Guys, My Boyfriend said i'm Gullible?

[Anonymous]

So he'd been drinking and hadn't long since got in, not long enough to sober up anyway, and we sometimes joke about it being easy for us to separate from each other (and so the context it was said in wasn't initially concerning). However this time he put his arms around me and said I believe all his feelings for me are true and that im gullible to believe it all... I questioned him the next day and he said he meant nothing by it and that he wasn't taking advantage of me being 'Gullible' and wasn't feeding me lies so that id stay with him. But now the doubt behind him saying this is growing in my mind, should i be worried?

[abhijeetjindal]

If you looks goods, provide love and care and belong to a normal class family rather than vip, then u need not worry but if you are on a higher side of having more wealth or material possessions then you must get worried and seek how he can take advantage of you and try to find ways to close relationship without fight so that you don't get harm in future by him and start searching for a rich man with good heart without his knowledge and if you are already doing so, so stop that as he already got this idea in his mind and try to come out safely and start afresh

[wankiam]

someone said that to me once... my responce was that gullable isn't in the dictionary and they actually looked to check... basically that was case closed at that point lol

[Lunatic1]

Be more cautious, drunk people are more honest because they have no filter.

[Asker]

My thoughts exactly... could a guy keep up pretence for 4 years?

[Lunatic1]

Sometimes longer, depends on the pretence.

[Asker]

Really? Waw.
Well i don't have riches he can get his hands on and so what would be the other motivator? The thrill of the dupe?

[Lunatic1]

For some, yes. Others get trapped in the ruse and have to keep going because it's all they know.

[Asker]

Could it be that he's cheating? And that's where me being gullible arises? We don't live together/share bills/have children and so he isn't stuck in the relationship. He could walk away right now with no complications

[Lunatic1]

Possible, but not likely. If there is nothing forcing him to stay, he could walk away tomorrow. But there are some people who intentionally cheat in relationships for the rush. So I have no idea, but I doubt he is cheating.

[Asker]

He would get a rush out of a new female, a lot of males do, its not that i'm overly concerned about. It's the thought he may be laughing at me whilst doing it. So maybe he just said to wind me up and i can relax now. Thank-you

[Lunatic1]

My pleasure. I'm usually around to talk more if you want to at a later time.

[Asker]

Thank-you :)

[Lunatic1]

As I said, my pleasure.