Why he wants to see me more often if says that he was to be in a serious relationship and to find a girlfriend?

Question

We are seeing each other for a while.
Last time when I was at his place he told me that we need to see each other more often.
After that while leaving the hous he told me that he need to be with one girl, to sleep with one girl. He told me that he is seeing many other girls and that he wants to be with just one girl, to have sex inly with her. He wants a serious relationship.
But asks me when we will go for a drink. I never wanted to go for a drink with him. After that he say, we are seeing each other for a long time and I ask him, do you want to finish this and he sais no.
Other night He began to say that all his friends were in a relationship and only he was alone as a wolf.
But he constantly ask me do I love him even when I say no.

DanielAppleton15 · Accepted Answer

It sounds like he wants a serious and long term relationship with you.

It also sounds like he could be feeling pressure to find a long term girlfriend if all his friends are in relationships. Therefore he might not actually be ready for a long term relationship.

Baislicly you just need to communicate with him and just ask if he wants a serious relationship with you.

If you don't want a serious relationship with him then you just need to be upfront with him and tell him that.

Finally, you should just work out if you still want to be friends with him or not and make that clear to him.

Hope this helps.

ayushad · Accepted Answer

so he just wants a serious relationship only coz all his friends are , i guess u should see for yourself weather u r in a toxic relationship or he is really worth it n that he is just lost...
No one knows him better than you ao it's time to buckle up n take serious decision as this is gonna affect on ur life in long run...

flame111 · Accepted Answer

Maybe he just feel pressured about being in relationship because he's a lone wolf with his friends.. or talk to him if he loves you or not.. or do u wanna be in a relationship with him? so that he can find someone else because he's lonely..

Crystal03 · Accepted Answer

Seems like he's trying to be in a serious relationship with you for his selfish needs.. but it also sounds like you don't want him to be your boyfriend.

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eninning · Answer

Well it sounds to me like he wants to make you his one and only, which is a great deal if that's what you want as well, and I'm not getting that vibe from you at all which would make you miserable that's not a situation that you should put yourself into until you are ready to make that commitment, sounds like he wants you to be his security blanket and you have to make that call for yourself, do what makes you happy.

miMichael · Answer

He wants something more with you, he keeps asking if you love him cuz he expects different answer. "Other girls" sounds like a lie to make you jealous. Break contact with him, for his own good cuz if He's saying he's lonely it means you are closest person to him and that means he is just attached to you but not in love.

AXSollars · Answer

He's most likely hinting that he wants that one person to be you, and is trying to see if there's any remote reciprocation for those feelings. He likes you and wants to settle down, but he's also keeping his options open in case you don't see him that way, but by the sound of things, you are his first choice.

nikhilesh412 · Answer

If you don't have the same feelings, then why are you getting worried? Just go with the flow and do whatever you feel good for your happiness and peace of mind 🙂
Don't make it complex. Relationships are so complex to understand if it's immoral and not the way nature has designed it to be. 🙂

Connordiz18 · Answer

The dude sounds desperate and controlling. If he just wants to enter into a relationship with you bc his friends are doing it and not bc he feels bad about sleeping with a bunch of women at the same time then he's probably not worth your time. Plus it's not a good sign if he's constantly asking you if you love him. Don't take my word for it though. You do whatever you think is best.

DaTruth44 · Answer

To me it sounds like he is not sure what he wants. He you said he needs to be with one "girl" I assumed you meant female. Could it be that is bisexual and seeing how you will feel about a threesome? Honestly if you do not care about him stop having sex with him. You are sending him mixed feelings. To some people they relate sex with love and he may be one of those people.

cicchis0 · Answer

I think I explained this last time. He wants a relationship and doesn't understand why you spend time with him as if you also want a relationship but tell him that you don't want a relationship.

RemoErdosain · Answer

He wants to make this into a serious relationship, but at the same time fears mentioning it directly, because he thinks he might lose what you two have going on right now.

FlirtWithMeeee · Answer

Have you had a good heart to heart talk with him yet? This seems to be all part of the same ongoing issue. He wants to be with you, only you and wants a future. So then seeing you more would be a step in that direction.

Laozi · Answer

He likes you. And wants to know if you also like him or not. And if yes then he would like to have a relationship with you.

far4tab · Answer

Listen to your heart mate, if you say no to loving him and you are pretty sure of how you feel about him. Then it really doesn't matter what he meant by all those things

akakiran · Answer

Double dates never works they always convey wrong message and wrong intentions so just you guys just visit more often hang out for some movies and take things slow

Ogrey95 · Answer

He says he's ready to settle and then he asks you out for a drink. he caught feelings for you. it's up to you now leave him alone or stay with him as a girlfriend

NateSmiley · Answer

He sounds like the kinda guy who doesn't really know what he wants and also if you already tell him no and he still presses then it may be wise to cut him out of your life.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Maybe he thinks , you don't want to be with him in relationship as his girlfriend?

BuilderMike87 · Answer

He wants to be in a relationship with you, but then thinks twice and doesn't go for it when you tell him no.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

why he dating other girls and you? it depends if you want a relationship with him... he seems to think he ain't in a relationship...

Aravind6307 · Answer

This is how most men with an innocent hear act like. Say yes or say no and leave him alone. Don't put him in an emotional roller coaster

cheapshotbob · Answer

he wants a yes maybe or just biding his time till a girl says yes

dmm31888 · Answer

Uhm. Men are complicated huh? You should ask him yourself what he means

COMMODOREII · Answer

Sounds like he is trying to make you his girlfriend.

Reddwolf · Answer

Sounds like he is very selfish and trying to pressure you into a relationship

BlacqueSupaMane · Answer

He wants his cake and ice cream and you all together in one. Do you want to be all that for him?

Forte89 · Answer

Possibly interested, the only person that knows is him.

Anas_95 · Answer

I think he implied that he wants you to be that girl so hi want to be exclusive to him.

Himena · Answer

Maybe he wats to be in a serious relationship with you

Ali_Tk · Answer

That means he is happy to be with you but be a little cautious maybe he is worried about something U can ask it from his close freinds to know it

brigfrey25 · Answer

Want to settle down hard.

dudeinohio · Answer

Maybe he wants you to be his girlfriend

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Maybe he hopes you will be that girlfriend.

farhaan7 · Answer

Dunno he might have started to like u

Fynix · Answer

He loves you. He's dropping hints for you.

CubaPirate · Answer

Its called infatuation

dthomas89 · Answer

Aren't you in an immoral FWB?

bûññy_07 · Answer

He is prposing uh indirctly dear 🥰🥰

bibi3pu · Answer

Sounds like he is just trying to get laid.

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