He assumed I was seeing other guys?

[Anonymous]

We were laying in bed last night and he asked me “what did you do today?”

And i said “i went downtown” and he said “who’s downtown? Your other boyfriends”



I looked at him and said “no” and he said “i mean if you do have others your talking to that’s fine” and he looked away

[Anonymous]

I think he is trying to make it okay for him to see other people. By saying that it is fine for you; and expecting that you have no one in mind. That way while you toy around with the idea of it he either continues with someone or starts with someone he's already picked out.

[Asker]

But we aren’t a couple yet

[Asker]

Just the other day he told his best friend i was his “boo”

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he thinks that you are a couple. He did say other boyfriends; implying that you two are in a relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

Boo is a term of endearment for a girlfriend.

[Asker]

I texted him yesterday and he didn’t respond at all

[fire_hair]

I know this scenario so damn well.. I've been in it countless times.. Honey, when he says it's fine, trust me, it's really not fine..

[Asker]

Well why did he even say something like that

[fire_hair]

Maybe so as not to make you encaged. He wants to me protective but doesn't want to. Scare you away in the process.. He's letting you fly but also chipping in his fears/insecurities..

[itsmyownname]

Jealousy is toxic af

[Asker]

But he also gave me the okay to date others

[itsmyownname]

That's weird because he doesn't seem to mean it like that... It sounds like he's jealous but doesn't want to show you

[Asker]

I think he wants me to see other people

[itsmyownname]

Just ask him what he wants. But it's more important what you want..

[thisisausername9999]

he sounds annoying