Do guys keep tabs on ex-crushes?

[Anonymous]

The question says it all... Do you guys keep tabs on your old crush at all (like checking what they've been up to on Facebook, etc.)?

And if so, how often do you look up an old crush?

[pajamasam]

Sometimes. It's not like an every day obsession but more of like. Oh she just posted a bunch of pictures let me take a look. So I really only dig through old crush pictures like once or twice a year. It's really just more to see how her life is going/admire her pictures a little and move on. But I only really do that if I'm single. I dont even entertain the idea of looking through old crushes when I'm in a relarionship.

[Asker]

The guy that used to like follows me on instagram and he had watches majority of my story updates. He kinda knows what I'm upto lol. He watches like 85% of my story updates.

[pajamasam]

Yeah that's just a few steps away from stalking

[Asker]

Really 😂

[Asker]

Some people say that if we follow each other it's normal that he's watched so much of ny story updates. What do u think?

[pajamasam]

I mean it is normal and it's not "creepy" but it is definitely odd. Both of you following each other does make it less weird but I'd say he definitely still admires you.

[Asker]

In your opinion guy wouldn't keep watching girl's story updates if he didn't like her/admire her?

[pajamasam]

He definitely likes something because he keeps coming back.

[Asker]

Likes something about me or post :D?

[pajamasam]

He likes something about you because he wouldn't keep watching otherwise.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely. I don't look that often and my main serious crush from years ago, doesn't have much of an online presence. If she did I would look at it quite often.

[Asker]

Why would u look at it quite often if she was active on social media?

[Asker]

Why would u look at it quite often if your serious crush from past had online presence?

[KrakenAttackin]

Because I am curious about her life and I hope to find more information, which I never do. She has been married for 20 years and has two kids and seems happy. I am happy for her as she is probably happier and doing better than she would have with me.

[Asker]

Why are u curious about her life? Do u still have feelings for her?

[AppleBlossomGirl]

Why would anyone, girl or guy do that? It obviously didn't work out, and if you couldn't even remain friends after woulds, then there really isn't any point in looking up your ex's.

[outside_Toronto]

I never have and never will. I'm sure there's guys that do it however

[KrakenAttackin]

I was this way for a long time, but as I get older I get more curious. Also, when I was your age we couldn't find people like we can today.

[outside_Toronto]

I have zero curiosity in people from my past

[Plitty-Tank]

I am pretty sure plenty of men does that.

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

Tell me more why men do that :))?

[KrakenAttackin]

Curiosity, wondering what could have been, or thinking "damn, she got fat".

[louuuuu2132]

Yes. Not really often to be honest

[Asker]

Would u watches overwhelming majority of your ex-crush story updates if u have him on snap?

[louuuuu2132]

Sorry i'm French i don't understand

[Asker]

If yiu followed your ex crush on instagram woukd you watch almost all of his instagram story updates?

[louuuuu2132]

Yeah i do it with my ex boyfriend

[Asker]

Why :D?

[louuuuu2132]

Uhhh I don't know bc he's my first love

[Asker]

Do u still have feelings for him?

[louuuuu2132]

That's logic i guess

[Avicenna]

We usually don't

[Asker]

What if guy watches overwhelming majority of ex-crush's story updates? He rarely misses her updates.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

Would u watches overwhelming majority of your ex-crush story updates if u have her on snap or instagram?

[gagsucs]

no... forgot bout em