Guys, at what age are you quitting the fuck-boy role?

[RiJox]

These days, guys have Instagram Snapchat dating apps and constantly highlighting that “they just want to have fun”.

This shit is so old, creating stupid reasons to “why Being in a relationship is so bad” but they don’t want - 1 night stand - but occasional sex instead. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ they just don’t want to assume any responsibility regarding the girl.

At what age are you going to stop risking your sexual health and time, having meaningless sexual relationships?

Cheers

[Yuushiro]

Well... there's a little bit of background you need.

Women go through a similar phase in college because they feel free, like they can do whatever they want and have all the time in the world. (Yes, I'm generalizing, don't kill me please) Once they get around 35 though, they realize they want to settle down. All of this amounts to women having the value in dating at a younger age, while men end up having the value at an older age.

Because of this, older guys can do basically whatever the hell they want relationship wise because women hold less "value" to them, the the man does to the women.

And your answer... never. Once a fuckboy, always a fuckboy. There are actually a large number of guys who do want serious relationships in their 20s, but they either find women and get married, or get toyed with, and refuse to ever date another woman.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but once you're past 40, there's not really much hope.

[wankiam]

thers a fair few women like that too you know? i see you are 23 so all i can say is what you are really witnessing is the time delay between women maturing and guys... a couple more years and you will see a large majority of guys your own age will want more too so dont give up all hope just yet

[Anonymous]

Most guys I knew didn’t stop being fuck boys - they never started.

for those that did? Those who started early are most likely to get over it faster, while those who struggle with women until they improve their game often lose some of their respect for women in the process. But in either case guys who were fucking around often stop doing that when they want a family.

Of course if they didn’t grow up with an involved dad and don’t see themselves becoming one, they are least likely to ever settle down.

[Derekk]

They're not risking their sexual health and time if they a) practice safe sex and b) actually want it and don't see it as "wasting time". I get that you want a larger dating pool of people that value what you value, but there's no reason to be so assuming.

Anyways... all of my relationships have begun with a friends with benefits situation for what it's worth. In my experience, planning relationships typically ends in disappointment.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

When we find a woman who has something to offer us other than their bodies.

Let me put this in terms you'll understand. If a guy isn't commiting to you, it's YOUR FAULT. Not ours, not the "patriarchy's," not our moms', all yours.

Step it up.

[Zeus_66]

Same story. Different generation. Vanity always has a way of creeping into our lives. If you say it is getting old, the game is a lot older than you think. Any man or woman engaged in this lifestyle is likely to be shallow to begin with. Don't waste your time. Wasted energy. Go out and find in touch people that provide you with a sense of differing opinions, confidence, and challenge.

Best of luck.

[ElDiablo666]

My darling, I'm 32, and since I was 13 I've only ever wanted proper relationships.
If that comes with sex, bonus, but sex isn't everything.

My first girlfriend was when I was 6, we went everywhere together and we were best friends. We kissed every now and then, and held hands sometimes. Obviously sex was never in our minds then.
... I miss her.

[djmzes]

Simple

[RHK36]

Depends, are girls going to stop sleeping with those guys. Both sides are guilty of not wanting meaningful relationships and are in favor of no strings attached.

[Anonymous]

Most don’t engage in that behaviour at all. The problem is that you’re selecting guys on instragram and deciding that it represents all guys... or even all guys on instragram... or even the guys you’re pointing at.

[Anonymous]

I quit having casual sex once I found a woman I felt was worth settling down with. Most of the women I met were not.

[Don-_-Don]

Being a fuckboy isn't something that you quit. I never heard of such a thing.

[Dragonstarterplus]

When women stop falling for it

[blkgold33]

Whenever I get my happy meal from McDonald's

[Disguise]

Probably when girls stop being bitch girl role...

[Anonymous]

they dont, once a fuck boi always a fuck boi

[Anonymous]

Aha i never was one to begin i won't start either

[Hydrogen]

Depends on guy

[Liam_Hayden]

I quit at 20.

[asshole_]

When was I ever?