I heard that guys think thigh gaps are ugly (I have one) Should I try to get rid of it?

[Anonymous]

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Matthew2222 just called most of y’all ‘beta males’. what do y’all have to say about that? 🤔

[ShortCircuit]

Thigh gaps aren't the issue. Nobody cares about thigh gaps themselves. They are just evidence of your body fat percentage. If you have a thigh gap, you likely have a low body fat percentage, and vice versa.

Men vary pretty widely in their body fat preferences. You simply cannot please them all, so you may as well just pursue whatever body goals would make you the most comfortable with yourself, and then find a guy who is compatible.

[Asker]

ok thanks for your great answer hon

[ShortCircuit]

no problem

[normalice]

I'm betting whoever told you that has no chance of obtaining one..

[Asker]

oh wow haha

[BestUserName100]

Or someone who is shallow and only cares about getting laid the most and who has fat legs..

[Asker]

even my previous friends told me to gain weight (they are chubby)

[abc3643]

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

Thigh gaps are NOT ugly.
THEY ARE DESIRED.

Besides, don't worry, unless you take excellent care of yourself, time will wipe out they gap soon enough.

[Asker]

awe ok! I have a fast metabolism so it makes my legs skinny. I kinda want to keep them

[abc3643]

1. Good for you.
2. Matthew2222 is an idiot who will get his wish if he wants to date a fat girl.

[Asker]

Hahaha I agree!

[integrale77]

A thigh gap is very sexy and arousing.
Reason being its a clear indication of being a woman as men can't visually have a thigh gap as there will always be hanging there to block the visual and our clothes mimic that.
This wasn't something noticed when more women wore dresses so women switching to trousers made it a noticeable thing.

So if there is any issue it's not going to be a thigh gap looking bad it's just going to attract attention in a sexual manner if that's going to be a problem to you then switching to dresses or something baggy round the crotch is what you want. Don't do anything to drastically alter your figure like surgery.

[Adam1978]

I think guys doesn't care. Most have never considered the fact, and would have remained not thinking about if you didn't ask. It usually means your slim and in my opinion it's better then fat, however normal is the best balance. You should have some meat on your bones after all.

[Asker]

I do have some meat on my bones. I don’t look stick thin. thanks by the way

[pajamasam]

I don't give a fuck what Matthew2222 thinks. I'm the only person in charge of my sequel desires.

A thigh gap can be super attractive, but if a lady doesn't have one it doesn't change my opinion much.

Basically a thigh gap is a positive, but the lack of a thigh gap makes no difference one way or another.

[ImagineSketchy]

I don't think your thigh gap is important. It's not ugly, and it's not attractive. It is just what it is. It is a gap between your thighs.
Try to get rid of it if it genuinely upsets YOU because it's your body and YOU have to live with your body, no one else. You do you. If you want to appease others, by all means do whatever makes you happy.

(Update response) I'm indifferent.

[Shiver]

I mean, if you don't like it yourself, sure, but most other people literally give zero fucks. Just be healthy and happy with your body. Everyone likes something else.

Matthew2222 just heard a boomer reminisce once and thinks it sounded cool, don't take his word for more than it is: a personal opinion.

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t think they’re ugly per say.

But I do prefer a woman that has no thigh gap.

Cause usually when a woman doesn’t have one.

She has thicker thighs.

Which is hot af.

And NO I’m not saying the gap isn’t hot. It’s just not a preference

[Asker]

oh I know what you mean!

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, good

[Asker]

I just wanna say that you’re super attractive

[Danny_dan92]

Oh thank you, feel free to message me

[Asker]

I’m shy

[Danny_dan92]

Lol that’s ok 😂

[Anonymous]

This may be an indicator of the girl having a body fat percentage that is too low, if she has hips wide enough to be curvier. If she doesn’t have a thigh gap it looks so much better and if she has a low WHR along with a big round butt that looks good too lol

[MrOracle]

I don't know any guy who thinks they are ugly - it's just that most guys don't care about them either way. If you have one, fine. If you don't have one, fine. Only a really small percentage cares either way.

[Asker]

ight thanks

[AaronKrieger]

I don't really care for thigh gaps, but it's not something to worry about. They're not ugly, but I'm just indifferent on them. Although if a girl has long skinny legs it does look pretty attractive.

[Asker]

ohhh I see

[kokotito06]

There are more important things , most guys won't even notice thigh gaps or won't care. In my personal opinion a girl is a lot more attractive if she's confident about her body, doesn't matter what type of body she has.

[0112358]

I thought girls were starving themselves to get one because they became convinced it was critical to being attractive?

that was right before they became obsessed with hip dips

[Asker]

oh well i don’t starve myself. I just have a fast metabolism

[0112358]

The science as they put it shows richer men like slimmer women.

I assume Matthew is broke.

[Asker]

HAHA his broke ass can’t have me

[ThiccNigro]

Most guys don't care. Me personally my ideal girl wouldn't have one because I like thick thighs but if I dated a girl that did have a thigh gap it's not like it'd bother me. I probably wouldn't even notice

[Asker]

super understandable

[SuckMyJammy]

well i must admit i find a girl a lot more sexy when her thighs are more chunky and phicc... i dont like pencil stick girls lol, but its not a huge deal breaker

[AdithyaR]

Well every guy is different. Some like thigh gaps and some don't.
So it doesn't matter.
What matters is what you like. If you like the way you look then that's enough. There plenty of guys who like thigh gaps.

[AdithyaR]

And I don't care what that Mathew guy said cause I don't listen to brainless idiots who calls others beta males.

[JustinTheGreat]

Everyone has different preferences. Some prefer skinnier women with thigh gals, and others prefer women with thick thighs. You don’t have to change yourself to please others.

[Asker]

ok thanks hon

[Reaperbot666]

Dunno who you spoke to or where you read that. But I know of a few guy friends. Who like a girl with a thigh gap.

[Asker]

great thanks

[Reaperbot666]

different guys like different things. trick is to be happy with how you look. because most guys like when a girl enjoys her body and is proud of it.

[Asker]

I just feel like guys would look at my thigh gap and think I’m not ‘woman’ enough to mate with. just like how they look for wide hips and big boobs. but thanks

[Reaperbot666]

In many cultures a woman's breast size, butt size or hip size. can effect how a guy views her in the terms of mating with her. because those things can effect if she is likely to have strong breeding genes. as well as be able to care for the children and survival giving birth.

but not all of them believe bigger is better.

[Asker]

oh got it. I understand. thanks for your help :)

[Reaperbot666]

this video could be useful. do not talk about thigh gap. but does have a few other things which might help. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyfSJbF2PnY

[Danbar95]

All guys are into different things. Don't change your body for a dude. Do what you want not what a dude wants

[simonqq]

As long as you are healthy no, we are all different.

[Asker]

ok got it👌🏼

[simonqq]

Oh and it's not ugly :)

[Asker]

thanks hon :)

[joker247]

Oh no!!! Never I think they are sexy ASF 😍 whoever said that to you is a damn fool 💯 baby if this is you come over right now imma show you how a man treats a woman in the bed room

[Asker]

that’s not me but thanksss

[joker247]

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[Asker]

ok thanks :)

[DamnSam]

Depends on the guy, tastes are different... besides, dont change because other want you to, change if you want to change

[Asker]

yeah I won’t change

[MannMitAntworten]

Who told you that? Most of us men do not desire our woman’s rubbing thighs to start a forest fire. So no, not true.

[Asker]

oh hahaha

[Browneye57]

It's just skinny. You'll likely outgrow it anyway, eventually. ;)
Some think it's sexy. You're worrying about the unimportant things.

[Asker]

ok thanks

[Joker_]

Most guys don't even know what "thigh gaps" are, let alone care about them one way or the other. So called thigh gaps are something that women came up with

[Asker]

you copied someone else’s comment

[Joker_]

I did, but I changed it. See, mine doesn't have a period at the end

[Asker]

hahaha that actually made me laugh

[Joker_]

I'm glad it did

[Asker]

awe :)

[Joker_]

@Matthew2222 Thank you

[WadeDanielSmith]

No that's not ugly, that's ideal. Your thighs are not supposed to rub together when you walk.

[andreasderjuengere]

By all means: keep them.
There are enough of us left who really like it like that :)

[Asker]

oh yeahh 🥰

[fromOhio75]

Your opinion is the only one that matters here. If you want to change, change. If you don't want to then don't.

[Asker]

ok got it

[Numbnuts89]

Just like women, not every man, is the same

Just because one guy says something, doesn't mean another guy agrees

[Asker]

got it

[Numbnuts89]

Most of the guys on here, are trolls

[Akshayjosh]

Thigh gaps are great, provided your not starving yourself, i like to see thick thighs not touching themselves, its very sexy.

[KrakenAttackin]

A "thigh gap" is so inconsequential that I have no idea what it is. Don't worry at all about this.

[Asker]

oh ok