Would you stay with a cheating man?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 12 years has always cheated on me. Recently he told me he’s been talking to another woman for the last 2 years and they never had sex, just blow jobs. He wants to work on our relationship. I do love him but he’s always cheated. What do I do? I recently moved out because I can’t get along with his 17 year old daughter. Should I just end things? He’s being so nice and calling me all the time now.

[Sentimental_Stoic]

Forgiveness is an incentive for more hurt u said... And u also said u love him...
So is it the pain that he gives u that u love...
What exactly do u love about him...
His cheating personality..
His manipulation...
His indifference towards how you'd feel about him being with other girls...
I've an indefinite list...
So, What do u love about him?

[Shivvy123]

Do you honestly think the loves you when he's cheating on you? You need to leave this relationship! Don't be flattered because he's now calling you all the time and wants to fix it. He just never thought you'd leave and he's butt hurt. It's not love, it's his ego. He wants his cake and to eat it too. He's making a complete ass out of you and you're letting him. Get some pride and end it.

[Anonymous]

Husband, maybe if he is truly sorry (if it happens more than once divorce); boyfriend gets ditched faster than dropping a sack of bricks.

[madgoat]

Yes, end things. He's a serial cheater who will continue to be so and you're enabling him. And his daughter is a handful. You're out. You've already done the work. Be strong.

[Fuentes]

Maybe u should get some self esteem and leave i ain't having no chick cheat on me not even once

[sensible27]

Forgiveness is sometimes an incentive.

[Asker]

For what? More hurt?

[sensible27]

Yeah, sometimes... maybe... people get comfortable hurting you. Or maybe think they are not...

[Asker]

That’s interesting. I think maybe he’s comfortable

[hknmhmn4]

Never

[Dragonstarterplus]

Sorry but you're dumb

[Asker]

Thank you. We don’t have kids together and he owns the house so at times I feel dumb. But I do love him. He said he really wants to try now. I asked the other woman to stay away from him.

[Anonymous]

No but I stayed with a cheating girl though

[Asker]

Are you still together?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes we are