What do guys mean when they call a girl crazy?

[Melisserian]

The guy I’m talking to literally said: you are crazy. But while saying it he was laughing a bit...
what does it mean? Is it a bad thing?

[imthatsteve]

Context is king. But laughing suggests its a good thing or at least he didn't intend for you to be offended.

"One time me and my friends all got drunk and ran around the neighborhood half naked" damn gurl you crazy ahaha

Means wow your wild, know how to have fun, i can't believe you would tell me that, etc.

"One time i was at the club with my girlfriend and some girl looked at me funny so i walked up to her with my knife and cut her dress down the back then ran away while she was trying to cover up"

Damn gurl your fucking crazy! (haha?)

This means wtf is this bitch for real? I need to get away from this psycho.. What if she follows me home? she's gunna kill me in my sleep omg im so fucked, act natural... (Nervous laughter) ill just hope/pretend she was joking/exaggerating until i can move to a new country.

[imthatsteve]

I guess i should add it doesn't have to be sexual to be a good thing, its not automatically good if its sexual. Usually if i tell a girl she is crazy its because i feel like thats how she wants/expects me to respond to what she just told me.

If i dont say anything she might think im judging her or something and i want to keep the energy of the conversation going. Like if she just told me a crazy story and she's clearly really excited to share it with me but maybe also a bit nervous then id say wow your crazy in a sarcastic way.

I think id rarely tell a girl she is crazy if i actually thought she was crazy umless she already said it and was trying to prove that she's crazy or something. Like weird flex but okay your crazy.

I think in a more general term girls being crazy is like a stereotype that girls will do really fucked up things for no reason at all, like destory your car because a girl from work texted your phone and she assumed you were cheating. Or assume you think she's fat because the last time you told her she was pretty was almost 10 minutes ago and you said she looked really great instead of fucking incredible or something.

I can easily see a guy complaining to his friend about his crazy girlfriend: yeah dude she's crazy, i told her "wow babe you look incredible tonight" so she burst into tears and then screamed at me because aparently that means she looked like shit every other night.

I could also see bragging: yeah she's crazy, we fucked for 2 hours last night and she woke me up with a blow job before we went for another hour in the morning.

Yeah she's crazy, she some backpacking trail for 7 days without resupplying.

she's crazy, she told me she actually hitch hiked accross the country going from concert to concert dropping lsd and doing any drugs she could buy.

Honestly its a bit subjective you just have to pay attention to the emotion in their voice.

[jhnny1331]

I've never called a girl crazy in my life because guys can't handle a girl's emotions guys aren't smart enough or can feel deep enough understand the heart of a of a good woman guy does something stupid or dumb and a girl expresses herself baby frantically because she can't get through to the guy interprets it as being crazy but you have to understand something ladies we have this thing called testosterone any kind of like hinders our thought process and clarity of being able to be more in tune with your feelings

[Yolkeggy]

If he was laughing maybe he said it as a joke? Or in a non-offensive way. I wouldn’t give it much thought for it seemed rather innocent.

[Sweetgirlasking]

If you were talking about a sexual activity or context of flirting, he may be saying that he likes it, but that its uncommon

[aayyaan]

That's right

[Nalix]

Not necessarily. All women are crazy from a male perspective, but some are constructively crazy and others are destructively crazy. Suddenly want to bake pie at 3am? Constructive, but still crazy. Throwing dishes on the floor because you found fingerprints on what should have been clean dishes? Crazy destructive.

In any case, crazy means "why are you doing what you are doing?" Wouldn't it be better to do this another time, or another way, or not at all? That's what it means.

[Thatsamazing]

If he was laughing about it, then he was just messing with you. I mean, almost all girls are crazy so that's why he said it, but clearly you're not crazy in a bad way (at least not yet) or else he wouldn't have been laughing about it. So don't worry about it.

[lsjr16]

It means that she is crazy. Like the girl do crazy things such as always questions him picking fights over little things tells the guy what to do all the time etc. It is not necessary a bad thing cause what one guy think about a girl is another guys treasure

[Pyrofox]

Depends on the other words used with that term it could mean "that girl is crazy in love with me." Or in example it could mean said girl is psycho." It really depends on the context. O... O

[David_Kek]

Depends on context, and can mean anything from being eccentric to neurotic.
Sounds like he was being nice, and just teasing, while implying you're fun to be around.
I call my girlfriend crazy all the time, in an endearing way. Like I used to say "On you're period you're crazy remember... sorry, crazier".

[personwew]

The laugh is a good indication that he probably meant it in a joking way, but honestly this lacks a lot of context for anyone outside to really know the situation and give you a good answer

[spartan55]

It's certainly not a good thing. Girls can't possibly understand why they are crazy because they think we are 🤪 crazy.

[Lynx122]

Depends on the context. Usually it's not a good thing but it can also be a positive thing sometimes like when you do something ballsy or I don't know.

[BeMuse]

Generally that you are legitimately crazy and a laugh would be an indication of disbelief that you just said whatever just came out of your mouth.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

sounds like he meant crazy = exciting. I've made that reference to exciting women.

[cc690]

In my opinion it's a good thing. I embrace the differences and quirks I have with a woman and sometimes you just have to laugh and call them crazy. If he said you were crazy and pulled away... That's a different story.

[Reaperbot666]

Really depends on context and tone used.

However most people are at least a little crazy.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Depends on the context. Could be a sarcastic taunt or real mockery.

[Kaneki05]

I always mean it in a good way would never say it to put them down. I am gonna guess this also was a good way

[AcidT0y]

If he said it while laughing it's good. If he said it while running it's bad.

[MartianSkrubbz]

in my opinion, he meant he doesn't understand you. I'm confident that's what he meant. Most of my communication is expressed by "tone-of-voice", inflection, and body language, not merely words.

[spartan55]

Which is why texting is a flawed medium for communicating. You lose most of your message. Few people (especially females) understand this for some reason.

[Browneye57]

A woman's brain runs on feelings and emotion.
A guy's on facts and logic.

A woman only speaks to her FEELINGS at the moment, and they are highly subject to change an any given moment. So yeah, they come off as cray-cray from time to time.

[Zefan]

Bruh woman are logical too. . . why do woman live longer than men?

[Browneye57]

@Zefan - Don't come here being all confuzzled and all that shit. Women are NOT logical you idiot. It is ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS about the FEELZ.

[Zefan]

Hmm, sounds to me like you've never been married dipshit, my mom is super logical and takes care of all the family finances including taxes.

[Zefan]

While I'm at it I might as well mention that the day my mom gave birth to me the doctor told my mom to leave the hospital because she wasn't "in enough pain to be able to give birth" my mom told him that she's Asian and that Asians are raised to not show feeling and then she gave birth that night. Asia also happens to be the most densely populated continent on Earth. You're 110% wrong.

[Browneye57]

@Zefan And you're a fukkin idiot. GTFO

[Jack9949]

It’s a great thing actually! He finds you amusing and appreciates your company.

[Jack9949]

Don’t take it out to be anything romantic, but at the very least your a fun friend to spend time with

[strraku]

Depends on the way he is calling u... like eating like crazy.. working like crazy.. cracking jokes out of the world.. obsesion of something as much as crzy people do

[man_255]

We find crazy girls cute and sexy. Like Harley Quinn