Why does my boyfriend lay down on my lap and want me to stroke his hair like his mom did when he was little?

[JustJen]

He does it all the time, and often falls asleep.

[Angelo75]

Maybe some old trauma or he really misses being pampered? (which is a trauma)

On the other hand, he trusts u very deeply to ask that from you. So maybe u can see it as some kinda intimate connection.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is a sign he has great trust in you. Do you not like it?

[JustJen]

I love it

[missygurl]

Ohmygod, that’s soo cute! I literally would do this for my boyfriend all the time, if I had one.


He most likely finds it comforting and soothing (if he’s stressed out, it helps).

[blutwolfe]

Nice to know there's women out there like you, it's refreshing

[missygurl]

Aww thanks!

[coderedcerberusnight]

It's a very nice sensation to have your hair pet and to just lay down on someone's lap for attention...

I personally go crazy for it lol.

[worldscolide]

because it feels good, because you make him feel safe, because he loves you.. need i go on..

[worldscolide]

on a side note, my wife does this for me if my day has been particularly stressful.

[Feminine_Grace]

I had sex for the first time yesterday with a guy and he fell asleep suck on my nipples

[SandandWaves]

I am that way... i do that..

[CasaNorba]

his mom probably never did this to him as a kid

[Sylvanas_Windrunner]

Cause it's comforting and relaxing

[phatdrummer650]

It's relaxing and feels good

[Anonymous]

All guys like to be pet. I know I would..

[Anonymous]

He has mommy issues.