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These days everything that is offensive and wrong?
Opinion? Maybe.
Fact? Definitely.
How? Well, let's look at the definition of phobia.
Many fears aren't always irrational. But it's called that. Many people who don't like a particular view, opinion, belief, etc will always have a biased opinion. I have many people try to shame me simply because I will not conform to their ideologies or beliefs. I don't have to do that to people, and neither will I have it done to me. But here is the example of each one:
An opinion have variables and is more flexible even if it has factual evidence. But doesn't guarantee that it is factual. There is a major line between fear and simply being smart with one's opinions and choices. Here are how I would distinguish it using myself as an example and a few of others examples:
I don't agree with homosexuality because it is a sin before God. I see it as sin no different than having premarital sex, watching porn, masturbating, getting drunk, etc. Things GOD says it's wrong. That is not just my opinion, but a fact in his eyes. My opinion is that however way God has it, goes, and he is in control. I don't like it, and I don't agree with it. Does that make me fear them? No. They're people like everybody else. Do I want what they have going on? No. I rather not as with anybody. Real homophobia or any phobia is literally scared like your life is about to perish and you need to run for your life, situation. And right now that's exactly what others are creating with these laws to allow all sorts of things.
The same can be said for the others regarding LGBTQA topics and issues. However, with Men or Women hating, it is similar but different. Being man-hating is simply hating men. And being woman-hating is simply hating women. I don't hate anybody. I simply hate what others do no different than I hate what I do and is capable of. Sin is what I hate. Not people. But if people enjoy it, can I stop them? No. Just don't try to force me to agree with it. That's all. I hate the fact things are being force-fed to people when it's not needed.
Just like there is Arachnophobia, Acrophobia, Aquaphobia, etc. Phobia means fear. I am philopobic. Or have similarities to philophobia, the fear of love. Do I actually FEAR love? No. Hate love? No. Dislike it? No. But do I dislike and hate what people do in the name of love and use it to be selfish and hurt people? YES. Do I suffer trauma from people because of who I love or loved? YES. But it doesn't mean I dislike it or hate it. Nor do I hate romance or healthy relationships. But my gentle heart and loving nature were skewed and broken by the things of the world. People are aware more often than not what is okay and what is not okay. There is a difference between understanding and acceptance vs tolerance and projecting. I have met and know people who aren't straight a never had a problem with my beliefs. FUNNY enough many so-called straight people seem to.
But as I said before. Not all fears are irrational. Of course, they will teach you that in college depending on where you go. Because now the system changed. It was not like that years ago. It was done to reduce lawsuits, etc. That is only the official defining now again, to promote the agenda. Not about tolerance. Because now that undermines anybody who doesn't agree. And that promotes real fear. Nobody should be feared to be in jail or stripped of their life for not accepting something they don't like.
It's an infringement of another's rights by bypassing the human rights of others. That's what's wrong. Because if they had it their way without somebody making laws to destroy those rights, colleges wouldn't have them. They rather say nothing. Every college doesn't teach all of that. It all depends on what you take and why. They teach inclusion, but everything else it all on your professor and they're rules. Nothing more.
What you have to remember is that now as an adult, YOU have to form your own choices. Not judge or police everybody if you don't want to be judged and police back. You treat others how you also wish to be treated. At the end of the day, people don't care about that silliness. Life is too short and people are going about their lives. Don't get caught up with the foolishness. That's why there is no love or understanding in this world.
If i say “i don’t agree with the US government letting Asians into their countries” do you think the reason behind it is not on some level of racism? Landlords in Singapore usually reject Indians from moving into their building and they usually say “it’s just my personal opinion, you can’t force me”, do you think the reason behind it is not on some level of racism?
False conscious bias occurs when you believe everybody believes one thing that you already do. And anybody who doesn't is automatically wrong, stupid, etc. "Sure but if you say you simply don’t “agree” with same sex marriage, for an example, do you think the reason behind it is not bias?" Nope. Because even though I am a believer in Christ, I always had knowledge and insight into things that even my own parents never taught me. I just always knew it wasn't correct. The same with how people treated each other, live their lives, etc. If I sense something is wrong, I know who to ask. Because human's at the end of the day, changes like the wind. I don't agree with it, because I know it's what should be done. BUT, I also know no matter what people do here, It's not something God approves anyway. So it's legal by man, not legal by God. So I had to learn to remember to let go, let God. Just because I can agree to disagree it's wrong, it doesn't mean everybody who does agree with me is right also. The same way that not everybody who doesn't agree with me is always wrong. They may have reasons why they do what they do. And I, depending on what is being said, get it. But this is how I look at it. No matter who it is, Christian or not, religious, spiritual, or not. Atheist or not, Right or Left, whoever, What God says is, is. Nothing I say matters. Nothing anybody says's matters. We'll see it when it's proven to come to pass what the consequences will be when people are in disobedience. That's it.
"If i say “i don’t agree with the US government letting Asians into their countries” do you think the reason behind it is not on some level of racism? Landlords in Singapore usually reject Indians from moving into their building and they usually say “it’s just my personal opinion, you can’t force me”, do you think the reason behind it is not on some level of racism?"
If you don't think that Asians should come it, I wouldn't find it racist. There is no such thing as race anyway. However, I would not assume such things. It's how one expresses them, not what they say. I would ask how come they choose Asians and not other nationalities or ethnicities. Is there a logical reason or more for our safety or the safety of other countries? I would only agree when there is a pose to security potentially or if I see they wouldn't thrive well in a country I now rather not be in. Truth is truth. I say as somebody who understands other cultures that some people have their reasons. Just like in Japan they don't like certain foreigners, and rightly so. There are some people even I don't hang around with. But so-called race is far from it. It only becomes racism when you deliberately just don't want them for no logical reason. But not everybody is like that. Which is something that has to be earned, not forced.
"If you are bi, for example, an somebody say “in my opinion, bisexual people cheat”, don’t you feel like their “opinion” is full of ignorant and filled with prejudice?" Not really. Just like people all want to say Christians are religious, hate sex, etc. And that is far from the truth. If somebody said that directly to ME as in to personally judge me, NOW they're going to get their asses handed to them. Because what other Christians do is what THEY do. It has nothing to do with me unless they put me in it and drag me with them. If I wasn't that and chose to be bi, I have to remember something. That was my choice. For all, I know it could be true. Everybody basically cheats, if not cheated at something at some point. I cheated before when I was extremely young, and I got caught cheating on the test. What am I going to do? Continue to whine about what I cheated on? No. I had to own up and I got punished for it. And the answer to that particular question is yes. Bisexual people cheat. But do ALL of them cheat? No. Gay people cheat too. I KNOW such people who did. So that automatically gets an answer. Do I know straight people who cheated? Yep. Do ALL cheat? No. Because as long as it has nothing to do with me, I have nothing to with it. Those who do, do. Those who don't, don't. They have to answer for it. Not I. And if others don't believe me, guess what? I won't hash over it anymore. I have nothing to prove to others. I prove my words with my actions and patterns. No hypocrisy with me. I learned from my mistakes.
"You have been putting people’s identity as example, how about you think about your identity and come up with examples that applies to you?" Because I know myself. I know my identity. I know who I am, how I'm made, what I'm made for, born whole, born complete, born to love, and born to fulfill my purpose. It all comes from within. The soul knows. It doesn't confuse things. Only people trying to confuse things. And it's up to us to accept that identity, form a new one, or reject it.
All it is at the end of the day, people are trying to play God and with life because they're unhappy with their lives and choices. When you don't root your identity in others' opinions and choices, you don't have to concern about anything else except what you choose to do. Because your only going to be judge by what you do. Not what others do. They have their own choices they will be judged by. The only time it matters is when it affects not only your life but the lives of others and those after you. Everybody has a choice. And I chose not to be like the world. People disliked me since the time of my birth. Be it family, so-called friends who left my life, or other people. I had people-pleased and got rejected everywhere. In and out of the church. People at the end of the day are people. And we are all sinners and fall short of the glory of God. All of us. But it's free will. I have my walk, others have theirs. This world is going and decaying. When are people ever going to wake up, I may never know. But I cannot worry about it. But it's your choice if you choose to. Just know it won't benefit your life but waste it.
“Just like there is Arachnophobia, Acrophobia, Aquaphobia, etc. Phobia means fear. I am philopobic. Or have similarities to philophobia, the fear of love.”
Yea well those are fears of things and fear of feelings, not the same as homophobia/transphobia aka as you described as “fear” towards human beings for who they are.
Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT). It has been defined as contempt, prejudice, aversion, hatred or antipathy, may be based on irrational fear and ignorance, and is often related to religious beliefs.
“Do I actually FEAR love? No. Hate love? No. Dislike it? No. But do I dislike and hate what people do in the name of love and use it to be selfish and hurt people? YES.”
Well said, this applies for your “opinion” on homosexuality as well. You dislike what people do in the name of love and use it to be selfish and hurt people, this doesn’t apply for homosexuality since the sexuality itself is neither selfish or hurtful.
“ Do I suffer trauma from people because of who I love or loved? YES. But it doesn't mean I dislike it or hate it. Nor do I hate romance or healthy relationships. But my gentle heart and loving nature were skewed and broken by the things of the world.”
Well said. You also justified why people shouldn’t hate on others just because they have had bad experiences with it.
“I have met and know people who aren't straight a never had a problem with my beliefs. FUNNY enough many so-called straight people seem to.”
Depends on which belief you’re talking about, but if you’re talking about this one:
“I don't agree with homosexuality because it is a sin before God. I see it as sin no different than having premarital sex, watching porn, masturbating, getting drunk, etc. Things GOD says it's wrong. That is not just my opinion, but a fact in his eyes. My opinion is that however way God has it, goes, and he is in control. I don't like it, and I don't agree with it. Does that make me fear them? No. They're people like everybody else. Do I want what they have going on? No. I rather not as with anybody. Real homophobia or any phobia is literally scared like your life is about to perish and you need to run for your life, situation. And right now that's exactly what others are creating with these laws to allow all sorts of things.”
LGBT people are probably just having enough shit and the last thing they want is to argue with religious folks since nothing anyone say will matter except for God. And for the straight ones, they’re probably aren’t tired yet since they don’t have to deal with homophobia their entire lives, that’s why they chose to argue and disagree with you.
“Real homophobia or any phobia is literally scared like your life is about to perish and you need to run for your life, situation.”
“And that is the wrong meaning. Phobia/Phobos is FEAR. Not dislike or hatred. They say that to promote the agenda that it's wrong to disagree with the lifestyle choice. You can hate it and not hate the person. When you hate a specific person, then it's prejudice.”
First of all… no, you don’t run for your life when you’re homophobic tf. Homophobia is a negative attitude toward homosexual people. Some authors have often defined homophobia as an irrational fear either of contact with homosexual people or of one's own suppressed homosexuality. Social scientists however claim that homophobia is a typical prejudice.
“"If you are bi, for example, an somebody say “in my opinion, bisexual people cheat”, don’t you feel like their “opinion” is full of ignorant and filled with prejudice?" Not really. Just like people all want to say Christians are religious, hate sex, etc. And that is far from the truth.”
Tbh the example you just gave about people saying “ Christians are religious, hate sex, etc.” is called prejudice.
Prejudice is an affective feeling towards a person based on their perceived group membership. The word is often used to refer to a preconceived, usually unfavourable, evaluation of another person based on that person's political affiliation, sex, gender, beliefs, values, social class, age, disability, religion, sexuality, race/ethnicity, language, nationality, beauty, occupation, education, criminality, sport team affiliation or other personal characteristics.
“ Everybody basically cheats, if not cheated at something at some point. I cheated before when I was extremely young, and I got caught cheating on the test. What am I going to do? Continue to whine about what I cheated on? No. I had to own up and I got punished for it. And the answer to that particular question is yes. Bisexual people cheat. But do ALL of them cheat? No. Gay people cheat too. I KNOW such people who did. So that automatically gets an answer. Do I know straight people who cheated? Yep. Do ALL cheat? No.”
There you go, you just explain why the prejudice in the statement “all bisexuals cheat” simple isn’t true, that all types of people cheat. I hope this now helps you understand better what prejudice means.
“Don't get caught up with the foolishness. That's why there is no love or understanding in this world.”
Well said. Now say can you say it again?
“If you don't think that Asians should come it, I wouldn't find it racist. There is no such thing as race anyway.”
A race is a grouping of humans based on shared physical or social qualities into categories generally viewed as distinct by society. The term was first used to refer to speakers of a common language and then to denote national affiliations.
Sociologists, in general, recognize "race" as a social construct. This means that, although the concepts of race and racism are based on observable biological characteristics, any conclusions drawn about race on the basis of those observations are heavily influenced by cultural ideologies. Racism, as an ideology, exists in a society at both the individual and institutional level.
rac·ism
/ˈrāˌsizəm/
noun
prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.
2. the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another.
“Is there a logical reason or more for our safety or the safety of other countries? I would only agree when there is a pose to security potentially or if I see they wouldn't thrive well in a country I now rather not be in.”
In terms of political systems (e. g., apartheid) that support the expression of prejudice or aversion in discriminatory practices or laws, racist ideology may include associated social aspects such as nativism, xenophobia, otherness, segregation, hierarchical ranking, and supremacism
“Just like in Japan they don't like certain foreigners, and rightly so.”
A recent study of implicit bias by Matsumoto University psychologist Kazuo Mori notes that Japanese have an implicit bias against blacks, concluding that “Japanese participants showed an implicit preference for ‘white people’ over ‘black people.’ ” Mori suggests that this bias may be the product of the “media in which whites are used ‘for delivering a good message.’ “
In a letter to The Japan Times last month, a reader complained of racial profiling at Chubu Centrair International Airport’s arrival area where, while waiting to greet an older relative with his 4-year-old son, he was approached by airport police, the fourth time out of six trips to the airport. Of 40 people in the area, it was only they, two conspicuous non-Japanese, who were singled out.
Those who have attempted to dismantle the myth of a racism-free Japan have usually faced harsh criticism. U. N. Special Rapporteur Doudou Diene’s 2006 report on racism and ethnic discrimination in Japan was largely ignored by the Japanese media and severely criticized by right-wing commentators.
Now can you say it is right to “not like certain foreigners”?
“Because I know myself. I know my identity. I know who I am, how I'm made, what I'm made for, born whole, born complete, born to love, and born to fulfill my purpose. It all comes from within. The soul knows. It doesn't confuse things. Only people trying to confuse things. And it's up to us to accept that identity, form a new one, or reject it.”
Alright, what if they say “all Christians are filled with rage and hatred”? That is a prejudice against Christianity and you know yourself, you know you are not like that and you will try to defend yourself and maybe your friends or family who happens to be Christian. Imagine if people try to spread that type of hatred towards Christianity to the extend where the government has to force churches to close down and executed people who practice Christianity. Imagine how it feels like.
@gaygod_19
As long as I am secure in my relationship, I know what that already feels like. This is why we need Jesus. Because this world will not change with sin in it. People will do it because they hated him before they hated me. It will happen and I have foreseen it. And I'm at a point where I am ready for it.
Pleas stop telling me what is the definition of things. I have took classes on it and is very well educated on what is and isn't. It is very much the same as homophobia and transphobia. It is not a FEAR about people being who or what they choose to be. It is not contributed to religious beliefs regardless did religion. Humans naturally have a great understand of rogjy and wrong. You clearly have a bias and it's obvious you been hurt so now you want to dictate and do the very thinking you say you hate. Pleas don't drag me into it of you have no respect for others. I have told you the difference and you choose to put words in my mouth. What is your problem? I can run and walk and do whatever I wish as long as free will allows me as you do. I am 28 years old. Don't go around disrespecting people. This is why you yourself get treated that way with your self righteous attitude.
No, a lot of people are the way they are because they see the toxicity of what you bring. Your no different than the racist, the predujice, the religious, etc. You behave and act the same way. It is people rights to not like certain things. Those people at the airport made an error in judgement. I know a heck of a lot about Japan and some places more than you know. It goes on, but I don't let it bother me. When you choose to be hostile back, and violet solely because of how you was treated then you only doing the very same thing. Two wrongs don't make a right. And I know not to treat people solely because they disagree with me poorly. The authors you want to reference are part of that movement. They delicately have it changed or their ones themselves. Either way, it's their opinion, it is not fact. And now even many Gays are sick of it too. I have spoken yo many of them. They don't like others who do what your doing either. They live their lives in peace when they can as with anybody else. They don't go parading what they are. They mind their business as do other people. You want to talk about what is selfish and hurtful? Look at how you respond to people as if their dumb? That is a false conscious bias. Not every person who is part of the LGBTQA and at this point even letter in the alphabet are like you. So don't speak for all homosexual people. Like l don't speak for all Christians. Your energy is toxic. And you want to attack others who doesn't accept what you choose to do or live as enemies.
And you know what? You will usher for everyone to be executed who won't comply. Not just Christians. It's happening all over the world and it's soon to happen in this country. And yes, it will be legal. You don't want peace. You people like and love war. But judge God. If this is how you people speak peace, I don't know what your war is.
actually, you chose to define those words in your own definition and it just makes no sense to me. Definition exists for a reason, you can't just make up your own definition with zero sense. If you said you have taken classes then how come your "definition" and understandings are just not there (no offense) by the way if everyone dislikes you (like you said) then you probably would wanna take a look at yourself since not everybody hate one person for no reason. I'm just saying.
That is not my own definition, that is exactly what it is. I don't go changing it or the rules of language. No I looked at myself more than enough to know that a lot of people just don't like the truth because they hate the truth. I accept you for what it is, I don't have to go around sugarcoating to people and not to do I have to change things to fit my fancy. Because everything that I could lie say I have took classes on and a lot of people had agreed with it. So it has nothing to do with them. Have to do with people like you. Definition to always been made up by people if not made up by somebody who has higher knowledge than others. And that high and knowledge goes to God it doesn't go to us because we ourselves don't go around making up things without already having desire to make up things. The word itself does not have meaning. It's only when you give meaning to the word is when it has meaning. If you knew that so much they needed to go back to communication class and learn it. Spring semester ended last month. How you figure? Because I can guarantee you that ain't my own definition. Look up root words and study it.
ok now you listen: A lot of gay people are like that because our society have shaped them into thinking homosexuality is wrong. What you just described is internalized homophobia (feel free to educate yourself, since you never listen to what people have to say and just admit you didn't make sense before) You are the one who is spreading hate and ignoring injustice (And by the way what makes you think you know better than somebody?) I'm just saying, if your ego is too big to be proven wrong in some aspects then I don't know what else to tell ya.
@gaygod_19
No. A lot of gay people are like that because of trauma. Not society. If they always had a problem, theu needed to fix it. Not condone it. Society affects everybody. But how society handles it creates either negative or positive effects. Society did it their way and not God's way. I do not have internalize homophobia. I am very well and made sense of a lot of different things. I have family members and I have friends who are homosexual. I knew this stuff since I was a child. I don't go around ignoring and justices. I don't go around spreading hate. I spread the truth. And if people want to live in that, that's their choice. That's not for me to judge. That's what God of Judge. I'm not here to be proven wrong and neither am I here to prove you right. I don't care what you choose to do with your life. All I care about is what you choose to do with it when it affects other people. I am very well educated on the spirituality of people as well as a physical aspects of others. I listen very well to what you had to say, but you are the one that chose not to listen because you already have problems. And that is not my problem if you choose not to fix it with people in your life. Don't do unto others you dont want some to you.
You're the one that really need to evaluate why you think it's so right. Because if it was so right like I tell a lot of people with other things, if it was so right you would not be having as much problems as every other person who is not homosexual. What makes it worse y'all have it far worse amongst yourselves and is still unhappy. Never truly satisfied. That's an internal problem. Not an external problem. That's brokeness within. And generational curses. I know where it comes from. For those who practiced into cults and other things and theu brought it into the bloodline. Out of all the nation's around the world, we have the most highest influx of homosexual people as oppose to other nations. Highest influx of mental illness, life dissatisfaction, marital decline, etc. Why? You better seriously further educate yourself and dig much deeper than the surface level your too comfortable in. Because you don't know how very deep this goes. You really don't know. It will scare even you. I am not here for that. Never once have I made assumptions about you or judge you. But now you have giving me a reason. You judge others by how others have judged you. So now you treat everybody the same. You think that's right? Practice self awareness and be mindful of others.
tbh i listened to you very clearly, I even analyzed your paragraphs (and for sure I did not twist your words) You are the one with the problem, every time you can't justify something, you put the job on God. Grow up. by the way you are also the one who is going around saying things people do are sins because it is against your God. You are the actual problem here, not me, but you. And you for sure one hundred percent have no place to speak for all gay people and what is going on in their mind. You have never been in their shoes, you will never be able to understand with your ignorant self. And yes, I said it, you are ignoring injustice and instead justifying for it. Prove me wrong.
You honestly need to look at yourself and stop with the reverse psychology bhllcrap. No you only listen to what you wanted to listen to. And it's very evident with how you choose to reply to me, and how you choose to come walk with people. Nothing of what you said was justifiable. It was just your way to try to one-up on somebody because you want to try to win out of the bed when this is not a debate. I told you exactly what I needed to tell you, and if you don't want to hear that, that's your problem. If I didn't want to hear certain things, of course that's my problem. But I don't make it my problem because I don't care about that silly stuff. I'm very much grow up sweetheart you haven't grown up yet. Because you argue and you debate like a child. You have nothing to actually dispute was to justify your claim because again you have a False Consensus bias and you can accept the fact that everybody don't think like you. I don't have to speak for all gay people cuz I'm not. I'm speaking for all the ones who aren't toxic as you. Because you're just as toxic as those hate. I don't justify it. So don't go around thinking you know me because you don't know me. And I will tell you no different offline as it is online. Anything you want to say about me you actually speaking about yourself because you choose to be ignorant of the things around you because you want the world to revolve around you. Well I'm sorry to say the world don't revolve around you. When are you going to learn that yet at 21 years old. I can be another shoes and I empathize with you very well. But what's wrong is wrong. What's right is right. You want to do wrong there are consequences, you do what's right there are Rewards. There's no inconsistency here. You choose to be contradicting and you being a hypocrite. And with every post you want to reply proves it more more more without even having me to do much of the work for you. You basically done it for yourself.
Your argument is weak, it ain't based on logic, is based on you being emotional instead of giving straight facts. And the fact is you wanted use all of that so you can actually give a fallacy. Do that to people who likes that negativity. Not me.
The problem has been long before since you and I were born. So how am I the problem when I'll do is I speak about the problem? Is damned if you do, damned if you don't. So nothing of what you say even fazes me. This is why you kind of people get ignored because you love attention. I have been said many times to be a psychotherapist, therapist or counselor so I think I know a lot more about the ecology than you actually think I do. And I know manipulation tactics when I see and and hear them. You're the one with the Prejudice no different from those who are just as spiteful and hateful. Same goal, different sides. I even met some who are homosexual themselves and even they hate it too with what your doing. But no. That ain't enough for you. You have to make them pick a side even though they already did. Hypocrite. Because everything you want to talk about you're actually just talkin about yourself. Because you're the one that have a self hate problem. And I can tell you haven't been loved much. And or suffered abuse. You are not the only one of so that have suffered abuse.
You are NOT the only one who has been called lesbian or asexual for refusing to lust after men for sex, or have premarital sex. Told your religious, a prude, and how you must be abnornal. Your a weird, too different, too emotional, a freak, too shy, too reserved, untalented. Who gets bullied everyday. Who gets threatened by people. Shunned by people. People dumping their baggage on you. Saying yes without learning to say no. Even when you sense and know it's wrong, you done it anyway just to be liked. And where do the other people go after they tell you to do it and theu did the Same? They point the finger at you and say you did it. They don't get in trouble. They don't even get as punished as much. But you get the full one. You don't know what it's like to get hit with a belt. To get welts on your skin. Rarely bruises. To scream and shout for somebody to help you and thyme don't. To be told you'll go to foster care if you don't listen. To be sent away. For friends to abandon you. Steal from you, curse you, curse at you, promote violence and fights. To almost be homeless twice. I had it ALL. And you know who still loved me? JESUS! Who preserved my life when I was threatened yo be killed by People? JESUS. When I needed encouragement and I had no where to turn, the word of God was there. And who kept my sanity? JESUS. Who gave me new friends? JESUS.
Who taught me right from wrong? JESUS. My parents couldn't do it, they were too busy arguing and fighting with each other. As I told many my home life and how I grew was FAR from Christian. I was expose to adult matters and the things about the world extremely young. I know what it'sike to be a bully victim, a victim of prejudice, racism, sexual harrassment and by extension assault. I know far more than you know and you have the AUDACITY to judge me. Assume about Me. Tell me what I don't know and will never know or understand. It doesn't matter your creed, race, nationalities, gender, sex, being straight or being gay, the color of your skin, or whatever. We all SUFFER. human being are FLAWED. Jesus walked with gays and sinner, but he still called it a Sin. He knew that the Romans in the Greece was stealing from people by overtaxing and what did he say? Give what belongs to Caesar to Caesar, and what belongs to the Lord to the Lord! He walked with fornicators and people of divorce, and he said what he said. Divorce is a sin, and whoever divorces and marry another, except for infildelty commits aduktary. The rules are there for a reason. So what the hell goes on around here is not for me to stop. Because it's been prophesied long before any of us have came to existence. It's going to happen anyway because it is the desires of humans. If man chooses to twist God's word and scriptures because of their sinful desires, God knows already. He knows the hearts and desires of man. He made us. He knew us long before we knew him. So if people chose one thing when God says it's another, that is choice! Like this one pastor who spoke the truth. The same Bible that blesses can be the same Bible that condemns you. It's laws of heaven. When you sin your body decay' s, you lose your youth, you lose your possessions and blessings, things fall apart. If your family is in sin, everyone is affected.
alright then stick with your Jesus. You were the illogical ones by the way, you speak from your feelings and your own opinion and JESUS CHRIST. But i spoke based on my own opinion, my feelings towards your entitlement and facts. Everything you said about me basically applies to you, don't believe me? GO ask everybody around you WITHOUT TWISTING WHAT YOU SAID JUST NOW. And sure, when it comes to right and wrong the only thing you would rely on for an answer is JESUS and your own ignorant self. If you want to drag GOD in our conversation EVERY SINGLE TIME you wanna say something is wrong or right, then i see no point in us arguing. Maybe i don't know shit about religion, maybe you should argue with another religious junkhead. Bye.
When it's clear there is hate leading the conversation. Everyone is entitled to their opinion no matter how ignorant, but when the opinion becomes aggressive with no respect for the people being spoken of then it becomes phobic to me.
"I think all gay men wear heels, use purses, and wear makeup." That's an opinion. It's wrong, but it's an opinion.
"All trans people are disgusting and probably are just angry they can't get laid so had to switch genders to try out the other side." That is aggressive, wrong, and disrespectful. That is phobic and also something I have read someone say before.
Ok this is pretty easy to explain. it's called context. If someone said Ugh gay people, this would be offensive if someone said i don't personally agree with people been into the same sex that's an opinion a dumb one for sure. But it is an opinion. That wasn't said to entice any bad feelings to someone who is gay it's just saying you don't agree with it.
The point your like Ugh gay people are disgusting that is enticing hate. It's all about the way it's said.
I wouldn't be friends with someone as different opinions on these things anyway there logic is flawed. Even if it's not enticing hate. However jokes are okay because of there not supposed to be taken serious unless if it is a "Joke" one were it is said as a joke but the person is really just using to actually say what they believe which if your smart you can tell the difference.
Don't make it any less. But it is far better than acting ignorant about it and basically thinking everyone should just think the same and everyone should think it. And that it's okay for them just to attack people. Saying in such a way don't mean your attacking someone.
Otherwise everything is attacking everyone and we all become snowflakes. If i say "i personally don't like dogs" and someone takes that as something which i didn't say like "All dogs should die off" That's not my problem that's called them distorting words to come off hateful.
The question is not if it's less racist the question is what was the intent. Was the intent to be just cruel? Or was it just info to say what you don't like?
It's homophobic opinion but it is not trying to go out of it's way to hurt someone
Depends on the reasoning for the aggression and how deep the reasoning for the treatment.
For example... is it considered cheating if the 2 people are the same sex?
If you ask that, many people will consider it "Less than" cheating compared to if it was 2 people of opposite sexes.
Why is that? Is it because the person feels less threaten they are being replaced by their own sex? Does it fall into the "Just Curious" section of sexual desire?
Summary: The fear of how the person is being invaded when the other person is around can tell if it is just an opinion or a real chance of a reaction to fear.
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If someone asks your stance on something or if you say something in a passive manner that is related to the conversation in question then it's an opinion. If you're homophobic (and such), then it's a stance or perceived mental moral breach regarding a certain group of people. You can easily spot different between an opinion and that when the person spreading those ideals is trying to impose them onto others, usually in a hostile manner.
"Just an opinion" :
Someone disagrees about the fact that same sex marriage is right or that changing ur gender is totally ok but still doesn't try to insult anyone.
Homophobic/Transpobic/Biphobic:
Try their hardest to insult LGBTQ members
The burden of proof is on the accuser. If i accused someone of being homophobic, then I'd damn well better show evidence where they've been discriminatory or bigoted towards gay people. Sharing an "unpopular opinion" is probably not admissible evidence (unless it's left to the court of public opinion, coz people love a witch hunt amd will get behind any accusation without a lick of proof)
Most people that are any of those above try to disguise themselves with "it's just my opinion". That's bs. If you are going to say that, at least own up that you are one of those.
Its like porn. I can't define exactly what it is but I know it when I see it
When you hate someone due to these factors, instead of just disagreeing with their outlook.
When ones opinion becomes really offensive I say it's phobic.
Who defines "offensive"? The offended party?
What if this comment offends me? Can I claim you're being phobic?
Anyone can be offended over anything. I think its more important to identify the intentions of the person who holds the "offensive" opinion. Being offended is just the reaction to some past event. It's the event itself that should be analysed.
@SomeGuyCalledTom While it is subjective, there are social norms. (Doesn't make it right or wrong) I'd say it comes down to context.
Fair enough
I couldn't care it's stupid they just don't piss people off from being gay now the trans then what?
When the opinion becomes an irrational fear.
I dont agree with gays and think its wrong 100%
They’re all just opinions.
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