. You'll get a lot further along with me if you show me there's more to you than a sack of fucking hormones!

#RantOver

[TonyBologna25]

Your body sexually excites men, and it's completely natural. I feel like I have a pretty unique perspective on it having been a bodybuilder. I've never seen women be just as creepy as men like I did when I got ripped. The attention can get old, especially when you're in a relationship. I'm an educated professional as well, and being known as that jock, or womanizer at work... well it gets old. I rather be recognized for my value in the company and how well I do my job. But I roll with it, and just have fun at this point. I'll troll women sometimes that come onto me. My suggestion is to stop taking yourself so seriously.

[Asker]

I try not to take myself too seriously but I just reached a breaking point when I posted this. Thank you for the advice

[Mega_illuminati]

Just a thought here:

How are you meeting these guys? Because it will surely influence what sort of conversation you have and whether your rant is justifiable or not.

Besides, if you wanna have a profound intellectual conversation, maybe use the method that one of the GaG member does. She asks very tricky psychological questions and have people answer them. You can try that. Depending on the topic, I am sure you will find people interested in answering you.

As far as the body/physique is concerened, either post question as anon or do not put profile pic on your profile.

Hope this helps.

[Asker]

I like the idea. It doesn't always work though. I've asked deep, thought-provoking questions on here and guys that replied still started conversations talking about my body

[Mega_illuminati]

Yeah obviously you won't hit gold on first whack. Maybe try getting your body completely out of picture. Maybe use another account where you have no pictures.

[MzAsh]

As soon as guys start with the sexual talk, cut them off completely. Command them to treat you better or they don’t get to be in your life at all.

[bella4eva]

How are you meeting these guys? You get back what you put out

[Asker]

Just on social platforms or in social circles

[bella4eva]

Yeah, not sure you're going to meet 'quality' men over SM where people have the cloak of anonymity

[Asker]

Don't want to find a quality guy to date on SM. I do like enjoying a good chat though

[gagsucs]

to objectify means see them as an object... but i never see a girl as an object.
i see her as a hot walking human with a mind,, that i still want to fuck,
and if u think im objectifying every hot girl jus cos i wanna fuck her... then ok i objectify every girl... but, u know what?
U can't help it. its jus logical to wanna fuck someone ur sexually attracted to,... why do u think they phrased it "sexually attracted to"?
its jus logical tht u wanna fuck someone hot, doesn't mean we all objectify them,

i bet even girls wanna fuck hot guys, infact, i know they do,
so why do girls always objectify us? huhhhhhh?
answer that

[Asker]

I don't wanna fuck every hot guy I see sorry

[gagsucs]

well thats because u dont have time or u have a jelous boyfriend,,,,,,, but naturally there is always that sexual urge related to ur brain and eyes when u see them, if u get what i mean

[Asker]

I don't have a boyfriend and I have lots of time to socialize. I just have control over myself

[gagsucs]

exactly... control... ur controlling urself... but what r u tryna control from not happening?
exactly... the sexual desire is there... ur jus controlling urself not to

[gagsucs]

lets be honest, if u dont wanna fuck someone, that means u dont find them hot,
cos anyone who we think is hot, we wanna fuck, cos what does hot translate to? "sexually attractive"
and what does that mean? it attracting u to sex... exactly... dont lie,

if u didn't find them hot then u wouldn't wanna fuck them

[Kodvik]

Those guys that objectify your body are those ones with shirtless pics on the social midia and things like that? Cuz those ones objectify themselves too... So it's normal to them to see the human body as an object...
Or you're just looking in the wrong crowd... =P

[quizz]

I find compliments about parts of yourself you did nothing to achieve are pointless, however seeing a beautiful woman tends to clear all thoughts from the mind aside from how amazing that body is. Do guys swoon? I think it's like swooning. Kinda gets hard to think.

[Anonymous]

Why do women objectify themselves constantly and then complain that they are objectified?

https://thoughtcatalog.com/jill-neumann/2013/07/the-double-standard-how-women-contribute-to-their-own-objectification/

https://i.insider.com/5c6c272feb3ce82006131f42?width=600&format=jpeg&auto=webp

[Shamalien]

Rofl there are legions of men that don’t act like that, im one of em, I don't know what crowds u hang around sounds like bad ones

[Asker]

Good on you for not doing it 😊

[Shamalien]

Lol im glad som1 appreciates it, mostly people just look on you as weak

[Asker]

If anything it's strong

[Shamalien]

Haha yup welcome to backwards ass clown world that we live in *honk* *honk*

[ecfresh]

Since you identified this as a rant I want to let you know I read it and can see how that’s the case. I won’t suggest a solution.

[bklynbadboy1]

See what your doing right now that's what all women need to do instead of condoning that type of behavior. Most women say they dont like it but they objectify themselves seeking validation. Posting pics asking to be rated

[spartan55]

Says something about you that you even associate with guys like that. And no, they aren't all like that.

[Asker]

I don't associate with them. I don't condone the behavior

[sezloc]

It mainly depends on the individual, you're just being unlucky. And the fact that you're "ranting" guys calling people "sack of fucking hormones" while you're posting this anonymously is hilarious

[JesseJayNeak]

Don't make a women-only issue. Women do the same thing

[Asker]

I can only speak from my own experience but I appreciate that some women do the same thing

[JesseJayNeak]

What do you mean "you appreciate"? 2 wrongs don't make a right

[Asker]

I don't mean appreciate as in thankful. I mean appreciate as in acknowledge as the truth

[MackToday]

If you are intelligent , why do you pass the time with those kind of men?

[Asker]

I don't. It's literally the first thing a lot of guys say to me

[MackToday]

You shouldn't even pass the time with men like that. Or hang out where people like that do.

[KrakenAttackin]

"Why do guys objectify women with great bodies"? OK, Mrs. Master, why don't you answer your own question. The answer is painfully easy.

[dthomas89]

Says the anonymous woman

Was this even a question?

[Plitty-Tank]

Probably because women allow men to by exposing themselves so much.

[Asker]

So it's ok for guys to show skin but not women? That's some excellent double standards in 2020

[Plitty-Tank]

Didn't say that. Women seem to complain when their skin is shown and men sees it but men don't complain when women love his skin shown.

Your question was why men objectify women and that is why. Most women intentionally does this even in settings where skin showing is less appropriate.

[Meropatrick]

Girls do the same to good looking guys too.

[gagsucs]

exactly, its jus logical... if u see someone who looks hot,,, u wanna fuck them, thats jus nature,

when in the world has anyone seen someone hot and thought "hmmm, theyre hot, but i dont wanna fuck them"?

never... people that do that are jus resisting the urge or lying to theirself, but deep down we all know we wanna fuck that hot person

[Meropatrick]

@gagsucs exactly, i have a friend who is a chick magnet. girls always talk about how good looking he is (i am jealous of him :p) and they all try to get his attention, be all flirty and talking with high pitched voice to him. Also touching him a lot. Placing their hands on his arms... etc
I am not with harassment or sexual assault. But girls act as if only men act thirsty. When also girls act like that around guys they find attractive