I have female friends that are friends because they share faith in God. I have absolutely no physical feelings towards the current ones and even if I do have feelings for future friends I can only marry one. They range in age from 20 - over 60. I appreciate them as people and even think some are pretty, but don't have physical attraction towards any of them. As I continue I may meet the woman I can marry, but right now appreciate the friends.
yes i would however i do keep them arround as actual friends, it doesn't complicate things, they know i would sleep with them and when they need it im there but I'm also there for them because like any friend i have i want them to succeed in life. otherwise I'd be a pig only using them for my selfish desires.
Almost all of my friends are female, and while I'd share a bed with them if needed, I value their friendship way more than doing anything sexual with them.
Every straight guy has thought or thinks about having sex with their female friends. All depends on how good of a friendship it is and how they are as people if they'd actually go through with it. Most guys have or would if given the green light. I have and would again. Tbh girls are this way as well just maybe not as many.
I treat all my female acquaintances the same way. They're taboo, until they tell me otherwise. But those who do make it clear they're not adverse to a little more get my full-court press. So while I'm happy to pleasure any of my female friends, they have to explicitly ask for it. Most of them are there for other reasons.
Some of them, in a heartbeat, but only ones that I'm not that close with. If I'm really close with them, then not a chance unless we start actually dating. I don't want to potentially ruin a quality friendship.
. buf only sleep, no sex! Unless she demanded it & then I'd feel weird! Friends are too hard to come by these days and if a had a great Ladyfriend (s) I wouldn't want to sacrifice our friendship for a one night stand...
Most guys would sleep with any girl they find the slightest bit attractive given the opportunity. That doesn’t mean it’s the only reason we’re friends with a girl, or that we have any intention of making a move
75% of them I would. The thing is the reason many men end up with female friends is that they were initially interested, which requires attraction. They may decide that they aren't compatible and never peruse a relstionship but the attraction still remains. So yes women, if you have a make friend chances are he'd sleep with you if the opportunity arose.
I'm not doing that cause sleeping with a friend is a terrible idea and almost always ruins the friendship. If I want to be friends with someone, that's all I'm looking for.
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Nope I keep those things separate. I would lie that I was never attracted to any of my female friends though. Honestly it's a bad idea to have sex with someone who is just a friend. You then might get feelings for her which ruins being just friends.
Only if she has no place to stay and we are not going to have sex. I'm looking out for her as a friend and I value the friendship. We both can sleep in different beds.
Depends on the situation and the dynamics. There are several female friends I could sleep with, buy I don't because it could potentially affect a lot of things as it would be pretty reckless. I find myself having to steer the conversation away from sex. By the way, women are just as guilty of having men as friends for their fancy.
I do fall under that category i would admire but never have sex with them. Yet I admire them from a far so far that I Didnot appeiach them and I donot have female friends 🙃 end of story..
Not gonna lie. If I were single, not many of them are unattractive enough for me to turn down the offer. I'm not particularly close to any of them, so it shouldn't be too weird. At least for me.
something similar happend to me with a guy similar to your example but the douchebag even if we were not that close like a couple or anything close and we both were single, no kids never married, similar in age group and know for 5 years!!! he was a douche cause he saw me in a different way not as a friend but something of a more physical
I already have. I've even been sexual with best friends. Im still friends with them too. Most guys secretly want to fuck their female friends. I had sex with one today actually. The sex is good but relationship wise you just want to be friends.
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I have female friends that are friends because they share faith in God. I have absolutely no physical feelings towards the current ones and even if I do have feelings for future friends I can only marry one. They range in age from 20 - over 60. I appreciate them as people and even think some are pretty, but don't have physical attraction towards any of them. As I continue I may meet the woman I can marry, but right now appreciate the friends.
yes i would however i do keep them arround as actual friends, it doesn't complicate things, they know i would sleep with them and when they need it im there but I'm also there for them because like any friend i have i want them to succeed in life. otherwise I'd be a pig only using them for my selfish desires.
Almost all of my friends are female, and while I'd share a bed with them if needed, I value their friendship way more than doing anything sexual with them.
Every straight guy has thought or thinks about having sex with their female friends. All depends on how good of a friendship it is and how they are as people if they'd actually go through with it. Most guys have or would if given the green light. I have and would again. Tbh girls are this way as well just maybe not as many.
I treat all my female acquaintances the same way. They're taboo, until they tell me otherwise. But those who do make it clear they're not adverse to a little more get my full-court press. So while I'm happy to pleasure any of my female friends, they have to explicitly ask for it. Most of them are there for other reasons.
Some of them, in a heartbeat, but only ones that I'm not that close with. If I'm really close with them, then not a chance unless we start actually dating. I don't want to potentially ruin a quality friendship.
. buf only sleep, no sex! Unless she demanded it & then I'd feel weird! Friends are too hard to come by these days and if a had a great Ladyfriend (s) I wouldn't want to sacrifice our friendship for a one night stand...
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Most guys would sleep with any girl they find the slightest bit attractive given the opportunity. That doesn’t mean it’s the only reason we’re friends with a girl, or that we have any intention of making a move
75% of them I would.
The thing is the reason many men end up with female friends is that they were initially interested, which requires attraction. They may decide that they aren't compatible and never peruse a relstionship but the attraction still remains. So yes women, if you have a make friend chances are he'd sleep with you if the opportunity arose.
I'm not doing that cause sleeping with a friend is a terrible idea and almost always ruins the friendship. If I want to be friends with someone, that's all I'm looking for.
Nope I keep those things separate. I would lie that I was never attracted to any of my female friends though. Honestly it's a bad idea to have sex with someone who is just a friend. You then might get feelings for her which ruins being just friends.
I'd say yes and no. It depends on our attraction and connection. But my goal will always be to marry my best friend
Only if she has no place to stay and we are not going to have sex. I'm looking out for her as a friend and I value the friendship. We both can sleep in different beds.
Do you mean would I actually "sleep" with them, or does sleep really mean "have sex"?
Sex..
I wouldn't be adverse to it.
Depends on the situation and the dynamics. There are several female friends I could sleep with, buy I don't because it could potentially affect a lot of things as it would be pretty reckless. I find myself having to steer the conversation away from sex. By the way, women are just as guilty of having men as friends for their fancy.
I do fall under that category i would admire but never have sex with them.
Yet I admire them from a far so far that I Didnot appeiach them and I donot have female friends 🙃 end of story..
Not gonna lie. If I were single, not many of them are unattractive enough for me to turn down the offer. I'm not particularly close to any of them, so it shouldn't be too weird. At least for me.
something similar happend to me with a guy similar to your example but the douchebag even if we were not that close like a couple or anything close and we both were single, no kids never married, similar in age group and know for 5 years!!! he was a douche cause he saw me in a different way not as a friend but something of a more physical
Nope, I believe it's sick to sleep with a person that I feel nothing romantic towards him/her.
Not with all of them, but if I were single and the occasion arose, I'd definitely say yes to some of my friends.
I'm not friends with them just because of do them, they are my friends because we get along really well and respect each other
I already have. I've even been sexual with best friends. Im still friends with them too. Most guys secretly want to fuck their female friends. I had sex with one today actually. The sex is good but relationship wise you just want to be friends.